Sugar Daddy Sites

[FarFarAway]

I am pursuing a mostly different demographic than commonly discussed here. I also haven't had an active profile on seeking lately. I become obsessed w / it when I can message, so I must take it in small doses. I get my fix in other ways, though. One, a free site called pantydeal, which is a poor substitute, because there is essentially no geographic search function. I also got a paid profile on establishedmen for a month ($60). I will review it separately, on the Richmond thread. I didn't get much from it, but the real profiles I found there were mostly older, and not necessarily all SBs. That is, some girls civvy dating.

I had my first FC yesterday w / one I met from there. She's a petite Barbie, blond / big (fake) tits, quite beautiful, a nurse turned realtor and single mom. 30's. Reported a past 5 year arrangement, so knows the ropes. Able to get a hotel, necessary for me as I have a SO. Advertised herself well at the M&G, and I wasn't disappointed. She said she wanted her man to lead, but she wasn't as submissive as some I have met in the bowl, so the sex was pretty straightforward. One thing I ask is that they tell me when they are going to cum. I think this encourages them to be vocal. I had already been playing w / her pussy / clit when I said this, and as I suspected, she told me she already had cum once.

We went through a standard repertoire, she provided a light BJ (w / someone new, I am careful what I allow since I don't know how intense they are going to be) and I returned the favor orally. Many more Os for her, I like to explore my girls, G-spot and cervix massages are usually well appreciated. When I finally suited up and started her missionary, her cooch was a perfect match for me. I am 6 feet+, and proportional, so a tiny girl can be an issue. I find the petite MILFs get stretched just the right amount to be warm wet and cozy but not shouting into Grand Canyon. I had a FC w / a 20's girl about a year ago, and when I was fingering her, I could barely get 1 finger in to the second knuckle. When she begged me to fuck her, my reaction was 'how is this going to work?' Actually I was able to get junior in, but she was way tight of course, and that wasn't a recipe for a marathon. I would have wanted to see her again, she was very beautiful (firm breasts), but she was one-and-done, her choice.

Anyway, lots of fun w / Barbie, got way deep when she put her ankles on my shoulders, she is cumming all the while, I slide her 90° and go in sideways, she says that hits her clit. I flip her on over to get in from behind, which gets pretty intense for me. A pause then let me get her on top and I just told her to go for it so we both came that way. I looked at the clock, time flew, we'd been at it over an hour, and I had to run for an appointment.

I'll definitely see this girl again, she's sweet, and I can have her weekly for about 1 K / mo. It fits my budget, and my situation is best addressed by a regular. BTW, I found out essentially everything about her IRL because she wasn't that savvy about security, etc. , something that is an insurance policy for me and a little different than many on seeking.

[Dctator1]

This weeks POTS.

1 - mostly in agreement. But hard to turn down a 5' babydoll. Love to see her this weekend. A great one and done if nothing else.

2 - classy looks, very pretty. Seemed interested at first, but hasnt logged into the site for a week.

3 - in full agreement but lives too freaking far. Comes to LA sometimes. I have just been too busy to make the effort. And no overpriced ubers. So I just have to wait.

Between my work, my GF and my not so new little girl I have very little time (or money) to spare these days.

Every time I see you post pics of new girls it makes me want to join SA, but then I think there is no way there can be any girls left. And then you post more pics of girls you are in negotiations with. My god you rock. I am being left behind LOL.

[HollywoodGuy]

It was #3399.

1 - "photoshop of Gigi Hadid" uses a fake pic.

2 - "I love traveling! = GPS most of the time.

3 - "I like to be spoiled getting help with bills" spoiling and bills = GPS.

4 - "worldly" = GPS.

I guess if you can afford to spoil a 28 year old with no pic and pay her bills, then go for it. Tell me she wants less than 2 k-3 k a month. I won't believe it.

[Ognib]

I would need to know the post # to recall that one.

