Sugar Babies / Arrangements

[DallasCowboys8]

This is what the younguns say are #goals. Drowning in pussy is the promiseland and to have 20-22 yr old three and foursomes is a dream that a lot of mongers would invest in to attain.

I dabbled in Secret benefits but spent way more time just trying to find legit girls who followed through. Got lucky only with one who was latina / Chinese and a former stripper. She was effin hot and we had some good fun, even had a photo sesh with toys. But recently I've been coming up empty handed and ran out of those damn credits. Figure it's easier to just hit the MPs since I don't got time to wine / dine. But the SB chase is definitely exciting.

Appreciate the nuggets that Nerd and Muse dropped and totally agree. Hana'Paa!

Right on the money. When you date a girl normally you got to wine and dine them first too to get anywhere, it's no different with SA, except actually easier because on the date the ball is in your court and we typically hold the power / attention dynamic on SA dates.

I'm currently seeing 3 SBs who are all friends currently in college. Met one on SA and hit it off, she was new to SA, and we had a platonic date first to break the ice. But she's super hot so I considered the date an investment. Hooked up on the second date and the rest was history. After a few months she introduced me to her friends. They're all 20-22 yr old, and absolutely smoking. Long story short, I treat them really well with a high allowance, even spent the money to take them on trips. But I've been drowning in pussy basically everyday in singles, threesomes, and foursomes with them.

Before this I had almost a year of inconsistent dry spell on SA. And I understand this current situation might not last forever since those girls are so hot they're bound to get in serious relationships sooner or later. But it's like any investment with a big swing, you just got to roll with the times and stick to the due diligence when times are dry.

[Pawghtr16]

You need to take a screenshot of the ladies that you are looking at. If you don't have membership, you can't see the pictures. You have to log in.

My bad.

My apologies.

[Honolulu Yobo]

You need to take a screenshot of the ladies that you are looking at. If you don't have membership, you can't see the pictures. You have to log in.

Just figured I'd give this SA thing a go. Got an account. Just wanted to see if you guys that have been on it can give some info on these two. Real / fake, worth it?

https://members.seeking.com/messages...6-609ec7dc1a23

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...1-5a4eb9853fbf

Cheers!

[Pawghtr16]

Just figured I'd give this SA thing a go. Got an account. Just wanted to see if you guys that have been on it can give some info on these two. Real / fake, worth it?

https://members.seeking.com/messages...6-609ec7dc1a23

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...1-5a4eb9853fbf

Cheers!

[HotMuse69]

I found that many are willing, but will definitely not say so upfront. Arrangements take time and if you're very upfront and direct, they will just say "platonic only" even if they're actually willing to do more. This is also their way of making sure you're a real SD and not just looking for a 1-nighter which is not what they're looking for unless it's big dollars. Besides, many of those profiles are "public". The last thing they would want is a family member DM'ing them something explicit and screenshotting that they have agreed to it. Small island.

Sure, some babies really expect to get paid for doing nothing, but I'm sure that many are aware of what is expected of them even if they won't agree to it outright. I've found that many "platonic only" babies are really using that as a screening method. I ask every baby about some of their worst horror stories and believe me when I say that for every timewaster baby we talk about, there's also a timewaster daddy. Be decent looking, have your own place, have a nice car, have the money you say you have. When you come through, so will they, because they know what they need to do to make sure the arrangement works. If they want to just run off with a few hundred and scam you, just consider that a 'daddy tax' and that you've saved a lot of time by being able to move on.

Right on the money. When you date a girl normally you got to wine and dine them first too to get anywhere, it's no different with SA, except actually easier because on the date the ball is in your court and we typically hold the power / attention dynamic on SA dates.

I'm currently seeing 3 SBs who are all friends currently in college. Met one on SA and hit it off, she was new to SA, and we had a platonic date first to break the ice. But she's super hot so I considered the date an investment. Hooked up on the second date and the rest was history. After a few months she introduced me to her friends. They're all 20-22 yr old, and absolutely smoking. Long story short, I treat them really well with a high allowance, even spent the money to take them on trips. But I've been drowning in pussy basically everyday in singles, threesomes, and foursomes with them.

