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[HelloThar]

So after a few years away I'm back on this bullshit. Wow, it's different, but still fun! Nothing like the glory days 10 years ago, but still fun. There are probably 10 x more fake accounts. Quite a few more older ladies, and not as many pros. The prices are nuts, 500 is the new norm, with most girls starting out with something like "I could do 800 ppm, but my usual allowance is 1000". Most are willing to negotiate if I'm polite. The sweet spot for me is still young daddy issues, before the addiction sets in, with a hint of crazy. Here are a few to share, I might have more when I'm done with them.

This one is 5 mos prego, wants 350 ppm, can host. I didn't meet her, she sent a pic of the bump, looks small and sexy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-38f0f7ce26a7

Can't figure this one out. Sends an unreasonable number of sexy, but low quality pics, so many pics she doesn't see my replies. "Almost ready" and "getting in the uber now" for hours, then dissapears. I suspect blues, or insanity, or blues to cope with the insanity, or insanity from so many blues. Anyone met her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-0fe604a2aade

This one is better looking in person, if you're into the tomboy / dike look, genuine and smart. Probably not down to f**k, or maybe I'm not her type. Kinda shy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-24a8f8daf0d4

Also Marcy is still out there 😉.

First one has reports that she's a starfish in bed, CFS, nonexistent in the GFE department. If you don't care about that as she still has a nice body and looks. Kind of pissy attitude in text and I think this is a short term thing for her. Might as well get someone from the other board with all those negatives though.

Second one I've chatted with but got nowhere. I suspect time waster, but I didn't pursue due to distance.

Also if someone says 'my usual is 1000, but I'm willing to go down to 800' it's usually complete bullshit. They're likely looking for around 600 in that case but want to get the suckers in. However, everyone has different definitions of what a meet is, so 600 for an overnight isn't necessarily a bad deal. It's the ones that think their time is worth gold and say 1-2 hours for 600 that piss me off.

Imagine being on the site desperate for money yet thinking your time is worth so much more and you can't justify more than an hour or two. If your time is so valued, maybe you wouldn't be on SA.

[MilfHunter66]

This one is better looking in person, if you're into the tomboy / dike look, genuine and smart. Probably not down to f**k, or maybe I'm not her type. Kinda shy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-24a8f8daf0d4

Also Marcy is still out there 😉.

I met her for lunch on Tuesday. We talked for a bit. I don't think she is out to fuck random guys but may if it's the right one. She would be a long term investment that may never pay off. I'm not going to.

[Kinkaid69]

So after a few years away I'm back on this bullshit. Wow, it's different, but still fun! Nothing like the glory days 10 years ago, but still fun. There are probably 10 x more fake accounts. Quite a few more older ladies, and not as many pros. The prices are nuts, 500 is the new norm, with most girls starting out with something like "I could do 800 ppm, but my usual allowance is 1000". Most are willing to negotiate if I'm polite. The sweet spot for me is still young daddy issues, before the addiction sets in, with a hint of crazy. Here are a few to share, I might have more when I'm done with them.

This one is 5 mos prego, wants 350 ppm, can host. I didn't meet her, she sent a pic of the bump, looks small and sexy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-38f0f7ce26a7

Can't figure this one out. Sends an unreasonable number of sexy, but low quality pics, so many pics she doesn't see my replies. "Almost ready" and "getting in the uber now" for hours, then dissapears. I suspect blues, or insanity, or blues to cope with the insanity, or insanity from so many blues. Anyone met her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-0fe604a2aade

This one is better looking in person, if you're into the tomboy / dike look, genuine and smart. Probably not down to f**k, or maybe I'm not her type. Kinda shy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-24a8f8daf0d4

Also Marcy is still out there 😉.

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[FarFarAway]

One trick I've learned on SA is that if you share private photos, taking away permissions has just as much of a chance in getting a greeting as anything else. Something about seeing that prompt 'their private photos have been unshared' triggers insecurities.

Agreed. When I don't have a paid membership and can't message, I often will share private photos to get someone's attention. All of my pix on the site aren't me, so there's no risk. And I have also had the experience of unsharing photos jars a girl to reply to my message (s).

[EasyLife772]

So do you have anything to input about this one specifically or are you just speaking in general terms?

Yea mine always tell me I'm the only one!! Women are known for their faithfulness. Haha.

We're all f-ing the same women!! So y'all Ninjas stay out of TX! Ok? Hahaha.

[PriceIsRight39]

Yep, I've had several long term sugars and we were exclusive. Always more reliable than a traditional relationship.

Yea mine always tell me I'm the only one!! Women are known for their faithfulness. Haha.

We're all f-ing the same women!! So y'all Ninjas stay out of TX! Ok? Hahaha.

[EasyLife772]

Exclusive? LOL sure.

Yep, I've had several long term sugars and we were exclusive. Always more reliable than a traditional relationship.

[HelloThar]

Yeah, that has been getting worse for a while.

I read somewhere that around half of people aged 18 to 34 have a diagnosable mental health condition. I also fucking believe it. In my professional life I have to hire and fire a lot of folks in that age range and it is pretty stunning how many seriously fucked up people are walking around out there.

