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11-09-23 22:10 #2936
Posts: 673 month rundown. Don't waste time with these IMHO
Alright folks. After having two long term freebee relationships the better part of the last 2. 5 years, life happens and those two moved away with their husbands, thus I made my way back to SA after a long hiatus. Jumped back on the site in late August after about 3 years off it. As mentioned in a previous post, I'm severely disappointed across the board. It has really gone downhill since pre-COVID times. The amount of spammers / scammers, time wasters, and GPS and pay me to be your platonic friend has ruined the site. I also think SA has bots / AI creating new accounts daily with poached photos giving the illusion that there are hundreds if not thousands of women and students joing SA in Hawaii looking for action every year. I find that very hard to believe, but that's another conversation and posting altogether. I've actually got more entertainment out of trolling these girls (not women) and trying to beat them at their own game (wasting their time) as soon as I realize they are scammers or GPS. Not sure it's worth the $100+ per month though to keep having that kind of fun. Anyway.
So here's a rundown in somewhat chronological order, or as I recognized them after scrolling through the search feed. It's top to bottom, newly messaged to several months ago when I first got on. Hopefully this helps so that you don't waste your time. Of note, I've had a total of 3 successful encounters since August. Not worth the money / time (almost daily visiting the site and messaging several hundred women or so called real women). Two of those successes we're not even from Hawaii, they were foreign visitors, one from Asia one from South America. The one local girl was a chunky girl desperate for money that was not quite as advertised in her photos. She's mentioned below.
For reference, I'm late 30's, married, good shape, good looking, white guy from the southeast that now lives here permanently. Not old or sloppy or overweight, etc. No offense to those of you that may be. Say this as it might be useful for you if you decide to try and work some of these girls as some have types and only want an older man willing to throw money at them, or a man they aren't attracted to so there's no risk of a relationship developing, etc etc.
I'm posting usernames only. Not links. Sorry you're not getting that level of effort out of me for this project. You can look them up on the site yourself if it's of that big a concern to you:
1. MermaidRosalia – GPS and full of herself. Great looking ass and super tan, but has zero sense of humor. Didn't even get to the point of discussing arrangement. Wants a man to pay all of her bills. Legit joked with her about her being my sugar mama and me a trophy husband she lost her shit and went in to a diatribe about being pathetic and you'll never be anything blah blah blah then hit the block button. Literal no sense of humor or sarcasm. Tells me she's bitchy and full of herself.
2. Tiny Dancer – No discussion of an arrangement yet. This is the second person on here that has said " I have a retreat this weekend let's talk when I get back". Seems kinda strange to use that exact same line. She has quite a few pictures uploaded though so probably real. We shall see when she "gets back".
3. Alice23 – cute petite thing, pictures are from Vegas. Getting a weird vibe though. She can't hold a conversation, very sporadic. Texted on my burner with her, and talked on site, continually asks me where I'm located. She says she's in Waikiki. Asked her what her price was. She says "something mutually beneficial". The fuck answer is that? Probably won't pursue, hair on neck is tingling as possible LEO even though her profile say I'd validated.
4. SweetBabeA – new to the site. Huge tits. Says she's just seeing what's out there. Doesn't know what she wants. Asked her if she was interested in a FWB mutually beneficial arrangement after talking for a couple of days, no response.
5. Yogini_Hawaii – little bit of talking back and forth. Lives on Big Island but occasionally visits Oahu. Very sporadic. Not sure she's worth pursuing. Nice ass, but don't think she's serious about PPMs.
6. Qu3 efqueen – short convo then disappeared. ADHD I think.
7. Amarie – very cute looking – another platonic pay me to be your friend and take me to dinner types.
8. Adelaide – few messages then disappears for weeks at a time. Don't waste your time.
9. Mysti – not serious, just a time waster.
10. Curvyasian512 – get on here when she get's lonely just looking for attention then disappears for weeks at a time. Doesn't seem like she actually wants to meet up.
11. TemptingGoddess – cute looking military spouse going through a divorce. Just here when she's bored, lonely, looking for male attention (convo only). Not serious about meeting up. May be willing to sell you some pics. Not my thing as there is plenty of free porn out there. Leaving in another month or two anyway.
12. Lola – Very sexy. Great pics. Only wants a platonic take me to dinner and trips arrangement. Have at it if you like wasting your money on something pretty that isn't going to put out. Maybe, after months of a platonic deal, she might open up to something sexual. I sense GPS though but at least she was honest and straightforward.
