DATY discussion

[MKimball]

I really like the idea. Thanks PD for the detailed list of suggested rules / criteria.

My reaction is that a minimum of 50 x 3 is a little steep unless we stretch the contest out. I do like the option of working it in as part of a regular dream. Your list has specifics not usually set befote a dream for legal reasons. But as a guy, I like the general pricing pattern.

Maybe we run the contest from oct to the end of the year. That way, those of us with tighter schedules and budgets can still have a shot.

I hope I can participate!

[LonelyInCincy]

I am a new hobbyist trying to see providers. Have only managed to see one twice so far. In the past 4 weeks. Will I a new hobbyist be allowed to participate? Is there any way I will be allowed to participate giving me an opportunity to establish my credibility. Please advise.

Thank you.

Okay. This is what I have come up with so far.

Compiling the money and having the ladies split it is not a good idea, simply for the fact that who will be in charge keeping the money, etc, and not 'dashing' with it. I think that the top leader (s) in DATY after a specific time period can be named the winner, and then the winner (s) would be rewarded with a free session from any one of the participating providers of their choice.

As for entry fee, most of the providers have different rates, so the girls either need to decide on a set price for this escapade, or another option is to charge 1/4 of a normal hour session for the DATY contest, and then have the option to continue into a full session if wanted. Or, it can be part of a full session, as long as the DATY comes first in the session.

As for rules, this is what I have come up with so far:

(1) Can only receive one entry per week from the same provider, and no more than 3 entries per week per male contestant (some hobbyists have more 'hobby' money than others)

(2) DATY set must start immediately during the session, and a 15-20 minute time limit should be set.

(3) In order to valid, the scoresheets must be received within 24 hours of the act-important little details can become forgotten over time.

(4) In order to be ranked in the contest, a minimum of 3 or 4 entries must be received and averaged (I'm way too familiar with statistics and graphs, and I can't wait to see some results!)

Other than that, I need to start compiling contestants' handles and compiling the different scoring categories.

I'm in, and Ally is in in terms of providers.

Send me a pm if you want to be a contestant, and I will start a list.

Also, post some more stuff about what everyone deems to be appropriate for the scoresheet.

Molly

[WarlockKy]

Okay. This is what I have come up with so far.

Compiling the money and having the ladies split it is not a good idea, simply for the fact that who will be in charge keeping the money, etc, and not 'dashing' with it. I think that the top leader (s) in DATY after a specific time period can be named the winner, and then the winner (s) would be rewarded with a free session from any one of the participating providers of their choice.

As for entry fee, most of the providers have different rates, so the girls either need to decide on a set price for this escapade, or another option is to charge 1/4 of a normal hour session for the DATY contest, and then have the option to continue into a full session if wanted. Or, it can be part of a full session, as long as the DATY comes first in the session.

As for rules, this is what I have come up with so far:

(1) Can only receive one entry per week from the same provider, and no more than 3 entries per week per male contestant (some hobbyists have more 'hobby' money than others)

(2) DATY set must start immediately during the session, and a 15-20 minute time limit should be set.

(3) In order to valid, the scoresheets must be received within 24 hours of the act-important little details can become forgotten over time.

(4) In order to be ranked in the contest, a minimum of 3 or 4 entries must be received and averaged (I'm way too familiar with statistics and graphs, and I can't wait to see some results!)

Other than that, I need to start compiling contestants' handles and compiling the different scoring categories.

I'm in, and Ally is in in terms of providers.

Send me a pm if you want to be a contestant, and I will start a list.

Also, post some more stuff about what everyone deems to be appropriate for the scoresheet.

Molly

You know like "had to fake orgasm just to get it over with". LOL.

This could be interesting, I remember a few years back when one of my friends got used as a test subject when a few ladies had a private bet going on who's oral was best.

Was a great surprise for him, he thought he was being "one of the nice guys" by stopping by to jump a car that wouldn't start.

[PhatDaty]

I was out of town and came in late on the DATY contest discussion. I added a couple of posts to the member discussion thread, before I saw that this was moved. I am not sure if the moderators can move it. Tried to edit and cut and paste, them here instead, but edit function down at the moment. I will try again Friday morning.

