Non Pro's

[DrtyHarry]

I caught something from a Seeking girl using a condom. It broke (twice) and though I immediately stopped and put on a new one, that didn't stop anything. I (or you guys) lucked out because I reached out to the last 4 people I saw and all 4 tested negative. So, it was literally the last person I fucked. I'm out of commission until at least March. My doctor isn't treating one of the things I got (yes, I got more than one) because she's waiting for more tests to see if it's a false positive. 35 years of this and this is the second time. First in 22 years. It's nothing untreatable, just embarrassing. My New Year's resolution was to not pay for hookers or wannabe hookers in the US and I started meeting normal people and doing civi dates. I have 3 people that I'm supposed to go out with that I have to cancel, because you never know what will happen on a date and I don't want to give them something.

Sorry to hear that man. It is rare to catch something if you are using a condom, but in your case, it did tear. Either way. Maybe a break until March is good. You will enjoy it more when you have waited a little. .

[DelToro]

I caught something from a Seeking girl using a condom. It broke (twice) and though I immediately stopped and put on a new one, that didn't stop anything. I (or you guys) lucked out because I reached out to the last 4 people I saw and all 4 tested negative. So, it was literally the last person I fucked. I'm out of commission until at least March. My doctor isn't treating one of the things I got because she's waiting for more tests to see if it's a false positive. 35 years of this and this is the second time. First in 22 years.

And no, I'm not saying who it is, but if you are seeing or had been a Seeking girl from Venezuela, get tested.

I never went bare in TNA and never got anything in 10 years

In SA if the occasion arises and I feel comfortable I might go bare. Have been there 6 years, I test every three months. I did caught something once like 3 years ago but got it fixed fairly easy. But yeah the risk is there.

[Michael1967]

Maybe, but I had fucked 8 new women from SA since the beginning of the year. I had two more that ghosted me. My profile is fairly explicit so when a woman replies to me, they know there is no BS.

What I have noticed is an increase on condom usage, I usually do not request bare, but usually it happens 85%+ of the time, but 4 out of those 8 required them, and oddly 3 of those 4 go to sapphire.

I caught something from a Seeking girl using a condom. It broke (twice) and though I immediately stopped and put on a new one, that didn't stop anything. I (or you guys) lucked out because I reached out to the last 4 people I saw and all 4 tested negative. So, it was literally the last person I fucked. I'm out of commission until at least March. My doctor isn't treating one of the things I got (yes, I got more than one) because she's waiting for more tests to see if it's a false positive. 35 years of this and this is the second time. First in 22 years. It's nothing untreatable, just embarrassing. My New Year's resolution was to not pay for hookers or wannabe hookers in the US and I started meeting normal people and doing civi dates. I have 3 people that I'm supposed to go out with that I have to cancel, because you never know what will happen on a date and I don't want to give them something.

And no, I'm not saying who it is, but if you are seeing or had been a Seeking girl from Venezuela, get tested.

[ProJohn1]

Maybe, but I had fucked 8 new women from SA since the beginning of the year. I had two more that ghosted me. My profile is fairly explicit so when a woman replies to me, they know there is no BS.

What I have noticed is an increase on condom usage, I usually do not request bare, but usually it happens 85%+ of the time, but 4 out of those 8 required them, and oddly 3 of those 4 go to sapphire.

Bare what? We are talking about condom blowjobs here?

[DelToro]

The past couple weeks at SA and WYP there has been an increase in fake / scam profiles and a lot less attractive seekers compared to before the holidays. Is this normal for this time of year or something?

Maybe, but I had fucked 8 new women from SA since the beginning of the year. I had two more that ghosted me. My profile is fairly explicit so when a woman replies to me, they know there is no BS.

What I have noticed is an increase on condom usage, I usually do not request bare, but usually it happens 85%+ of the time, but 4 out of those 8 required them, and oddly 3 of those 4 go to sapphire.

