Non Pro's

**DilzParty** · 08-02-23 16:14

Originally Posted by Kinkaid69 [View Original Post]

It's not that 100 is a lot, it's a filter. The girl who wants money for a first meet is either a scam, or she is here primarily for the money. She's more likely to be fake, business like, semi-pro, or jaded.

Agreed. If you are just looking to smash, the $100 is the non-refundable application fee. But I am not expecting to develop a good long-term SR with someone with that as the start.

**Kinkaid69** · 08-02-23 14:05

It's not that 100 is a lot, it's a filter. The girl who wants money for a first meet is either a scam, or she is here primarily for the money. She's more likely to be fake, business like, semi-pro, or jaded.

The ideal SB is looking for a gentlman with the means and class to treat her well and give her experiences she can't get from guys her age, or she fetishizes older guys. These sort of real SBs don't need an added inentive to be treated to an expensive meal, she is happy to enjoy the experience. The alowance or PPM is just a way to make up for the time she spends with you, instead of working or hustling, so she has the freedom to enjoy your time together.

Originally Posted by ProJohn1 [View Original Post]

I read on here that you shouldn't ever pay a meet up fee. That's true right? This girl wants 100 bucks to meet up she seems nice enough but after what I just went through. Don't feel like paying just to meet somebody to talk to them. 100 bucks is nothing though. Still feels eh.

**NYTransplant1** · 08-02-23 12:09

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-4a99d2e7badf Birdie.

I rarely call out users for 'GPS' but she is claiming 600 PPM would be her minimum to entertain meeting and she currently has 'a few' that pay her 1500 PPM. She's cute, but not that cute.

**JSnake921** · 08-02-23 10:27

Originally Posted by MarkoRamius [View Original Post]

Keep in mind that most of the sugar girls are pretty easily impressed. And the ones that aren't are probably pretty greedy and jaded and you don't want or need to bother with them.

So I make a point of taking them on a first meetup to a pretty nice restaurant. Nice enough that they've probably never been there or anyplace comparable. My own experience is that if you play that right they will basically throw themselves at you to get more of that alone.

Honestly I find it shocking how many girls in their 20's never seem to have been on a halfway decent date with any guy. So if you take them someplace nice, are reasonably clean, and are kind and courteous they will be out of their clothes and on their backs for you in short order.

Hahaha, so no fast food joints or bikini stand meet ups, got it.

**Marko Ramius** · 08-02-23 10:08

Keep in mind that most of the sugar girls are pretty easily impressed. And the ones that aren't are probably pretty greedy and jaded and you don't want or need to bother with them.

So I make a point of taking them on a first meetup to a pretty nice restaurant. Nice enough that they've probably never been there or anyplace comparable. My own experience is that if you play that right they will basically throw themselves at you to get more of that alone.

Honestly I find it shocking how many girls in their 20's never seem to have been on a halfway decent date with any guy. So if you take them someplace nice, are reasonably clean, and are kind and courteous they will be out of their clothes and on their backs for you in short order.

**PoonHound1969** · 08-02-23 09:48

Originally Posted by NikKnew1 [View Original Post]

Well that's to bad! I've been eyeballing her. She's a cutie too! Don't need the attitude.

And she wanted 6 bills to play.

**NikKnew1** · 08-01-23 23:56

Originally Posted by HelloThar [View Original Post]

FilipinoKitten.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-513cdb2384be

Pro vibes, wanted to meet immediately, gets snarky if you ask questions (it's always the pros that get so mad easily).

Well that's to bad! I've been eyeballing her. She's a cutie too! Don't need the attitude.

**Marko Ramius** · 08-01-23 23:09

You are paying them to leave. And leave you alone.

When I was younger I got into whoring not because it was the only way I could get pussy, but because I could be pretty damned sure that none of the ladies I engaged with would start calling me at work or show up at my apartment at 3 am pounding on my door. A lot of women, especially a lot of younger women, seem to be perfectly willing to engage their inner stalker if they feel they have been wronged.

**ProJohn1** · 08-01-23 22:33

I read on here that you shouldn't ever pay a meet up fee. That's true right? This girl wants 100 bucks to meet up she seems nice enough but after what I just went through. Don't feel like paying just to meet somebody to talk to them. 100 bucks is nothing though. Still feels eh.

**AlanHeckle** · 08-01-23 22:30

Originally Posted by HelloThar [View Original Post]

FilipinoKitten.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-513cdb2384be

Pro vibes, wanted to meet immediately, gets snarky if you ask questions (it's always the pros that get so mad easily).

This would be her (3rd profile in about a month. Seems more scam than pro tbh.

**ProJohn1** · 08-01-23 21:44

Also I will add on this girl (https://members.seeking.com/member/0...6-9f41d9bf7551) "LatinaK" that she told me that her last arrangement she was in for a month and at the end she told me the guy threatened to call the cops on her and get his attorneys involved to get all the money back he had given her? I was thinking to myself. Hmmm. That's really fucking weird. Who knows how that really went down but clearly she is just a grifter and conned him too.

**HelloThar** · 08-01-23 21:00

FilipinoKitten.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-513cdb2384be

Pro vibes, wanted to meet immediately, gets snarky if you ask questions (it's always the pros that get so mad easily).

**DickIncider12** · 08-01-23 20:52

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

This all could be due to a difference in ages. I'm 55. I've done the 18-25 YOs on Seeking. They are cute as fuck, but the vast majority are lousy in bed and for the most part they are too young to have the life experiences that make them interesting to talk to. So, you're basically paying a premium price for a nice body on a person that is a lousy lay and when you're talking to them, they are talking about stuff that you aren't really interested in or care about.

The women in their mid-30's are still young, still hot, but they usually have the sex thing figured out (especially if they expect to get paid for it) and they generally have enough life experience to have a great conversation with.

So, as a 55 YO, I'm still getting young and hot (and probably out of my league) with someone in their mid 30's. If I were in my 30's or lower to mid 40's, I could get those women anyway, so I'd probably go after the ones in the lower 20's who normally wouldn't date me.

We are all saying the same thing, we just come at it from different perspectives because of our age.

That's what I love about these college girls man, we keep getting older they stay the same age!

**Michael1967** · 08-01-23 20:43

Originally Posted by AlanHeckle [View Original Post]

You're not wrong but at least for me I'm not really digging the older women (unless they are total smokeshows) because honestly I feel that I could get a 37 year old divorcee with kids normally. Why pay for it? Part of the appeal is getting that college woman who I couldn't get otherwise.

This all could be due to a difference in ages. I'm 55. I've done the 18-25 YOs on Seeking. They are cute as fuck, but the vast majority are lousy in bed and for the most part they are too young to have the life experiences that make them interesting to talk to. So, you're basically paying a premium price for a nice body on a person that is a lousy lay and when you're talking to them, they are talking about stuff that you aren't really interested in or care about.

The women in their mid-30's are still young, still hot, but they usually have the sex thing figured out (especially if they expect to get paid for it) and they generally have enough life experience to have a great conversation with.

So, as a 55 YO, I'm still getting young and hot (and probably out of my league) with someone in their mid 30's. If I were in my 30's or lower to mid 40's, I could get those women anyway, so I'd probably go after the ones in the lower 20's who normally wouldn't date me.

We are all saying the same thing, we just come at it from different perspectives because of our age.