Here was the general idea (we used to do similar contests at afterparties on Indys and Eccie) I did my best guess on the rates-essentially a small portion goes to the contest, and the provider still keeps most of the fee, not sure how this would look since prices have been fluctuating lately:

DATY Contest Session Only=$50. 00 (lady keeps $40. 00 and $10. 00 for the jackpot)

DATY Contest / BBBJ Only= $75. 00 (lady keeps $65. 00 and $10. 00 for the jackpot)

DATY Contest / HHR=$120. 00 (lady keeps $110. 00 and $10. 00 for the jackpot)

DATY Contest / HR=$200. 00 (lady keeps $190. 00 and $10. 00 for the jackpot)

Molly and the ladies should come up with a fair grading system that might look like this, but not being a female, I have no idea how they would describe sensations / techniques-I just know what makes most of them wiggle and go with it until they quit wiggling and then try something else, but here would but a possible structure:

Suction / wetness: 1-5pts.

Style: 1-5 pts.

Technique: 1-5pts.

Tongue Dexterity: 1-5pts.

Extracurricular talent 1-5pts.

One pop in 15 mins or less 10pts. (lose one point for each minute after 15)

Multiple pops in 15 mins or less 25pts.

Squirting in 15 minutes or less 50pts.

You have one month. You must see at least THREE DIFFERENT ladies, but then may repeat or see others. Your top three scorecards are what counts-those are averaged to a total score.

Winner gets 75% of pot.

2nd get 15%

3rd get 10%

Now to the ladies wondering. In the past these type of contests always seemed to gain ladies new clients they might not have seen except for the interest generated by the contest, which may cause repeat business. It might also cause some old favorites to visit you that you haven't seen in a while. It seems like you would be giving up $10 on each session, but you should more then make up the discount in new business if they guys that have chimed in are serious and not just blowing smoke.

Right now it looks like there are plenty of guys, where are the women?

Do we need to offer a drawing for a spa day or something to all ladies willing to participate and abide by what Molly and company decide? We could throw another ten bucks in, and just draw a name-the more guys you evaluate, the more chances in the hat?

[JohnGalt10]

I may be getting too nitpicky, but I assume that "immediately" means as the first intimate activity. I would hope that a little talk, undressing (LOL) , possibly kissing, could come before "jumping right in" to warm things up. A "cold start" probably won't be favorable for anyone's performance.

Possible Categories:

Technique (might be broken up into specifics or +. Points assigned for different techniques). "one trick pony," "multiple variations," "slobbery," etc.

Endurance (how long can he go)

Consistency (Is he good at doing the same thing or is he always changing what he is doing)

Orgasm Achieved.

[I considered the possibility of a penalty for not causing an orgasm. Not sure if that is fair or not, though. ]

Multiple Orgasms Achieved (possibly considered bonus points)

Creativity (points for something unexpected)

Confidence (I expect that all of the participants will be confident, but you never know)

Another thought:

Should finger stimulation be allowed (either inside or outside) or should this be 100% oral?

JRW1

What if you crossed the taint zone- are you allowed to come back across? That's a hard limit for some.

[Jry Wild1]

(2) DATY set must start immediately during the session, and a 15-20 minute time limit should be set.

I may be getting too nitpicky, but I assume that "immediately" means as the first intimate activity. I would hope that a little talk, undressing (LOL), possibly kissing, could come before "jumping right in" to warm things up. A "cold start" probably won't be favorable for anyone's performance.

Also, post some more stuff about what everyone deems to be appropriate for the scoresheet.

Molly

Possible Categories:

Technique (might be broken up into specifics or + - points assigned for different techniques) - "one trick pony," "multiple variations," "slobbery," etc.

Endurance (how long can he go)

Consistency (Is he good at doing the same thing or is he always changing what he is doing)

Orgasm Achieved

[I considered the possibility of a penalty for not causing an orgasm. Not sure if that is fair or not, though.]

Multiple Orgasms Achieved (possibly considered bonus points)

Creativity (points for something unexpected)

Confidence (I expect that all of the participants will be confident, but you never know)

Another thought:
Should finger stimulation be allowed (either inside or outside) or should this be 100% oral?

JRW1

[PhatDaty]

I was out of town and came in late on the DATY contest discussion. I added a couple of posts to the member discussion thread, before I saw that this was moved. I am not sure if the moderators can move it. Tried to edit and cut and paste, them here instead, but edit function down at the moment. I will try again Friday morning.

[MollyDaniels]

We need more girls on board.

Start the recruiting!

Molly

[Cincyeast52]

Let's use this thread for the DATY discussion moving forward.

Thanks to Molly and Bigbird69 for offering to lend there help in setting it up.

Need to agree on time but that would be based on number of contestants and number of participating providers.

MM

So glad this moved to its own thread. Much easier to ignore now. Annoying idea. Annoying posts. Just annoying.

[MollyDaniels]

Okay. This is what I have come up with so far.