13. RedheadGoddess – messaged. No response. Constantly online though. Might be a bot account?
14. X0 X0 sexyfairies – not serious about a meet up. On occasionally then disappears for weeks at a time. Strikes me as a picture / vid seller maybe. Wouldn't be surprised if she's just trying to get O F subscribers.
15. SurfinKitten – ADHD. Convo for a few minutes. Disappears for weeks. Model photos which might be stolen from somewhere else. Couldn't find them on tineye or google search anywhere. Not serious about meet ups anyway.
16. Eva – Korean MILF. Think she was seeing one of you mongers here for a little while. Mentioned she knows of a woman (ankle bracelet linda) that does bb anal that's how I know she was seeing one of you, or she peruses this site. Talked about getting married to the monger. Guess that fell through after he took a trip to PI. Maybe you two worked things out though, hope the best for you guys. She's not giving up that Hoe life as she told me though LOL. Tried to help you out and told her to stop if she was serious. Clearly that's not happened though. Quoted me 4 bills for meetup. Everything covered. Not my thing. I'll wear the cover but I better be getting an open menu for that much and you better be young hot thing, not a MILF with a restricted menu. She does have an OF but it's only pictures in lingerie and bikinis, nothing nude. Got to pay extra for those. Have fun if that's your thing.
17. Roslyn – looks hot. Quoted me 8 bills for standard menu. No thanks. Has a friend that will join for 15 bills, no thanks. GPS x2. I'm not that desperate.
18. Kayla was back on SA for a minute under a new username then quickly disappeared. Probably needed some quick cash and was trying to avoid her stalker. Briefly talked. She quoted me 4 bills for standard menu 5 bills with anal. Passed. Had her back 3 or 4 years ago for 2 bills with anal. Sorry but nothing has changed with your service, offering, etc. Not paying over double the price for same action. Inflation isn't that bad. And sorry Kayla if you read this as I know you peruse from time to time, just my personal feelings. Nothing against you. You've got a price, I've got my limits.
19. StunningSiren – wants a platonic take me on dates. No thanks.
20. Mikala – cute Mexican / japanese mix. Not serious. ADHD. Few messages, then gone for weeks, few messages, gone another few weeks. Don't waste your time.
21. SweetBelle – Seems like a game player / time waster and GPS. Exchanged a few messages and that was that. Not worth my time.
22. Temptations – time waster. Not serious. Think she deleted the account anyway.
23. Sensualsadie – weird seeming one. The second one on here that used the line about having a retreat over the weekend and messaging after that. Which she never did. Actually started texting over phone before that. Reverse searched number and found a CL ad about trying to sell space for storing a boat in Kaneohe. Possible scammer or maybe a dude moonlighting as a chick trying to sell you fake pics.
24. Gabriellaxo – GPS, not super serious about meeting up. Wants someone to just give her money for her presence and conversation LOL.
25. SurfandBeach – messaged once. No reply.
26. BeachGirl – holding a goat in her picture. Had a few days of convo, talked about meeting up, then disappeared. Hasn't been online since.
27. Jbat – messaged once, no reply.
28. Bunny – semi-cute young girl in Hilo. Seems promising but does me no good over there.
29. Peacelove – messaged once, no reply.
30. Bbclark05 – serious ADHD and not serious about meetups. Might be a O F er trying to sell pics and vids, or could be a scammer. Will send one or two messages then disappear for weeks.
31. Ripcurlv – cute girl but not serious about meetups. Isn't even in Hawaii half the time it seems. Talked about being in the mid-east, travelling, etc. Don't waste your time. The pics are just clickbait.
32. Maklaya – wants me to teach her how to surf. Not my type though and not feeling the vibe.
33. JustAnotherGirlll – ADHD. On once in a blue moon. Not interested in meeting up.
34. GoinGolfin – older woman, 44 year old Not serious about meetups. Seems like she's constantly got some drama or issue going on. Don't waste your time.
35. Glamorous – deleted profile I think. Time waster anyway. Not serious about a meetup.
36. Baabyloovee – Now in Canada according to her profile. Didn't seem serious.
37. Elina111 – Deleted profile it appears. Foreign looking skinny girl, maybe Russian or Ukrainian. Quoted me 6 bills for standard action. Passed.
38. Thelovelyerika – cute little Filipino looking girl. Quoted me 8 bills for standard. Tempted to pull the trigger but I've got a limit, and she was above it. Passed.
