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Originally Posted by
Paradigum
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Why do you care what she spends an allowance on? Set your limits and go for there.
I've had a few longer term arrangements where they start to depend upon your allowance for things like rent. When it ends, I do feel a little bad but I am no longer supporting them. That is there problem.
Personally I do prefer SB's who have a basic income and can pay for the cost of living things themselves. I'm not much for a charity sob story as most of them are scams anyways. Get together and just have fun / relax.
I am going to bring my European SB on a flight to Asia by booking a private suite on the Singapore Airlines A380's one of these days. Sure that's going to be costly but it'll be a mile high bucket list item off the list. Can't bring money with you when you are dead and I can't think of anyone else I'd rather be locked in small quarters with for 10+hours. LOL. Few bottles of champagne. And I'll be a rather dehydrated fellow in more ways than one at the end of it. We were planning pre covid but sadly all put on hold.
I wouldn't call what I say above the 'dream'. I am getting something out of things too. It's a two way street. I would never do this with a girl I have no confidence in her ability to deliver over a trip.
I care. I just can't imagine giving money to someone that's going to waste it on pair of $700 boots or who pulls up in a $60 K car (both people I encountered at Meet and Greets). I'd rather they use it for rent, their kids, school or something like that. I'm not attaching strings to the money I give them, but I won't waste my time with the type of person that will fuck me so they can go shopping for expensive designer clothes. We just wouldn't click.
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Originally Posted by
Paradigum
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Why do you care what she spends an allowance on? Set your limits and go for there.
I've had a few longer term arrangements where they start to depend upon your allowance for things like rent. When it ends, I do feel a little bad but I am no longer supporting them. That is there problem.
Personally I do prefer SB's who have a basic income and can pay for the cost of living things themselves. I'm not much for a charity sob story as most of them are scams anyways. Get together and just have fun / relax.
I am going to bring my European SB on a flight to Asia by booking a private suite on the Singapore Airlines A380's one of these days. Sure that's going to be costly but it'll be a mile high bucket list item off the list. Can't bring money with you when you are dead and I can't think of anyone else I'd rather be locked in small quarters with for 10+hours. LOL. Few bottles of champagne. And I'll be a rather dehydrated fellow in more ways than one at the end of it. We were planning pre covid but sadly all put on hold.
I wouldn't call what I say above the 'dream'. I am getting something out of things too. It's a two way street. I would never do this with a girl I have no confidence in her ability to deliver over a trip.
I don't care what they spend the money on those were just examples.
What it comes down to is they were looking for a rich guy to take care of them for and for the guy to get little in return, this might be a bit specific but I doubt the woman will find out but one joined SA because her friend joined and got hooked up with some tech guy who gave her a CC to use as she wished.
99% of the guys on SA are not going to give unlimited money to some girl and that is where their dreams come crashing back down to earth.
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Why care?
Originally Posted by
BrstMan
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In the past few weeks I have heard several girls say the same thing about how SA was described and what it actually is are 2 different things, their understanding was that the guys on here would take them on trips, pay for whatever. I would call it the fairytale fantasy, one thought I would pay for their rent each month, another pay off credit cards (I am good with if the CC total is like 100.00), another help pay off college and other crap like that.
The girls usually get pissed off and block me.
Why do you care what she spends an allowance on? Set your limits and go for there.
I've had a few longer term arrangements where they start to depend upon your allowance for things like rent. When it ends, I do feel a little bad but I am no longer supporting them. That is there problem.
Personally I do prefer SB's who have a basic income and can pay for the cost of living things themselves. I'm not much for a charity sob story as most of them are scams anyways. Get together and just have fun / relax.
I am going to bring my European SB on a flight to Asia by booking a private suite on the Singapore Airlines A380's one of these days. Sure that's going to be costly but it'll be a mile high bucket list item off the list. Can't bring money with you when you are dead and I can't think of anyone else I'd rather be locked in small quarters with for 10+hours. LOL. Few bottles of champagne. And I'll be a rather dehydrated fellow in more ways than one at the end of it. We were planning pre covid but sadly all put on hold.
I wouldn't call what I say above the 'dream'. I am getting something out of things too. It's a two way street. I would never do this with a girl I have no confidence in her ability to deliver over a trip.
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Pro?
This 'pro' did not even return my intro message. So a very picky pro. *shrug* Her loss.
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SA vs SB
Originally Posted by
BurnerMale
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Is one site better than the other? It seems like seeking is usually the one referenced here. Also any tips how to sign up anonymously on the sites. Don't want things linked to my personal credit card.