Compiling the money and having the ladies split it is not a good idea, simply for the fact that who will be in charge keeping the money, etc, and not 'dashing' with it. I think that the top leader (s) in DATY after a specific time period can be named the winner, and then the winner (s) would be rewarded with a free session from any one of the participating providers of their choice.

As for entry fee, most of the providers have different rates, so the girls either need to decide on a set price for this escapade, or another option is to charge 1/4 of a normal hour session for the DATY contest, and then have the option to continue into a full session if wanted. Or, it can be part of a full session, as long as the DATY comes first in the session.

As for rules, this is what I have come up with so far:

(1) Can only receive one entry per week from the same provider, and no more than 3 entries per week per male contestant (some hobbyists have more 'hobby' money than others)

(2) DATY set must start immediately during the session, and a 15-20 minute time limit should be set.

(3) In order to valid, the scoresheets must be received within 24 hours of the act-important little details can become forgotten over time.

(4) In order to be ranked in the contest, a minimum of 3 or 4 entries must be received and averaged (I'm way too familiar with statistics and graphs, and I can't wait to see some results!)

Other than that, I need to start compiling contestants' handles and compiling the different scoring categories.

I'm in, and Ally is in in terms of providers.

Send me a pm if you want to be a contestant, and I will start a list.

Also, post some more stuff about what everyone deems to be appropriate for the scoresheet.

Molly

[Jry Wild1]

I'm not for sure that I will be able to participate much, because I travel quite a bit, but I am definitely willing to take the responsibility of saving / compiling the results, which can just be emailed to me.

Molly

I don't think that not being able to participate frequently or regularly due to travel should eliminate you from being a Provider Participant. This is even more true with your idea of the "Lick-a-lympics" being an ongoing thing. I'm sure that over time both girls and guys will come and go from the ranks of the Participants.

I do like the idea of the ongoing challenge and potential to improve your ranking by continuing to improve your performance. I think that will appeal to the competitive nature that USASG members seem to have (LOL). As you say, I think to improve your ranking you would have to rotate Participating Providers. I don't think it would be fair to always go back to the same Provider as a means of improving your score. Although, I think that returning to a previous Participating Provider should be allowed after an established amount of time.

Also, should there should be a limit on the number of "attempts" any Participating Client should be allowed in a given week? I'm not sure if multiple attempts would skew the rankings or not. Just thinking that a guy who can see a different girl each day might have an unfair advantage over someone who can only participate once a week or something. What do others think?

Since Ally won't be back until the 20th and is one of our few known Participating Providers at this point, I think we have a little time to work out the details before things begin.

Keep up the discussion!
JRW1

Now that I think about it, you are right-that's not enough time for the gentlemen. But another thought that I have is that it can be an on-going thing instead of an actual contest, and the leader can change-just average all the scores or what not, and post the 'list' each week, with the guys' names and their score. Which might be more fun for both parties-that way it can be more competitive-if you are in 3rd or 4th place, it will give you incentive to try another provider, etc. The providers can set a straight fee for just DATY, or they can discount their normal rates if doing a complete session.

I have no problem compiling and keeping the scores-the scores can be emailed / pm-ed to me, and I will keep them compiled in an excel file.

Since there is so much talk about this, why don't we start a new thread just for this subject?

Molly

[Readytogo1320]

I am very much looking forward to participating. I love to do this and typically don't go for FS. What kind of fees are you thinking of for this? I am all in.

[Mmslim84]

Originally Posted by BigBird69 *[View Original Post]

My response did not read the way I meant it, I was trying for brevity and ended up sounding whiny. I have no problem letting your organize it. I am 100% OK with it.

However, one week is not enough in my opinion as I WANT to participate but could not see 5 ladies in one week simply for scheduling reasons. If everybody else can and that is what is decided, then I will just wait until the next one.

Sorry for not taking the time to read my own post.

-BigBird69.

Now that I think about it, you are right-that's not enough time for the gentlemen. But another thought that I have is that it can be an on-going thing instead of an actual contest, and the leader can change-just average all the scores or what not, and post the 'list' each week, with the guys' names and their score. Which might be more fun for both parties-that way it can be more competitive-if you are in 3rd or 4th place, it will give you incentive to try another provider, etc. The providers can set a straight fee for just DATY, or they can discount their normal rates if doing a complete session.

I have no problem compiling and keeping the scores-the scores can be emailed / pm-ed to me, and I will keep them compiled in an excel file.

Since there is so much talk about this, why don't we start a new thread just for this subject?

Molly

[Mmslim84]

Let's use this thread for the DATY discussion moving forward.

Thanks to Molly and Bigbird69 for offering to lend there help in setting it up.

Need to agree on time but that would be based on number of contestants and number of participating providers.

MM