Before this I had almost a year of inconsistent dry spell on SA. And I understand this current situation might not last forever since those girls are so hot they're bound to get in serious relationships sooner or later. But it's like any investment with a big swing, you just got to roll with the times and stick to the due diligence when times are dry.

[SugaFoot]

Moving this to the right thread-.

Feb report.

I was on Island 10 days in Feb and I meet these with mixed results.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-e1f4e92bbb83

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...6-87278b71d001

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-c08a174f1858

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-79b23ed4e503

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...d-69eebd40d977

** Knew this before so: https://members.seeking.com/member/4...a-8ca0a31a761f..

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...1-5a4eb9853fbf

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-75c85f090ce4

Met a few others on Tinder that were much better but overall Hawaii seems to be course correcting from the Covid years.

[NerdFriday]

I just signed up again. For the price it's not worth it IMO. Too many girls are just wanting to get paid for not doing anything.

I found that many are willing, but will definitely not say so upfront. Arrangements take time and if you're very upfront and direct, they will just say "platonic only" even if they're actually willing to do more. This is also their way of making sure you're a real SD and not just looking for a 1-nighter which is not what they're looking for unless it's big dollars. Besides, many of those profiles are "public". The last thing they would want is a family member DM'ing them something explicit and screenshotting that they have agreed to it. Small island.

Sure, some babies really expect to get paid for doing nothing, but I'm sure that many are aware of what is expected of them even if they won't agree to it outright. I've found that many "platonic only" babies are really using that as a screening method. I ask every baby about some of their worst horror stories and believe me when I say that for every timewaster baby we talk about, there's also a timewaster daddy. Be decent looking, have your own place, have a nice car, have the money you say you have. When you come through, so will they, because they know what they need to do to make sure the arrangement works. If they want to just run off with a few hundred and scam you, just consider that a 'daddy tax' and that you've saved a lot of time by being able to move on.

[Dan1388]

So how are you guys doing with the sugar baby sites recently?

I just signed up again. For the price it's not worth it IMO. Too many girls are just wanting to get paid for not doing anything.

[SugaFoot]

So how are you guys doing with the sugar baby sites recently?

I was on island the last week and had a few positive hits between SA and Tinder. Frankly it was the best week since before covid.

[Big Gulp]

So how are you guys doing with the sugar baby sites recently?

[BotoMoco]

IDK if seeking was ever $40 a month without some kinda "special" promotion. The site seems same to me from at least 4-5 years ago. There are different ways to display the babies, so maybe you're in the wrong "mode" and that's why it looks weird.

Check to see if you have profile "filters" on. If for some reason you're only looking for babies 7' tall or whatever (ex: height), or only within a weird location (ex: Captain Cook Island), that could explain it. I logged in and it looks normal to me.

Its kind of f up Idk how that happened I deleted my profile and signed up again. It then charged me the full rate and now I have access to all the chickies. Idk wth happened but I feel like I got scammed.

[NerdFriday]

Hi guys,

I recently resigned up to seeking.com and the site I am on is no way like the site I was on before. Even the charge was like 40 bucks a month or something. When I sign on I only get expired profiles idk WTF is going on. Any help out there?

IDK if seeking was ever $40 a month without some kinda "special" promotion. The site seems same to me from at least 4-5 years ago. There are different ways to display the babies, so maybe you're in the wrong "mode" and that's why it looks weird.

Check to see if you have profile "filters" on. If for some reason you're only looking for babies 7' tall or whatever (ex: height), or only within a weird location (ex: Captain Cook Island), that could explain it. I logged in and it looks normal to me.

[Waerqw]

So, update with weird twist.