Today my not so new little girl informed me that she moved in with a SD and is now getting 2k a month allowance on top of it. This is a good thing and something we had talked about many times. I helped upgrade her profile and very quickly she found someone. I am sure it will go to 3k a month once all her meals etc are figured in. She moved very close to me so seeing her on the side will be pretty easy logistically. And at this point except for some inexpensive gifts I plan to just turn off the sugar. I consider it a win win situation. We will see how tight a reign he keeps on her, but this is not a girl you can tie down. She has her friends and she likes to party and go out.

It was #3399.

[The Tall Man]

This weeks POTS.

1 - mostly in agreement. But hard to turn down a 5' babydoll. Love to see her this weekend. A great one and done if nothing else.

2 - classy looks, very pretty. Seemed interested at first, but hasnt logged into the site for a week.

3 - in full agreement but lives too freaking far. Comes to LA sometimes. I have just been too busy to make the effort. And no overpriced ubers. So I just have to wait.

Between my work, my GF and my not so new little girl I have very little time (or money) to spare these days.

I enjoyed reading all of your adventures and posts for a long time, I too feel your pain as circumstances change, heck I recall just a couple years ago I had many cuties to choose from but again circumstances and life changes and so am out of this venue (sugar daddy girls) for the past almost 2 years.

Time to move on!

The Tall Man.

[HollywoodGuy]

HG- I do have one question. Not so many posts ago you mentioned to a fine gentleman asking advice that a particular profile 'had red flags all over it. Just stop the communication'. I looked at the profile and saw nothing that tweaked my attention. What gives? Also, I think I will incorporate your 'terms' you mention and see how I can spin that one.

Og.

I would need to know the post # to recall that one.

Today my not so new little girl informed me that she moved in with a SD and is now getting 2k a month allowance on top of it. This is a good thing and something we had talked about many times. I helped upgrade her profile and very quickly she found someone. I am sure it will go to 3k a month once all her meals etc are figured in. She moved very close to me so seeing her on the side will be pretty easy logistically. And at this point except for some inexpensive gifts I plan to just turn off the sugar. I consider it a win win situation. We will see how tight a reign he keeps on her, but this is not a girl you can tie down. She has her friends and she likes to party and go out.

[Ognib]

Not in this area but have been an avid student of this thread (and the Richmond thread, etc) for a long time, and there are a few things I have learned. I'm in about as middle of the midwest as one can be and can attest to HG's messaging method. It works. Probably not as well as on the coasts, but it does generate interest-and the pics I have up are borderline creepy (so I have been told. LOL). I usually send out the standard message #1 and wait. I have not done the stats but I would say I get a 40-50% reply rate. If the reply is just to see my private photos I generally move on. After they reply, I will shoot message #2, which has been tweaked a bit to my taste. You can tell it gets their attention because the replies then come much faster. The girls around here are. Girls I guess, because I will get replies that say that is just what they are looking for but if you turn the conversation a bit sexual many times they back off on that part. The 18-20 yos are the most flighty; older than that seem to mostly get it. I'm in the middle of a back and forth with a HG type of girl and have been really tip toeing. Is in to message #2, and wants to meet. I mention that I don't pay just to meet and she is ok with that but wants to meet a handful of times and see if we have chemistry (I push the needing a connection / chemistry thing). I mention again that I don't pay just to meet and she blasts back the 'what do you pay for?. I am not a prostitute! Message. I almost stopped my communication with her, but thought 'WWHGD'. LOL, and answered back with "I can tell this wouldn't work out if you look at this as getting paid to do something. Mutual companionship is offered and enjoyed and the allowance is given to help you out with your needs because I want to. That is why I need some kind of a connection. I want you to WANT to please and be pleased. Do I want an intimate relationship?-yes. Blah blah blah twisted message #2 again blah blah I understand not every girl is in to this blah blah I don't judge". I really thought the conversation was over but the response was I think we need to discuss this in person. Have not discussed allowance yet but an interesting reply from her was 'I did word that very crudely. From my short experience on here that's what guys treat it as, almost like a transaction. They offer to give me money and I give them love or sex. I was looking for something emotionally and mutually beneficial but they looked at it as basically paying me to do things for them so my view of men on this sight has changed as more messages made it clear they were looking for only discreet private time. It made me forget that there are people on here to want the connection and I am very sorry for assuming off of what I've experienced so far. I do feel like we want the same thing and for it to not be treated as an allowance / transaction but a mutually beneficial relationship. ".

