Sugar Daddy Sites

[Ivonnahumpalot]

Limit your messages on SA to banter only, if they start with pointed questions about any arrangement take it off line. When they come at you hard with "What are you looking for" that's a cue that they don't know what to ask for and are deferring to you. Banter will help you figure out how to come at these POTS during the next phase of things.

Rather than answering what you are looking for, tell them what you won't accept.

We all have HoeDar skills, but a good way to screen out suspected working girls and UTRs when profiles look edgy is to ask them what's on the menu. If they aren't working or UTR they will have no idea what you mean. If they are, their answer will be on point.

NON-UTR RESPONSE: "What do you mean?" You say "I meant what are you up to tonight?

UTR RESPONSE: "I am" or "200 for FS" or "What are you looking for?" & "How long did you want to see me?

[FarFarAway]

Let's make this thread a great one for all bowl activities in southern California, not just in LA. I am in OC and have been active on SA the past 2 months. I have intel on a lot of women from the site, and particularly can advise about any who were time-wasters with me.

[Bucweak]

"Thinking about becoming a worker" doesn't make you one. I'm thinking about becoming a photographer but if I get out with a camera it doesn't actually make one. I don't know your history but I've had years of mongering with pros and regular girls and bro, there's a world of difference, a normal girl will never "I don't kiss" or "are you almost done baby" or "your time is up" or say shit like, "don't touch my pussy" or stick their fingers down there the whole time to make sure the condom stays on but really it is to make sure you don't go in all the way. A normal girl will give you some reaction and won't be a dead fish. They are different in their vulnerabilities, their willingness to spread their legs, the way they conduct themselves. I will give you that I probably have hooked up with girls that turned into pros, but they weren't pro's when I fucked them.

This list is my personal list of cues that help me to gauge what kind of experience I'm going to have, and it's been time tested and it helps to weed out the cash register cumbuckets. I don't care how hot a girl is, I'd rather fuck a chubby fugly that is sweet than some bolt on cold fish.

Happy hunting!

Thinking of becoming a worker = they are planning / pursuing it. And if they on these type of websites with profiles, ads etc, they already are. If they is offering it for a price, as far as I am concerned they are worker, don't matter if they "full time or undercover workers with regular 9-5". A lot of you all rules are too deep, it ain't that complicated. Just because it is not your official job title, doesn't mean you can't do the job / act. Pro/professional simply means to be paid.....

Regular girls don't create profiles on dating sites, go to clubs, etc to "meet and greet" many different men for "gain", these are "workers". Regular women don't "fool around" with multiple men period. Regular women price is marriage/family, not flings for gain.
Yall starting to think "workers" are regular women. It is not that complicated to tell the difference between women and hoes

[BlackBone]

Has anyone seen or know anything about this one?

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...4-43600d3bef5c

[FarFarAway]

"Thinking about becoming a worker" doesn't make you one. I'm thinking about becoming a photographer but if I get out with a camera it doesn't actually make one. I don't know your history but I've had years of mongering with pros and regular girls and bro, there's a world of difference, a normal girl will never "I don't kiss" or "are you almost done baby" or "your time is up" or say shit like, "don't touch my pussy" or stick their fingers down there the whole time to make sure the condom stays on but really it is to make sure you don't go in all the way. A normal girl will give you some reaction and won't be a dead fish. They are different in their vulnerabilities, their willingness to spread their legs, the way they conduct themselves. I will give you that I probably have hooked up with girls that turned into pros, but they weren't pro's when I fucked them.

This list is my personal list of cues that help me to gauge what kind of experience I'm going to have, and it's been time tested and it helps to weed out the cash register cumbuckets. I don't care how hot a girl is, I'd rather fuck a chubby fugly that is sweet than some bolt on cold fish.

Happy hunting!

I have to agree, but there are some people who frequent these boards, including those high up on this site, who don't see the difference. The only thing that matters to them is whether there is sex and there is $ going the other direction. However, given the robbery my SO has applied to me at times, she would qualify as a sex worker under his terms. And if you wanted to calculate a 'per meet' #, OMG. There's GPS!

My judgment about it goes like this. If a girl has any limitations, in time, acts, whatever, yep, she's an escort. I expect my SBs to be just like dates. There may be some things they don't like much as a matter of taste, but they don't have 'rules' or 'menus'. They are the ultimate GFE, b / c they are just like a GF I'd be dating, only I am supporting them financially, because my sorry ass is 3 x their age.

Anything we can do to discourage guys who at their core are just mongers from trying to play the sugar game will also cut the escorts on SA and keep the sugaring world safer.

[John HandCock]

It was bound to happen. Screenshot of pop up box when I logged in today. The first step will now be to move these girls to some other form of messaging prior to making any proposals. Or risk having your membership canceled.

Must have been awhile since you logged in. That appeared 2-3 month ago.

[Luv Big Tetas]

None of the girls are "regular", if they were, they would not be on SD type of sites. Many are currently, were former, or are thinking about becoming workers. Good list tho, but all are, just some more obvious than others. All women have a price.

