I get scammer. Her profile says "only in your illusions" instead of "only in your dreams" . She's also "nonchalant" sorry, 18YOs don't use that word. I sense Google translate. She probably wants it in advance.
I clicked on the link and viewed her profile. An hour later I get a message from her saying she's in my city for the holidays. Her profile location is now Memphis. I'm in Coeur dAlene so I got a conversation going. I told her I read a nasty report on her online, didn't say where I read it and she replied that she had a bad date with an creep from Idaho. So I think we should all do similar things to waste her time. I don't think she's ever been here.
I had one about a month ago, said she was in Spokane, hot chick but it had Texas references. We talked about hooking up then she said she needed groceries, please Venmo $50, please, please? So I just said, what grocery store do you go to? If you go online and pick out $50 in groceries I'll pay for it and you can go pick it up? I knew she wasn't in Spokane so that didn't work for her.
1. Their number one superpower is drainage of your time. Think about what your time is worth per hour, and look at what they've cost you. Not literally, but who of us really has much free time? Find something better to do with that time.
2. Maybe her clout with Seeking won't hold up if she were to report you, but she probably has others in her network working accounts that could report you and get your account banned. Then where would you be? She could also report you to Google Voice for harassment and violating terms of use, getting your number shut down (happened to me).
I have had similar experiences. Actually I think most here probably have. I cannot remember her name now but this was about 2 years ago on SA she looked probably 30 and not a day older very good looking blonde (I bet the pics were fake too). I reach out to her and she says she is a new single parent with a kid that is here desperately looking for someone to buy her diapers and formula for the kid. I try to convince her that we should get to know each other better and over 2-3 days of messaging she asks for venmo at least once every conversation. I finally tell her to pick out the diapers and formula online and I will pay for them. She insists that she would rather have the cash directly and be able to choose exactly what she wants. I told her she did not sound that desperate for help and blocked her stupid ass. Are these women this transparent. I mean no game to speak off and they think we are stupid enough to fall for this stupidity. I can only guess that there were probably a lot of chumps on SA that did venmo her the cash.
I clicked on the link and viewed her profile. An hour later I get a message from her saying she's in my city for the holidays. Her profile location is now Memphis. I'm in Coeur dAlene so I got a conversation going. I told her I read a nasty report on her online, didn't say where I read it and she replied that she had a bad date with an creep from Idaho. So I think we should all do similar things to waste her time. I don't think she's ever been here.
I had one about a month ago, said she was in Spokane, hot chick but it had Texas references. We talked about hooking up then she said she needed groceries, please Venmo $50, please, please? So I just said, what grocery store do you go to? If you go online and pick out $50 in groceries I'll pay for it and you can go pick it up? I knew she wasn't in Spokane so that didn't work for her.
1. Their number one superpower is drainage of your time. Think about what your time is worth per hour, and look at what they've cost you. Not literally, but who of us really has much free time? Find something better to do with that time.
2. Maybe her clout with Seeking won't hold up if she were to report you, but she probably has others in her network working accounts that could report you and get your account banned. Then where would you be? She could also report you to Google Voice for harassment and violating terms of use, getting your number shut down (happened to me).
Here is another pic that was sent. After the treats started coming in I tied her up for about 4 hours going back and forth LOL. She fucked with the wrong guy LOL. All that time for nothing. I know there's nothing I can really do myself. I do really appreciate anyone that wants to waste her time. You guys are great.
I clicked on the link and viewed her profile. An hour later I get a message from her saying she's in my city for the holidays. Her profile location is now Memphis. I'm in Coeur dAlene so I got a conversation going. I told her I read a nasty report on her online, didn't say where I read it and she replied that she had a bad date with an creep from Idaho. So I think we should all do similar things to waste her time. I don't think she's ever been here.