[Mamouna]

SA requires a bit more finesse, so the YMMV factor is way stronger, (also you need to concentrate in the more realistic population (not the super hot 20 something) that are still better looking than the average TNA provider) but for some SA is a gem even now that is not as good as a few years back, one could have much better experiences there than in TNA. And I was a top reviewer at TNA with the perks of being a known entity there entailed.

The past couple weeks at SA and WYP there has been an increase in fake / scam profiles and a lot less attractive seekers compared to before the holidays. Is this normal for this time of year or something?

[ProJohn1]

I had been on a bit of a hot streak on SA and got reckless. "Premium" membership and nudes convinced me to CashApp her 50 bucks before the meet. More angry about the wasted time than money:

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...d-63c4e1eeeaa3

I never would have messaged this girl, she gives me off the batshit crazy vibe.

[Marko Ramius]

It's seeking without having your time wasted! It's a hooker site. They're all basically hookers at this point.

There are no shortage of total time wasters on TNA.

For me the sugar sites are far better places to look than TNA or any escort sites. Yes, there are a lot of scammers and grifters on any of those sites. But there are on any escort site too.

From my standpoint you can do a better job of screening out to find suitable ladies on sugar sites for far less money (though sometimes more time) than any escort site. You are going to have (for all practical purposes) zero LE problems, and while every escort I've seen in the last fifteen years has been addicted to something, you can actually meet a lot of girls on the sugar sites who aren't junkies. It is kind of refreshing.

Also, the sugar site girls know they need to make a good impression on that first date, so you aren't likely to have many of the petty and silly dramas the TNA whales put all of us through.

[DelToro]

It's seeking without having your time wasted! It's a hooker site. They're all basically hookers at this point.

SA requires a bit more finesse, so the YMMV factor is way stronger, (also you need to concentrate in the more realistic population (not the super hot 20 something) that are still better looking than the average TNA provider) but for some SA is a gem even now that is not as good as a few years back, one could have much better experiences there than in TNA. And I was a top reviewer at TNA with the perks of being a known entity there entailed.

[Calous]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...8-eab6b188d711

Will tell you she is having bad day. She is broke and out of food. Wants cash app for food. Will ask for half of date cash apped to her before date. Luckily I talked her way down so I only lost a little. Won't show for date.

[Scrom]

It's seeking without having your time wasted! It's a hooker site. They're all basically hookers at this point.

After spending a couple months with high success rate on Secret Benefits I'm back to TNA. I thought I wanted these dates but the ladies are just as screwy if not worse. Way easier to be in and out and you aren't getting hit up to pay a cellphone bill every other day.

But the site does work about 30% of the time and there are some freaks. Met my first service sub on that site.

[PriceIsRight39]

What is TNA?

It's seeking without having your time wasted! It's a hooker site. They're all basically hookers at this point.

[DelToro]

Maybe I am just too paranoid. I insist on a public meeting first in almost all cases, and prefer we both have a couple of days to think about it before going for a private and intimate meeting. Since I'm picky about them I close with about 20 to 25 percent of 'them. On the other side they typically stay in my rotation for at least six months or so, and I prefer having them in a rotation for a long time if they are a good fit.

It is just that I have no patience for drama or BS and won't put up with it just to get my dick wet. I can get a no-drama fuck at any MP or AAMP for less so if I just want a one and done that's what I go for.

I do public meeting first always, but I do try to move to intimacy afterwards. Of course without pressuring them, as I am also optimizing for a long run, not just one and move on.

But before we meet, we usually chat quite a bit to limit the possible surprises that would make me not to move forward.

[DirtyFuk]

Is Sarcasticfungirl around?

Will she still do bareback gang bangs?

[ScottScot]

I had been on a bit of a hot streak on SA and got reckless. "Premium" membership and nudes convinced me to CashApp her 50 bucks before the meet. More angry about the wasted time than money:

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...d-63c4e1eeeaa3