39. Yogababyy – Unsure about this one. Cute, claimed she was from Maui and a Yoga instructor that comes to Oahu to teach classes. Profile says she's in LA now. Quoted me 6 bills. Everything covered. Lots of rules. Passed.
40.808 Hiromi – Japanese looking MILF. Claims she's just seeing what's out there. Says she is married but unsatisfied. Wasn't serious about meeting up though. Wouldn't waste my time any further but may be just isn't in to white guys. Good luck if you give it a go.
41. Kellyshay – waste of time. Not serious about meetup. Got a sense of GPS. Never got to price or arrangement terms.
42. Luna21 – looks like profile deleted now. Not serious about meetups. Think she's either trying to sell pics or O F. Or maybe looking for an old man to pay her to be friend and take on fancy dinner dates.
43. ThiccGoodGirl – ADHD. Messaged back and forth a few times. Got to discussion about meetup and terms. Read message then disappeared. Not serious. Don't waste your time.
44. Aphrodite – profile says in Orlando now. Seemed fake. Exchanged few messages then I stopped the convo.
45. Vinsincity – this one is the chunky desperate early 20's local girl. Met up with her back in late August. 2 bills for 45 minutes. Everything covered but did give a teethy BBBJ. Got the job done but wouldn't repeat. Pics definitely hid the extra weight. She deleted her original profile, then created another one, then deleted that one and I think I saw her with a new one after that but not sure. Not sure if she's got a stalker or trying to be discrete and hide from family.
46. Kailanikauai – GPS. Quoted me 8 bills. Everything covered, lots of rules. Passed.
47. Sbaby111 – tall girl. Exchanged a few messages. Went no where.
48. CoCoBae – profile says in Australia now. GPS. Exchanged a few messaged. Quoted me 10 bills. Passed.
49. Tori – exchanged a few messages, then disappeared. Not serious.
50. Juliet May – cute student. Not serious about meetups. Talked awhile. Tried to discuss arrangement, price. Was more interested in just finding a free place to stay for a month or so in exchange for her platonic company. Sorry, my wife wouldn't go for that.
51. Renee – one message, no response.
52. Jocelyn – Talked a bit. Seemed interested in an arrangement. Gave phone number. She never texted. Not serious. Says she can add spice to your life. Seemed pretty bland and absent to me LOL.
53. Babygray – not serious about meetup and got whiff of GPS. Not worth the time.
54. Badbrattykitty – not interested in a meetup. O F er I think.
55. Babylis – quoted me 6 bills for 1 hr all covered. Too many rules. Semi-cute looking 31 year old With a decent rack but doesn't strike me as being worth the price. Could hold a convo at least.
56. SoSoKute – late 30's MILF. Messaged a few times. Got the GPS vibe, but she was definitely willing to meetup. Decided I wasn't interested as I was pursuing another option. She's in Irvine CA now.
57. Eden – says she wants to do bad things with you. But all talk and no action. Can't tell if she's a student or not. Serious ADHD though. Local looking girl so maybe just not in to white guys.
58. Luvmeorh8 me77 - 46 year old Local woman. Pretty muscular, looks like a weightlifter type. Not really my thing but was semi-interested. Asked about arrangements then she went on vacation to CA. She never followed up afterwards.
59. Lil_one – waste of time. Can't hold a convo and not serious about meetups.
60. Mxghtcap – local girl. Doesn't seem serious about meetups. Off site for weeks at a time. May just not be in to white guys.
61. KamaKimmy – disappeared after a few days of convo. Seemed GPS. Don't waste your time.
62. Silver – hot looking girl. Not on the site very much. Don't think she's serious or might be a scammer. Account is verified, but definitely not a professional. Could be an O F er of pic seller not sure.
63. ExcitedDuchess – claims to be a bottle girl and works a poker game as a server. Tried to meetup with her at the poker game for an arrangement after game was over, she disappeared and hasn't been back. Either trying to funnel people to the game, or she's just playing games.
64. Lovelykenziek – very cute student – totally my type! Messaged for a few days. Get to the part about an arrangement or meetup. Disappears and hasn't been back on site since.
65. Obscureprincess – local girl, messaged me. Says she searched and came across my profile, after reading it blah blah blah. Sounds like a salesman pitch. Bot or fake in my opinion.
