Sugar Babies / Arrangements

[RonMexico1980]

Of course! Hope you guys meet up.

As a side note. I never pay babies to meet. If we decide on coffee I'll pay for that but I never pay them just to be in their presence. Please try to refrain from doing this. Good luck and stay safe.

Golden.

I meant that you saved me from wasting 200 on a chick that's fat and stinky. I was on the fence with her size before you mentioned she is even heavier. Will definitely not meet this one.

[GoldenLion]

Thanks for the review Golden. This is one I was planning on trying. Saved me 2 bills.

Cheers to you!!

Of course! Hope you guys meet up.

As a side note. I never pay babies to meet. If we decide on coffee I'll pay for that but I never pay them just to be in their presence. Please try to refrain from doing this. Good luck and stay safe.

Golden.

[RonMexico1980]

https://www.seeking.com/member/3b80f...2-abfc5ca7acfa

Met with this one two days ago. It's been really hard to get these girls to meet up right now because of the pandemic. Messaged her and told her I was looking for a fwb. Told her I could bring her over to my place and we set up a meeting for the next day. Picked her up around century center and brought her back to my place. We had a few drinks and some good conversation. She is a little heavier than in the photos but her ass is really nice. I was a bit turned off by her tattoos as she has one on her stomach. Started off by giving her a massage. I'm a huge fan of DATY. I was very disappointed that there was a smell. Told her to go doggy, put the cover on, and did the deed. 2 roses. Would not repeat.

Golden.

Thanks for the review Golden. This is one I was planning on trying. Saved me 2 bills.

Cheers to you!!

[GoldenLion]

https://www.seeking.com/member/3b80f...2-abfc5ca7acfa

Met with this one two days ago. It's been really hard to get these girls to meet up right now because of the pandemic. Messaged her and told her I was looking for a fwb. Told her I could bring her over to my place and we set up a meeting for the next day. Picked her up around century center and brought her back to my place. We had a few drinks and some good conversation. She is a little heavier than in the photos but her ass is really nice. I was a bit turned off by her tattoos as she has one on her stomach. Started off by giving her a massage. I'm a huge fan of DATY. I was very disappointed that there was a smell. Told her to go doggy, put the cover on, and did the deed. 2 roses. Would not repeat.

Golden.

[Jb987]

I never pay a girl for a meet & greet, which is usually a quick coffee, just to see if she looks like her photo and to get a first impression. I would say half the time that I do a meet and greet, I am underwhelmed by their looks or we just don't click. I do my best to screen for GPS before the meet and greet but I don't really like to get into numbers until we meet up in person. So that's also a possible risk, but worse case is that I waste 15 minutes and a coffee. And the girl shouldn't expect to get paid for a meet and greet either- my time is just as valuable as hers. If the meet and greet goes well, then we make plans for a dinner and fun back at my place, and firm up the terms. I never take her anywhere fancy, usually somewhere fun and comfortable with good drinks and a band, and I always pay for dinner. But I will never pay for just dinner with no fun included. Guys who pay for just dinner are ruining things for the rest of us.

Speaking of which, just had a girl tell me that a guy paid her $100 to go to coffee.

I agree. I've been quoted $200 for coffee. Never contacted her again.

Also was just quoted 1 k for a meeting. That's 5 meetings with my $200 regular. LOL.

[KidFarian]

Totally agree, not trying to take advantage of situation and people affected by it but this is a perfect time to bring GPS back on ground. If we stick together on this we will be able to filter out crappy & GPS SBs.

Just to add something to M&G process, there might be times when these SBs will ask you for a bill or two during meet & greet or before you are going part ways. Just stay firm and under no circumstances let someone take advantage of you. They may lie and tell you they get a bill for 15 minutes of their time or you may hear a sob story but don't let that defeat the purpose of SB / SD relation.

I agree with the M&G standards. This is all great feedback. I'm looking forward to getting back into the game. Stay safe fellas.

[YzalMan]

I never pay a girl for a meet & greet, which is usually a quick coffee, just to see if she looks like her photo and to get a first impression. I would say half the time that I do a meet and greet, I am underwhelmed by their looks or we just don't click. I do my best to screen for GPS before the meet and greet but I don't really like to get into numbers until we meet up in person. So that's also a possible risk, but worse case is that I waste 15 minutes and a coffee. And the girl shouldn't expect to get paid for a meet and greet either- my time is just as valuable as hers. If the meet and greet goes well, then we make plans for a dinner and fun back at my place, and firm up the terms. I never take her anywhere fancy, usually somewhere fun and comfortable with good drinks and a band, and I always pay for dinner. But I will never pay for just dinner with no fun included. Guys who pay for just dinner are ruining things for the rest of us.