And let's face it, if you are an attractive younger female with debilitating anxiety and depression SA is someplace you are very likely to end up. My own experience is about ninety percent of the ladies on those sites do have a significant mental health issue. And I'd also say if you are kind and a little bit patient ninety percent of the time it isn't an issue. Also it can work for you because a lot of them are seriously uncomfortable in a public place like a restaurant so you can just move the whole meetup to someplace private and let things proceed from there.

If that sounds awful, it kind of is. But in practice if I meet someone and it is obvious (and it will be obvious) that they aren't able to handle the situation for whatever reason I cut things off early, preferably before we get all naked. On the other side of it nobody is going to take responsibility for your safety and well-being in these situations except you, so you need to do what it takes to take care of yourself and keep yourself safe.

I use those kinds of terms about safety because I've met more than a couple of girls on that site who were, I judged, capable of stabbing me in my sleep or burning my house down. So that shit is out there.

I'm of the same opinion regarding making sure they have their shit together early. Not looking for drama, especially if we're having to trust one another in private.

And it works most of the time -- I can 'usually' tell in text and would say it's a rarity to meet anyone unhinged by that point. But I've heard some bad stories about meetups. For me, it's when disagreements come up down the road and no matter how polite you are, you start seeing the other side of people when they don't get their way. I get it in some ways, you're a source of income and now that's being threatened. But we're not obligated to give them anything if we don't see them and they don't have to meet us.

I think much of the entitlement also comes from having a large amount of attention on SA. How dare this guy drop me when I have all these other guys at my beck and call?

One trick I've learned on SA is that if you share private photos, taking away permissions has just as much of a chance in getting a greeting as anything else. Something about seeing that prompt 'their private photos have been unshared' triggers insecurities.

[PoonHound1969]

Any intel on this one? First encounters have gone excellent but if I lock down a sugar and drop the roses needed for this one I want to be sure it's a safe and exclusive situation.

Exclusive? LOL sure.

[Marko Ramius]

Is it just me or do the women on SA take it extremely poorly when you end things with them. I do it out of courtesy each time, but I'm beginning to think just ghosting is the better option with how badly many take it...

Yeah, that has been getting worse for a while.

I read somewhere that around half of people aged 18 to 34 have a diagnosable mental health condition. I also fucking believe it. In my professional life I have to hire and fire a lot of folks in that age range and it is pretty stunning how many seriously fucked up people are walking around out there.

And let's face it, if you are an attractive younger female with debilitating anxiety and depression SA is someplace you are very likely to end up. My own experience is about ninety percent of the ladies on those sites do have a significant mental health issue. And I'd also say if you are kind and a little bit patient ninety percent of the time it isn't an issue. Also it can work for you because a lot of them are seriously uncomfortable in a public place like a restaurant so you can just move the whole meetup to someplace private and let things proceed from there.

If that sounds awful, it kind of is. But in practice if I meet someone and it is obvious (and it will be obvious) that they aren't able to handle the situation for whatever reason I cut things off early, preferably before we get all naked. On the other side of it nobody is going to take responsibility for your safety and well-being in these situations except you, so you need to do what it takes to take care of yourself and keep yourself safe.

I use those kinds of terms about safety because I've met more than a couple of girls on that site who were, I judged, capable of stabbing me in my sleep or burning my house down. So that shit is out there.

[HelloThar]

Is it just me or do the women on SA take it extremely poorly when you end things with them. I do it out of courtesy each time, but I'm beginning to think just ghosting is the better option with how badly many take it.

Have seen stuff from name-calling to blaming me for their deadfishing (my favorite, and I only met them once) to personality shifts. Hell, a couple have tried to get me to send them money as an obvious last hurrah when I'm pretty sure I'll never see them again. Some of these are women I've seen for months.

There's also this sentiment that you owe them the same thing even if they try to change the terms, then they lash out when that doesn't work for you. It's especially apparent when they get complacent about meetups. You definitely get a thicker skin over time dealing with all the bullshit.

Sort of a rant, but hopefully many can relate and / or learn from the 1 year mark that I've been on SA.

[HelloThar]

Anyone else getting the sense of an uptick in chat bots via text? I am on the search again and have had three or four profiles that all ask question after question with generic responses in text. A couple went sexual very quickly again just question after question. One seems to repeat a sentence or two regularly.

It's like chatting to a reverberating wall. I did accuse one of it / said sorry if I was wrong to which she called me a liar and told me to go away. LOL. Again, a very odd response. How was I lying?

Getting annoyed. Search seems more difficult this time round than previous times.

One thing I try to do is have them initiate the conversation just so I can sus out scammers / bots. They should be asking questions about your initial message or profile.

I noticed a lot of illegitimate profiles will just agree to whatever you say and you're doing most of the texting. Even a simple question asking you what your ideal arrangement is like is better than 'how are you?

You can usually tell who is fake within 1 or 2 messages.

[Paradigum]

Anyone else getting the sense of an uptick in chat bots via text? I am on the search again and have had three or four profiles that all ask question after question with generic responses in text. A couple went sexual very quickly again just question after question. One seems to repeat a sentence or two regularly.

It's like chatting to a reverberating wall. I did accuse one of it / said sorry if I was wrong to which she called me a liar and told me to go away. LOL. Again, a very odd response. How was I lying?

Getting annoyed. Search seems more difficult this time round than previous times.