"Thinking about becoming a worker" doesn't make you one. I'm thinking about becoming a photographer but if I get out with a camera it doesn't actually make one. I don't know your history but I've had years of mongering with pros and regular girls and bro, there's a world of difference, a normal girl will never "I don't kiss" or "are you almost done baby" or "your time is up" or say shit like, "don't touch my pussy" or stick their fingers down there the whole time to make sure the condom stays on but really it is to make sure you don't go in all the way. A normal girl will give you some reaction and won't be a dead fish. They are different in their vulnerabilities, their willingness to spread their legs, the way they conduct themselves. I will give you that I probably have hooked up with girls that turned into pros, but they weren't pro's when I fucked them.

This list is my personal list of cues that help me to gauge what kind of experience I'm going to have, and it's been time tested and it helps to weed out the cash register cumbuckets. I don't care how hot a girl is, I'd rather fuck a chubby fugly that is sweet than some bolt on cold fish.

Happy hunting!

[James Lane90]

It's actually doable. At $ a date, how many dates can you afford?

Dude. Honestly I just spend 20-30 k on nothing after taxes. I gave a homeless guy 5 k last December because I had no idea to do with it.

Like I said, I'm just siting on money.

[FarFarAway]

But it may also get rid of those ridiculous SB profiles that say they want an online only relationship.

There is a report button on SA. Use it. When you do, there are all kinds of reasons you can choose. It includes offering $ for sex (or sex for $), and an online only postings. Getting / keeping escorts off the site is the only way that SA is going to be able to survive in this new regime. In some parts of the country, alas, from reading the USASG threads on sugar dating, SA is functioning only or mostly w / girls I would call UTR escorts. I don't play that way, and many other SDs don't. If you report them, their profile is blocked so you never have to listen to / see them. You can ad evidence if you want, but I just stick with what's on the profile or in a PM to you.

[HollywoodGuy]

It was bound to happen. Screenshot of pop up box when I logged in today. The first step will now be to move these girls to some other form of messaging prior to making any proposals. Or risk having your membership canceled.

But it may also get rid of those ridiculous SB profiles that say they want an online only relationship.

[HollywoodGuy]

It was bound to happen. Screenshot of pop up box when I logged in today. The first step will now be to move these girls to some other form of messaging prior to making any proposals. Or risk having your membership canceled.

[Bucweak]

HERE ARE SOME RED FLAGS THAT A GIRL IS NOT A REGULAR GIRL.

1. She has undies shots on her main page and it's in a hotel room.

2. If she is ethnic (black / latina / asian).

- She doesn't have any photos of her at the club or a snapchat / insta pic.

- She hasn't been verified as a College Baby.

- Her place of residence is somewhere vague LOS ANGELES / BEVERLY HILLS (ESP)/ SANTA MONICA.

- Tattoos on thighs. Don't ask me why but it's like. A fuckin bulls eye.

- Looks ghetto AF (even cute black girls from South Central don't look ghetto).

3. She insists on driving to your house and is NOT open to meeting in public.

4. If she has a hotel room. (DOUBLE RED).

5. She is ok with meeting at 1 am (this one is a usually, there are exceptions) for a quick fuck.

6. She talks about condoms before you even meet.

These are all red flags that maybe alone don't immediate peg someone as a pro, but from my years on SA I've discovered that a combination of these and a few others that I can't quite remember right now. Provide for a full. Provider-less experience.

None of the girls are "regular", if they were, they would not be on SD type of sites. Many are currently, were former, or are thinking about becoming workers. Good list tho, but all are, just some more obvious than others. All women have a price.

[HollywoodGuy]

How would one get started?

ME:

27 years.

20 k salary but parents pay rent and all expenses.

I'm a stud but recently had a fake rape charge and after being found not guilty when video leaked of her lying, I have no interests in dating at this time. C.

It's actually doable. At $ a date, how many dates can you afford?

[HollywoodGuy]

HERE ARE SOME RED FLAGS THAT A GIRL IS NOT A REGULAR GIRL.

1. She has undies shots on her main page and it's in a hotel room.

2. If she is ethnic (black / latina / asian).

- She doesn't have any photos of her at the club or a snapchat / insta pic.

- She hasn't been verified as a College Baby.

- Her place of residence is somewhere vague LOS ANGELES / BEVERLY HILLS (ESP)/ SANTA MONICA.

- Tattoos on thighs. Don't ask me why but it's like. A fuckin bulls eye.

- Looks ghetto AF (even cute black girls from South Central don't look ghetto).

3. She insists on driving to your house and is NOT open to meeting in public.

4. If she has a hotel room. (DOUBLE RED).

5. She is ok with meeting at 1 am (this one is a usually, there are exceptions) for a quick fuck.

6. She talks about condoms before you even meet.

These are all red flags that maybe alone don't immediate peg someone as a pro, but from my years on SA I've discovered that a combination of these and a few others that I can't quite remember right now. Provide for a full. Provider-less experience.

Good newbie info. Almost over obvious. Its one reason I stick to the 18 and 19 year old Girls. A lot less time for them to have been spoiled. Even if they are from the hood.

[HollywoodGuy]

But if you're not the type of guy that knows how to fuck a girl mentally first, you're not going to get past the "500 per meet".

Well said. I never thought of it in those exact words. But that is it in a nutshell for sure.