Speaking of which, just had a girl tell me that a guy paid her $100 to go to coffee.

Totally agree, not trying to take advantage of situation and people affected by it but this is a perfect time to bring GPS back on ground. If we stick together on this we will be able to filter out crappy & GPS SBs.

Just to add something to M&G process, there might be times when these SBs will ask you for a bill or two during meet & greet or before you are going part ways. Just stay firm and under no circumstances let someone take advantage of you. They may lie and tell you they get a bill for 15 minutes of their time or you may hear a sob story but don't let that defeat the purpose of SB / SD relation.

[JackMayhoff]

Just a thought. What do you think a "sugar daddy" site is for? I'm pretty sure its not a site for everyone to "hookup". Why wouldn't someone that wants to meet a girl pay her for her time? If a guy wants to take a girl to dinner, shouldn't he pay? Of course, I don't agree with a $300 date plus expenses, but I still think a girl should be taken care of for spending their time with you. It's not a dating site. Go to Tinder if you want a free M&G or Cityguide if you want sex.

Just my 2 cents.

I never pay a girl for a meet & greet, which is usually a quick coffee, just to see if she looks like her photo and to get a first impression. I would say half the time that I do a meet and greet, I am underwhelmed by their looks or we just don't click. I do my best to screen for GPS before the meet and greet but I don't really like to get into numbers until we meet up in person. So that's also a possible risk, but worse case is that I waste 15 minutes and a coffee. And the girl shouldn't expect to get paid for a meet and greet either- my time is just as valuable as hers. If the meet and greet goes well, then we make plans for a dinner and fun back at my place, and firm up the terms. I never take her anywhere fancy, usually somewhere fun and comfortable with good drinks and a band, and I always pay for dinner. But I will never pay for just dinner with no fun included. Guys who pay for just dinner are ruining things for the rest of us.

Speaking of which, just had a girl tell me that a guy paid her $100 to go to coffee.

[NerdFriday]

https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/p...4444d67124cef5

Messaged her. She seems genuine and regularly active. Anyone have intel on her?

Just chatting for now since quarantine. Setting up some prospects for when it's safe!

[Shavnluvr]

Just a reminder that this whole coronavirus thing may turn out to be a good thing for the SB / SD system. Economists are predicting up to 6000 job layoffs in the retail and hotel industry here, which means more SBs will be on the market, I've been seeing much better quality in recent days. Lets all work to keep those prices down. Don't pay for dinners! Don't pay for meet & greet! Start at $200 and negotiate up to $250 or $300. Share info on scammers and flakes. Mahalos!

For some reason I'm getting a lot of conversations where they expect 300 for platonic and 500 for FS. Even worse when they can't host and expect you to get the room too. I'm sure its not us (we wouldn't be here if we were loaded) but some guys out there are crazy throwing off the economy. Or maybe they heard their friend got that much once and think its like that?

Just a thought. What do you think a "sugar daddy" site is for? I'm pretty sure its not a site for everyone to "hookup". Why wouldn't someone that wants to meet a girl pay her for her time? If a guy wants to take a girl to dinner, shouldn't he pay? Of course, I don't agree with a $300 date plus expenses, but I still think a girl should be taken care of for spending their time with you. It's not a dating site. Go to Tinder if you want a free M&G or Cityguide if you want sex.

Just my 2 cents.

[NerdFriday]

For some reason I'm getting a lot of conversations where they expect 300 for platonic and 500 for FS. Even worse when they can't host and expect you to get the room too. I'm sure its not us (we wouldn't be here if we were loaded) but some guys out there are crazy throwing off the economy. Or maybe they heard their friend got that much once and think its like that?

In my experience, the price is really relative.

Half of the price depends on how much the girl thinks they can get outa you, and the other half depends on how much they have to feel like they have to *****.

The secret of price negotiation is the M&G. Most men skip the M&G because they're lazy and message women with "how much for 1 hour" before ever meeting them. When you do this, they are already starting to feel like a "working girl". The price immediately goes up.

If you do a M&G for free, give a positive impression, (seem like a nice, respectful, honest, and decently fun person) a girl is much more likely to be more receptive to a lower PPM vs. When the guy just messages straight up about play. If you show up in a Lambo and take them to your yacht, you can also expect the "price" to go up.