Seeking is usually more active, and once you pay messages are unlimited. If I had to choose only one it would be seeking. I've never heard of any problems following anyone back to their real life though the site and their credit card, but I can understand the concern. You should be able to sign up with a pre-paid card, just make sure the card you buy accepts international purchases. Seeking uses a credit processor bases overseas, so some cards won't work.
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Originally Posted by
Kinkaid69
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Yes, most of us use some sort of "burner" or texting app. There are several apps to choose from like TextNow or Burner. I know a lot. Of. People use Google Voice, but that links to a google account with maps and email and advertising. I don't want that much tracking linked to my burner.
How safe is an app? Safe from what? My main concern is having a girl track down my home or employer when she turns crazy, and an app is plenty safe for that. If you're concerned about law enforcement or a really good investigator looking for the sperm doner, you'll need more than an app.
To be completely secure, buy pre-paid phone with cash, pay for dinner dates with only cash. Use only your burner, or a VPN, to access this site or Seeking. I could keep going, but even this is probably more trouble than it's worth.
I only use cash, surprises me when a girl says just send me some money via paypal. NOPE.
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Pnwlifer gps?
Originally Posted by
FantasyManJ
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Here are some for why'all. YMMV and don't treat them as pros. Overnight or at least a few hours during the day on these ones. I might have more insight for you if you are a solid contributor. Don't bother pm-ing me if you don't share good intel to the threads. I got a few girls I am not ready to give up yet but will share if I upgrade. Happy new years everyone.
Mbaby1993 - 300 or 400 ppm?, CIP, no greek, kinda semi pro -
https://www.seeking.com/member/5b570...a-0c03108a4019.
Ellebackwoods - 300 ppm, CIP, greek -
https://www.seeking.com/member/3397a...c-1461ec225b4f.
Krystalyn411 - 400 ppm, CIP, greek -
https://www.seeking.com/member/240ae...3-a9c86fcfd821.
Trynabeboujee_ - 400 ppm, CIP, no greek -
https://www.seeking.com/member/b8c94...6-8df84dfdc69c.
Pnwlifer - 300 ppm, CIP, no greek -
https://www.seeking.com/member/3eb85...9-c7a1642eacd5.
Great list and ty for the helpful intel.
Been chatting it up with Pnwlifer. She's a bit strange and scatter-minded inmho. Wanted to m&g first and made it clear that she hates ppm and turned down 300 so I passed.
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Stg?
I haven't seen her on STG. She has been on SA for a long time. She is one of the first ladies that I messaged on SA, as I remember she had some GPS and was bitchy.
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Ooops
Oops quoted the wrong post...
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Seeking vs. Secret Benefits
Is one site better than the other? It seems like seeking is usually the one referenced here. Also any tips how to sign up anonymously on the sites. Don't want things linked to my personal credit card.
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Great question!
Originally Posted by
BrstMan
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Anyone else use multiple burners or other ways to have more than one untraceable number, how safe is google number or text now.
Sorry don't have an answer to your question but just my 2 cents. I use a few burner apps, with diff created emails and #s. I'm starting to not even want any of that shit on my personal phone. Thinking about prepaid flip phone or another smart phone just for pooning. Technology and tracking back 2 you is too scary in this day and age. IDK! Any tech guys here!
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Burners
Originally Posted by
BrstMan
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Anyone else use multiple burners or other ways to have more than one untraceable number, how safe is google number or text now.
Yes, most of us use some sort of "burner" or texting app. There are several apps to choose from like TextNow or Burner. I know a lot. Of. People use Google Voice, but that links to a google account with maps and email and advertising. I don't want that much tracking linked to my burner.
How safe is an app? Safe from what? My main concern is having a girl track down my home or employer when she turns crazy, and an app is plenty safe for that. If you're concerned about law enforcement or a really good investigator looking for the sperm doner, you'll need more than an app.
To be completely secure, buy pre-paid phone with cash, pay for dinner dates with only cash. Use only your burner, or a VPN, to access this site or Seeking. I could keep going, but even this is probably more trouble than it's worth.
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Burners
Anyone else use multiple burners or other ways to have more than one untraceable number, how safe is google number or text now.
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STG now SA?
She looks like someone I saw on STG before anyone else think that.
https://www.seeking.com/member/dde81...0-62333a59b1a5
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CharlieJayne1 GPS
Big time gps! She's way too fat and ugly to be 600.