66. Sensualgoddess222 – messaged for about a week. Decent convo. Could probably actually be a friend, not a fuck buddy, but doesn't seem interested in meetups. Maybe just not her type. Seems like a nice girl though.
67. Lilinoe – convo started. Never finished. Ghosted.
68. Ludovica – GPS – wanted me to pay her 500 just to meet in a public place for lunch or coffee to discuss an arrangement. Yeah no. GTFOH.
69. Little_baybea – white girl with a decent ass. Wants dinner dates. Not interested in anything sexual.
70. Victoria – Goes by Vick – local girl. Messaged back and forth a few days. Got to the point of meetup discussion, left on read and ghosted. I see she's active again now, but haven't bothered with reaching back out.
71. Veesellshomes – cute looking 30 year old, but is more interested in trying to sell you a house or get you to list with her. Realtor obviously. She might be open for dinner dates and trips, but she seems to have zero interest in a ppm or anything sexual.
72. Miche – tiny asian girl. Doesn't seem interested in a meetup, or younger or white guys isn't her thing.
73. Chrlttetheprincess – not serious about meetups. All talk, no action. Don't waste your time.
74. Gardengirl – messaged a few days then ghosted. Wouldn't waste time here.
75. Jaybee197 – saw where one monger said he had success with her, but not sure I buy it. Messaged back and forth for about a week. Seemed interested in a meetup or longer term arrangement. Then disappeared when it came time for particulars and actual plan to meetup. Seems sporadically active on the site also.
76. SillySarahhh – don't waste your time. Cute pics, but not serious. Total time waster.
77. Celina – in New York now apparently. Quoted my 800 for a meet with lots of rules and everything covered. No thanks.
78. Singlesweetmom – time waster. Another military spouse going through divorce. Sits at home all day playing games online. Just looking for attention. Cute, but not at all serious.
79. May – not serious. Cute, but couldn't hold a convo, no interest in meeting up.
80. Lovelybird888 – weird late 30 year old white girl in an orange bikini. She has a new profile now that is lovelybird808 but with same pic. Her pics are screenshots of pics on her phone. Also weird. You can see the arrows on the screen. Quoted me 6 bills for a meetup, but I wasn't feeling it. Says she's Polish. Talked to her on the phone and has the right accent, and said she was a delivery driver in town. Was going on about seeing some guy that was a mechanic and fixed her car but then it was breaking down again, he ran in to her walking in the parking garage yada yada. Seems like a nutcase and drama queen that I don't need to deal with. Had an LA phone number. Careful with this one.
81. Barbiegyal – wanted to sell me pics and vids for 3 bills. No thanks. I'm a hands on guy that doesn't waste money on pics and vids.
82. BbAurora24 – hot looking young girl. Messaged but she has total GPS and only wants platonic dinner dates and trips. GTFOH.
83. AlwaysMissME – profile says she's 30. I think she's early 40's though. Nice man mades but has total GPS. 8 bills for 1 hour. All kinds of rules. Nope.
84. SumScarlet – white blonde girl. Quoted 10 bills right off the bat. Sorry GPS not getting that out of me.
85. Bbyhailey – gorgeous looking asian 19 year old Messaged a few times but no response. Maybe not in to younger guys or white guys. Not sure though. I imagine she's wanting only platonic or is total GPS just looking at her, but maybe not. At any rate she's not interested in late 30's white guys.
86. Dulcebebe – Colombian girl. Doesn't actually seem interested in anything but platonic.
87. Surfergurl999 – snobby GPS white gurl looking for platonic only. Very cute though. YMMV but I wouldn't waste my time.
88. Keababy – profile claims she's looking for causal fun, but doesn't respond to messages. Looks like a local white gurl. Maybe white guys isn't her thing.
89. Beach baby – white girl with long legs. Messaged a few times. No response.
That's all I got and all I can remember for now. There's probably another 20 or 30 not listed that I messaged once and never responded back, or deleted their profiles. Moral of this story is SA is just not worth the trouble anymore and I'll probably be deleting the app. AMPs, PD, BP, etc seem to be the only reliable outlets anymore. Too much ADHD, GPS, platonic pay me to be your friend BS, or just general time wasters and scammers, spammers, and bots / fake profiles. Good luck to those of you still here, I just don't see the value in paying 1300 a year for a site that does little to nothing to screen the female profiles and actually, in my opinion, muddies the waters with fake accounts and bots posing as real people just to cheat you out of your 100 bucks a month. That's just me.