Bottom line is that SB's are only mostly sex workers. They understand that physical intimacy is probably important for daddy, but they do not want to feel like that's the bottom line even if it ultimately is. You cannot treat them like you might treat a girl who is advertising herself as an escort. It takes a bit more effort to get a quality SB, especially the younger ones. This is why it's much harder to put a price on this type of encounter. It falls in between picking up a girl at a bar for little to nothing and paying a standard price for 1 hour from an escort. When you try to pickup a girl at a bar, you can expect to "miss" a lot in most cases; you might get a couple girls a week, or you may get a couple girls a year. When you go to an AMP or text an escort, you can expect one standard price and meetings on demand. A majority of SB dating is right in the middle.

And for the girls not being able to host, that's because they are normal people, and just like you, they don't want you to come to their house for whatever reason. You also can't solely put the blame on the girls because guys also can have "GPS", be "time-wasters", "flakes", or "crazy".

[Tacoman808]

Just a reminder that this whole coronavirus thing may turn out to be a good thing for the SB / SD system. Economists are predicting up to 6000 job layoffs in the retail and hotel industry here, which means more SBs will be on the market, I've been seeing much better quality in recent days. Lets all work to keep those prices down. Don't pay for dinners! Don't pay for meet & greet! Start at $200 and negotiate up to $250 or $300. Share info on scammers and flakes. Mahalos!

For some reason I'm getting a lot of conversations where they expect 300 for platonic and 500 for FS. Even worse when they can't host and expect you to get the room too. I'm sure its not us (we wouldn't be here if we were loaded) but some guys out there are crazy throwing off the economy. Or maybe they heard their friend got that much once and think its like that?

[Vajajalova]

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/user?cocoaprincess_9

Been in talks with this one for a while. Texted each other for few weeks and we decided to do a M&G with no expectations even though I told her I don't go over 3 bills. I have never sampled a black girl before but recently watching some on TV it always triggers my curiosity how they are in bed. Anyways, she came over talked about life and background a bit but when we started talking about expectations it started going south from there. Maybe someone experienced can answer this, from my experience why most african american girls have high GPS and on top they boost themselves like they are some high class escort? She started off by saying she doesn't go below 5 bills either we bang on a date or not, and she is an amazing person who can talk about anything in the world (which I don't give a rat's ass about), she mentioned some basic stuff and highlighted it as if I should be thankful to her about it for example that she won't use her phone while being with me, she will always come dressed up for a date, brush her hair & teeth (WTF? That's basic hygiene any human should be doing it anyway. While she was senselessly boosting herself, she mentioned she is into exotic art of dancing (so probably a stripper) maybe those who goes to strip clubs can confirm. Her pictures are recent and based on looks I would spend 3 bills just to get the curiosity out of my system but the super model & a rock star attitude was really bad and a turn off for me. Just be yourself and real, that's more attractive than anything, geez.

Anyways that was my M&G with her and decided to stay curious unless I meet someone like Harley Dean. Stay safe bros.

Not all black girls are like this. Obviously, she screams "stay away from me". As is with everything else on this site. Go with what feels good to you.

[Makana9]

Although I don't use "sugar baby" sites, over several decades I've been with numerous black providers whom I met downtown. With them, I've found that it's the particular characteristics of each individual provider that matter, regardless of the provider's ethnic background. Some black women have earned enshrinement in my provider Hall of Fame as among the best providers I've ever known, while some others were deficient "one and done" providers. Similar to white providers or providers of other ethnic backgrounds. Just my personal experience, which might or might not apply to various other mongers.

With Braddah Red. Never was interested but somehow after a workout (baseball AA) went with the boys to a hole in the wall BBQ place in The South. Eating some drinking, 3 white girls and one mocha came over to cruise. Back to the condo, did a lot more drinking, started laughing with the mocha chick, keep it short, she rocked my world with the DDs and that back that was built by BBQ. Yea, we dated some, more for the fkn and skn. I cannot say I will turn it down, seen WSW Thirty and Lana back in the day because LOL boobage and they could suck an apple through a coffee stirrer. Chrissy was pretty hot too. But, they are full of themselves.

[Redneck 1]

I have never sampled a black girl before but recently watching some on TV it always triggers my curiosity how they are in bed.

Although I don't use "sugar baby" sites, over several decades I've been with numerous black providers whom I met downtown. With them, I've found that it's the particular characteristics of each individual provider that matter, regardless of the provider's ethnic background. Some black women have earned enshrinement in my provider Hall of Fame as among the best providers I've ever known, while some others were deficient "one and done" providers. Similar to white providers or providers of other ethnic backgrounds. Just my personal experience, which might or might not apply to various other mongers.