Non Pro's

[Twister100]

This has to be a record number of fake profiles using the same info and pics of the same person. The scammers aren't even trying now.

[Arfq84]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...d-a0b63e324ccf

Anyone got any info to share on her?

She's been on the site for a while but reverse image search reveals nothing and all the other info I have on her I'm unable to figure out if she's a real person.

She's real but kind of ugly in real life. Same girl as pics but camera angles and filters do a lot. She's got a small forehead and acne.

[HelloThar]

Wow. Less than 12 hours and the profile is deactivated. I see this pretty regularly on verified leads, does anyone have actual information on what's going on?

Mero?

(Please no red pill hypotheticals).

Often times the TGTBT ones get overloaded with messages or raise rates after being reported here, hence why a lot of guys keep many close to their chest, and who can blame them.

Unfortunately, I'm sure there's some false leads sometimes here too just to harass a chick if she snubs someone the wrong way.

[Mamouna]

Natalie (goes by Lili). Highly recommend. Late 20's regular girl. Nurse. Drives a Tesla. Was DTF after a coffee meet up. A bit shy and maybe neurotic but opened up in private. Took 3 shots CIP with a smile over 3 hours. Even offered to cook me dinner LOL. She was happy with $300.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-951d8d27726f

Wow. Less than 12 hours and the profile is deactivated. I see this pretty regularly on verified leads, does anyone have actual information on what's going on?

Mero?

(Please no red pill hypotheticals).

[CommuneWithLav]

Natalie (goes by Lili). Highly recommend. Late 20's regular girl. Nurse. Drives a Tesla. Was DTF after a coffee meet up. A bit shy and maybe neurotic but opened up in private. Took 3 shots CIP with a smile over 3 hours. Even offered to cook me dinner LOL. She was happy with $300.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-951d8d27726f

She seems to have deleted her profile. PMd with questions.

[SocratesRvng]

Natalie (goes by Lili). Highly recommend. Late 20's regular girl. Nurse. Drives a Tesla. Was DTF after a coffee meet up. A bit shy and maybe neurotic but opened up in private. Took 3 shots CIP with a smile over 3 hours. Even offered to cook me dinner LOL. She was happy with $300.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-951d8d27726f

Eh, we mustve had an exchange and it went nowhere and she blocked me because I can't see her profile.

[Merovingian2]

Natalie (goes by Lili). Highly recommend. Late 20's regular girl. Nurse. Drives a Tesla. Was DTF after a coffee meet up. A bit shy and maybe neurotic but opened up in private. Took 3 shots CIP with a smile over 3 hours. Even offered to cook me dinner LOL. She was happy with $300.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-951d8d27726f

[Fudgsicle]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...d-a0b63e324ccf

Anyone got any info to share on her?

She's been on the site for a while but reverse image search reveals nothing and all the other info I have on her I'm unable to figure out if she's a real person.

[RichardQ]

Vanillawaferz.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...5c4debc5c39ede

She is a little chubby, but a cute and interesting girl. She says she is dtf.

She has given me a last-minute cancellation twice. Has anyone had better luck?

[BBAsianLover]

Seeking seems to be a wasteland, has anyone tried secret benefits lately?

[SquidProRow]

Anyone have any experience with MysteriousBabe? Can DM if that helps.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...6-fbc0f514dbf3

[Nilats]

Kind of depends on the situation.

If the shituation is really messed up, talking to them at all is pointless and a waste of everyone's time. If you are talking to them it rapidly becomes a negotiation and you don't need to negotiate.

A lot of times I'll just tell 'them I'm really super busy with work and am traveling for business. That even has the benefit of often being true. After a couple of months all but the most determined figure it out and move on. I do wear a roving manager hat in the extended family business and sometimes consult far away, so it is straightforward for me to tell 'them I have clients in Thailand or Turkey that I need to go deal with for a couple of months.

One reason PPM is really the way to go is that if you are giving them a monthly allowance there is no kind way to end it that isn't really rough for them. And even if I am pissed off and / or just sick of their crap doesn't mean I want to shit on their lives.

Completely agree, and same here. Have to not screw up their lives by being too much of a presence in all senses.

[SquidProRow]

Marcy, is in Spokane now and still on SA.

I tried searching Spokane for Marcy and I'm coming up empty. Anyone have the link?

[PriceIsRight39]

I personally think ghosting is just one of the worst things one can do to someone you have been seeing regularly. I even mention to my SB's at the start that it doesn't matter the reason / we are both adults. Just talk! Don't just disappear. It happens enough with the one-nighters where I don't care / don't expect more. But it's happened with ones I've seen weekly for greater than a year. And there's just no need.

Personal dating life. Only time it's happened is when I have gotten someone pregnant or an std was involved. If either of those happen in the SB life I'd want to know as well.

I really do wish them all well. But would love to know that they found someone; that they moved on; that my hotboxing a fart was too much for them; that my long toe was too crocked to ever look at again or that things simply ran their course / not feeling it anymore. Unread / single checkmark messages are just the worst after the last message from them was saying it was 'Wonderful as always to see you!

I said kind of ghost um. These are not typically LTR's. And I'm not the only one seeing them for sure. If they get weird you sometimes just have to drop them. They will do the same to me if they find a better situation. I don't take it personally. Well not any longer. Hehe.

[HelloThar]

Whenever I get the I miss you, when are you going to see me again messages and I don't want to see them again. I just reply with I have a lot of unplanned expenses and I am low on funds.

Magically they stop missing me 😉.

There was one who took half a day or more to always answer my texts. As soon as I mentioned cutting things off, holy shit did she reply fast, to the point where I wondered if she even read what I wrote. Just shows how anyone saying they're too busy to respond is usually bullshit.