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10-23-23 21:18 #2935
Posts: 98Weird one
https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-f7214f28dc3f
Apparently she travels back and forth to Oahu regularly. Weird vibes. Def not all natural, tits are definitely fake, and she wants to try pass for a newbie when it's pretty clear she's seasoned. I would even guess she's an ex pro.
4, tons of rules, and just the fakery was annoying and big turn off for me.
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10-21-23 17:18 #2934
Posts: 350Originally Posted by Yummy808 [View Original Post]
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10-21-23 06:07 #2933
Posts: 43Originally Posted by GrateFu [View Original Post]
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10-19-23 14:53 #2932
Posts: 54SD Forum
Originally Posted by JoeBlows [View Original Post]
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10-18-23 09:50 #2931
Posts: 27SB user seekingclarity
Anyone meet with Seekingclarity? Was speaking with her and asked her to verify with snapchat. She sent me her pic and asked for mine. Took too long and she freaked out and blocked me on snap and on seeking. I suspect she is legit but was unable to confirm. Her tag is cutest haole you ever did meet. And she is cute.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6...e-c3ca7c50a82f
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10-17-23 23:55 #2930
Posts: 3Originally Posted by Butigroove [View Original Post]
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10-17-23 16:35 #2929
Posts: 7Kayla
Anyone able to meet up with Kayla lately? Saw her had a profile back up for a short time a few weeks back, but forgot to message and then disappeared. She's always provided a good time.
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10-13-23 05:58 #2928
Posts: 67SD Forum
I've long suspected this. It's the only way that these girls would know to be asking the same exact prices across the board, especially the brand new to the game SBs. And what's worse, that some of the idiots on this site and in the game just keep throwing dollars at them for pussy. Been back on SA actively for 3 months after some long term freebie relationships, and you'd have to be blind not to see it. I spent hours upon hours when I got back on SA talking to just about every girl that was recently active (when I have time I'll do a deep dive post on it so others don't waste their time) and every one of these girls asking for 600,800, 1000 for an hour, when just two and three years ago it was 200 and 300 for an hour. There's a forum, which I actually suspect is probably hosted or encouraged by SA to join, where all these girls are talking and sharing the "going rate" and which John's are the desperate saps or don't give a shit about throwing 500,1 K at a 20 something for some pussy. No thanks. Inflation my ass. The pussy is the same. Hasn't gotten better. Isn't more scarce, so no way in hell to justify those rates. Nor 3 K-4 K a month allowances. That's a month's rent or mortgage payment for most. Ne hole is worth that. Idiots have ruined the SB scene here by over paying because they are desperate for pussy. And there's now too many on the site wasting time and space just hoping to find that one desperate sap that's going to drop a grand for an hour of their average uninspired pussy. AMP all day and get 3, 4, 5, fucks for the price of one of these SBs. And don't get me started on the ADHD, inability to carry on a conversation, or the. How much will you give me to be your friend and go to dinner with you platonic shit. The entire scene here has really fallen off a cliff the last two years thanks to * and the like and more desperate saps wasting cash for pics and vids when there's an internet with billions of free pics and vids at your disposal to jerk until your dick falls off. The good days, the easy days, are gone for sure.
Originally Posted by HotMuse69 [View Original Post]
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10-12-23 22:54 #2927
Posts: 98SB's forum
Recently found out from one of my SBs that they have an equivalent of this forum that discusses SDs LOL. I didn't get the specifics, will try to find out more and share. Thought it was amusing. Anyone know the forum / chat room / site?
*hope this is within forum rules here, if not, please delete
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08-22-23 21:47 #2926
Posts: 178Older blond
I started a conversation with this one but my membership expired. I was interested in meeting up but I don't want to renew just for her. If anyone can DM me contact I would appreciate it.
https://members.seeking.com/member/3...a-0fddb154859d
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08-22-23 15:42 #2925
Posts: 103Photos from seeking
Originally Posted by SteveTandberg [View Original Post]
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08-21-23 18:42 #2924
Posts: 103Hot MILF. Possibly Hawaii based
https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-01731043c10d
Been going back and forth with this one. Seems like she lives in Hawaii or visits quite often. Any experiences with her? She definitely seems like she's been a SB for some time.
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08-13-23 17:39 #2923
Posts: 109Originally Posted by LivininDa808 [View Original Post]
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08-12-23 08:48 #2922
Posts: 806Originally Posted by Pawghtr16 [View Original Post]