Let this be a lesson?. And note she mentions nothing in her profile about FWB or anything to hint intimacy. Don't pay attention to what they post. They will either respond or they won't and sometimes you may be surprised.

HG- I do have one question. Not so many posts ago you mentioned to a fine gentleman asking advice that a particular profile 'had red flags all over it. Just stop the communication'. I looked at the profile and saw nothing that tweaked my attention. What gives? Also, I think I will incorporate your 'terms' you mention and see how I can spin that one.

Og.

[HollywoodGuy]

This weeks POTS.

1 - mostly in agreement. But hard to turn down a 5' babydoll. Love to see her this weekend. A great one and done if nothing else.

2 - classy looks, very pretty. Seemed interested at first, but hasnt logged into the site for a week.

3 - in full agreement but lives too freaking far. Comes to LA sometimes. I have just been too busy to make the effort. And no overpriced ubers. So I just have to wait.

Between my work, my GF and my not so new little girl I have very little time (or money) to spare these days.

[HollywoodGuy]

60 is the upper limit.

Thats sad... lol.. I once had an 18 year old that said she loved everything about me, except one thing. That I wasnt over 70. True story

[Mile22]

I see on some of the profiles now, that girls have an age range listed. It seems to always top out at 60. Is that as high as it allows them to go?

60 is the upper limit.

[HollywoodGuy]

I see on some of the profiles now, that girls have an age range listed. It seems to always top out at 60. Is that as high as it allows them to go?

[HollywoodGuy]

Yea. Normally that's what I would've done & have done in the past.

I just thought it'd be funny to call her out since her profile text says she isn't an escort, and that it's offensive to approach her as though she is (go figure).

If a girl says anything about that in her profile, I will not message her. And OK. Cool.

[Mile22]

When you are new (and sometimes not so new on SA), its tempting to call a girl out on her BS. But seriously that kind of stuff is more of a distraction than anything. Get in the habit of just deleting their message and hiding their profile and move on. We all have only so much energy to put out and if even a little bit of it is wasted on petty BS it distracts from the primary purpose.

Yea. Normally that's what I would've done & have done in the past.

I just thought it'd be funny to call her out since her profile text says she isn't an escort, and that it's offensive to approach her as though she is (go figure).

[HollywoodGuy]

Spotted another lady from HX here on SA.

Chatted her up just to see what she's expecting from an SD.

She's looking for a ppm of $800-$1,000.

She must be zonked out of her mind.

I replied "A friend of mine says he recognizes you from another site & he knows for a fact that you ask for $300 per meet. Can you explain exactly what value you'd be bringing to an arrangement here to justify a $500-$700 increase?

She read it and hasn't replied lmao.

When you are new (and sometimes not so new on SA), its tempting to call a girl out on her BS. But seriously that kind of stuff is more of a distraction than anything. Get in the habit of just deleting their message and hiding their profile and move on. We all have only so much energy to put out and if even a little bit of it is wasted on petty BS it distracts from the primary purpose.

[Mile22]

Spotted another lady from HX here on SA.

Chatted her up just to see what she's expecting from an SD.

She's looking for a ppm of $800-$1,000.

She must be zonked out of her mind.

I replied "A friend of mine says he recognizes you from another site & he knows for a fact that you ask for $300 per meet. Can you explain exactly what value you'd be bringing to an arrangement here to justify a $500-$700 increase?

She read it and hasn't replied lmao.