I noticed something or someone was "updating" my profile every time I tried to change it. First, they removed any "numbers" from my profile. Understandable. I updated it again with no numbers, within one hour, another part of my "About" was deleted, with some of the text there completely changed. I reached out to the last real person I found on the site and asked if they could help me. She agreed. She sent me a screenshot of what my profile looked like, and to my surprise, SHE WAS NOT EVEN ON SECRET BENEFITS, she was on a site called "Luxury Date".

This means that there are multiple websites all connected with one another.

The icing on the cake is that I got "shadowbanned" in this process. I was messaging here on there, but somehow she quit responding to me. I know she didn't block me, because access to her secret photos was still there (when you get blocked, it removes your access to the photos, but you can still see and message the SB she just won't receive your messages). I texted her since I had her number from earlier in the conversation, and she told me she never received any messages from me after her last message to me, so SHE THOUGHT I GHOSTED HER!

Yep. I'm out. Sticking to Seeking for sure.

I've also had my suspicions of SB. I had another hookup over the holidays and just had a meet and greet through it so it's been working, but it's certainly not fast. I'm not on seekingarrangement anymore so I can't really compare success across sites.

I'm not sure how many sites are linked together in the "SecretBenefits" system, but that's another to add to the list. Sugardaddy.com, secretbenefits, and now luxury date. I'm suspicious of message screening, because 90% of the time I read a message and reply, I'll get the photo access request / permission notification but no further messages. I'm not sure if they straight up shadowbanned you or are just screening messages, but that's incredibly shady of them. TBF, I've had similar issues on seekingarrangement, but overall the site felt less scammy.

For anyone that does decide to use SecretBenefits, here's the strategy to avoid the site sucking your credits dry.

Avoid any upselling from the site- read notifications, message boosting, any "unlocks" outside of baseline messaging. None of these make any meaningful difference in your reply / success rate, the only thing that's potentially useful is secret photos if they don't have many public photos. Think of it this way- what do read notifications actually tell you? If they respond, you're having a conversation. If they leave you on read or don't open your message, nothing really changes- you either message them until they respond or you give up. Secret photos are basically a scam if they have public photos up- they aren't going to be nudes. I'm not 100% sure on message boosting, but I honestly don't think it does anything since it hasn't had any affect on my successes / failures (my 4 successes were unboosted).

SB added even more upsell bullshit with the "questions" and "top admirer". Just ignore them, there's no reason to spend more than 10 credits to message.

Also, the "verified" tag doesn't really mean much imo. 3/4 of my successes were from "unverified" profiles. The more reliable way to spot a bot / fake is to read their profile and look at their pics. Remember, we live in Hawaii. More than likely a real girl here is going to have at least 1 picture taken on a beach here with a distinctive landmark like chinaman's hat or the mokuluas. Their profiles are also probably going to be more than 1 or 2 sentences.

[BotoMoco]

Hi guys,

I recently resigned up to seeking.com and the site I am on is no way like the site I was on before. Even the charge was like 40 bucks a month or something. When I sign on I only get expired profiles idk WTF is going on. Any help out there?

[NerdFriday]

So, update with weird twist.

I noticed something or someone was "updating" my profile every time I tried to change it. First, they removed any "numbers" from my profile. Understandable. I updated it again with no numbers, within one hour, another part of my "About" was deleted, with some of the text there completely changed. I reached out to the last real person I found on the site and asked if they could help me. She agreed. She sent me a screenshot of what my profile looked like, and to my surprise, SHE WAS NOT EVEN ON SECRET BENEFITS, she was on a site called "Luxury Date".

This means that there are multiple websites all connected with one another.

The icing on the cake is that I got "shadowbanned" in this process. I was messaging here on there, but somehow she quit responding to me. I know she didn't block me, because access to her secret photos was still there (when you get blocked, it removes your access to the photos, but you can still see and message the SB she just won't receive your messages). I texted her since I had her number from earlier in the conversation, and she told me she never received any messages from me after her last message to me, so SHE THOUGHT I GHOSTED HER!

Yep. I'm out. Sticking to Seeking for sure.