I had one about a month ago, said she was in Spokane, hot chick but it had Texas references. We talked about hooking up then she said she needed groceries, please Venmo $50, please, please? So I just said, what grocery store do you go to? If you go online and pick out $50 in groceries I'll pay for it and you can go pick it up? I knew she wasn't in Spokane so that didn't work for her.
I tried to open the link but I'm blocked so it's probably her or whoever is behind it.
You hear about this shit and then it happens to you.
My profile pic are deleted and I'm done on seeking. There all scammers, flakes and over priced. The one gal I hooked up with was horrible in the sack. Price was ok but was a dead fish. I wouldn't see her again if it was free.
So I just had a gal from seeking try to extort me for $1000.
Some how she or them was able to find my Facebook profile. Was going to out me to my family if I didn't pay. Well the joke was on her because my wife new I was looking around. I made a vid of the wife telling them to go fuck off and sent it to them.
She blocked me before I could link her profile. She goes by Cheeky something and calls herself Kayla. She is from Seattle and is 25 or 26 if my memory serves me right. Her profile talks about being a tattoo artist. Hopefully the pic I linked helps.
Please go find and light this girl up for me.
It sounded familiar, here ya go. "Her" profile location moved to Wyoming, like a lot of scammers they just move around:
So I just had a gal from seeking try to extort me for $1000.
Some how she or them was able to find my Facebook profile. Was going to out me to my family if I didn't pay. Well the joke was on her because my wife new I was looking around. I made a vid of the wife telling them to go fuck off and sent it to them.
She blocked me before I could link her profile. She goes by Cheeky something and calls herself Kayla. She is from Seattle and is 25 or 26 if my memory serves me right. Her profile talks about being a tattoo artist. Hopefully the pic I linked helps.
Wondering if anyone here has met her? She looks amazing!
Guys. She is in a different league. Don't harsh on her. If you are serious about D / S (being a sub), she's going to make you suffer safely. Her fees are targeted to a type. If you're not ready to pay that, she's not going to see you. She has an extensive background, has put a lot of effort into this, and is probably going to blow anyone else away, if you're looking. Your first session will be a $300 consult. She wants to make sure you can handle the stress of it, because she will go full effort, and needs you to be prepared. All the pictures are real.
Is that **really** a thing or do some ladies just pretend it is?
To me, at least, that kind of crap is about as arousing as a bucket of ice water poured in my lap.
Had an ex who was always a pushy ***** about money and about my money. One day she took her car into the shop and told them I'd pay for it. I got a call from the shop later that day and didn't know a damned thing about what he was talking about. Followed by a call from her where she screamed at me about how I humiliated her by not paying for her car. She never asked me to and I never agreed to. So she was left in the gutter and I never spoke to her again.
Is it really a thing? Ya maybe, but probably for a really small fringe who get off on paying to be teased or humiliated. Or other stuff. I've lurked around Fetlife on occasion out of curiosity, and the diversity of human sexuality is truly amazing. Makes me realize what a vanilla wafer I am by comparison. And perfectly happy with that.
Yeah, I can see that's possible and not really financial domination the way a lot of these "ladies" play it. The only thing is I've never met a girl who was such an angel that a 4 k / month scene would be sufficient, and her temptation to ask for more and ratchet it all up would be overwhelming. Women are very good at putting pressure on guys close to them and turning up the heat and the drama to get what they want.
If you follow people in "the lifestyle" who are involved in dominance and submission and the like, you realize there are a bewildering set of rules that have been put in place to guarantee everyone's safety and that everyone can have a good time. With these "FinDom" scenes there aren't really any of those rules and the person dominating you has no reason to give a single f**k about your safety and well-being.
I think what happens is that some girl hears about "financial domination" and says, "oh, I can get some schmuck to give me money whenever I want it and I don't have to fuck him? Okay, yes I can do that. " They have no clue about it except they get money. It's the same as the people that only want online sugar daddies, they think that all they have to do is send some pictures and guys will pay them thousands each month. They are almost always wrong. It's very rare and there are millions of more takers than givers.