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**Bronco62** · 10-04-22 20:59

Originally Posted by Irwin18 [View Original Post]

She asks for $400 ppm and offers to sell pics. Taking it cautiously.

I look for an odd screen name (CuteHeiress, CuteDame, BrilliantDame, DynamicAngel, FineFan, etc). Account only a day or two old and only 1 pic and it's an immediate pass. They all want to go to text quickly, poor grammar, and use of words that you would not usually hear from an American. They all end up wanting to sell you pics.

**Michael1967** · 10-04-22 20:42

Originally Posted by Joseph1955 [View Original Post]

Bait and switch, scams, robs, weirdos and flakes. Obviously, if anyone flips over the card to ask you for anything of value prior to meet, that's a scam. Anyone who can't share a selfie once you start texting is some sort of bait and switch or flake. These women have hundreds of pictures of themselves. Sending you a current one should be no biggie.

I've had people request that I send them photos and I simply say, "there are photos on the site". I've never had a bait and switch and I've done quite a few meet & greets. It's not worth it, if you are meeting them for dinner or whatever, you'll know the minute they walk in the door. I don't send pictures, especially if we talked about money because they may be cops and want a picture of me to know who to arrest.

**Joseph1955** · 10-04-22 19:57

Originally Posted by BoBroBgobs [View Original Post]

Has anyone ever had a bait and switch situation on SA? Recently, I've had 3-4 situations in which I've set up a meet with reasonable allowances and they are all in and ready to come until I ask for some form of verification that they are the person in their profile (current selfie doing something specific, facetime). They either try to completely ignore and just send random selfies which don' prove anything or just stop messaging and block me. I wonder if these are cases of bait-and-switch cause in any of these situations they didn't ask for deposit or money for gas or even try to sell pictures.

Bait and switch, scams, robs, weirdos and flakes. Obviously, if anyone flips over the card to ask you for anything of value prior to meet, that's a scam. Anyone who can't share a selfie once you start texting is some sort of bait and switch or flake. These women have hundreds of pictures of themselves. Sending you a current one should be no biggie.

**FarFarAway** · 10-04-22 19:26

Originally Posted by BoBroBgobs [View Original Post]

Has anyone ever had a bait and switch situation on SA? Recently, I've had 3-4 situations in which I've set up a meet with reasonable allowances and they are all in and ready to come until I ask for some form of verification that they are the person in their profile (current selfie doing something specific, facetime). They either try to completely ignore and just send random selfies which don' prove anything or just stop messaging and block me. I wonder if these are cases of bait-and-switch cause in any of these situations they didn't ask for deposit or money for gas or even try to sell pictures.

Did you speak with them by phone call? That is a requirement for me to get in my car to go meet a girl. If she won't talk to me on the phone, why would I think she would meet me? I have had many who I could not get to do a phone call, if I had set up a meet w / them by text, I would have been disappointed.

**BoBroBgobs** · 10-04-22 19:07

Has anyone ever had a bait and switch situation on SA? Recently, I've had 3-4 situations in which I've set up a meet with reasonable allowances and they are all in and ready to come until I ask for some form of verification that they are the person in their profile (current selfie doing something specific, facetime). They either try to completely ignore and just send random selfies which don' prove anything or just stop messaging and block me. I wonder if these are cases of bait-and-switch cause in any of these situations they didn't ask for deposit or money for gas or even try to sell pictures.

**Marko Ramius** · 10-04-22 18:36

Originally Posted by KnoxNenters [View Original Post]

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In the greater 5 mi radius of downtown Seattle, is there a nice place with couches or nice private booths with comfortable and wide seats that will allow you to cozy up and start getting handsy when things heat up, and not draw too much attention?

I'm thinking hotels and nicer clubs without bright lighting. NOT pubs, bars with loud people and music or restaurant booths.
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Actually, the high-backed booths at 13 Coins have always worked well for a discreet grope for me.

**PoonHound1969** · 10-04-22 18:30

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

Bookstores. Interesting. I usually get them to open up by feeding them alcohol.

My winning formula.

**Michael1967** · 10-04-22 18:14

Originally Posted by KnoxNenters [View Original Post]

I've been meeting a lot of SBs this past few weeks. Book stores, restaurants, bars. So far, the book store has been most successful in getting them to open up. They'll talk about their favorites, or topics that interest them. You can buy them a book, and they'll think of you every time they pick it up. Etc.

But the seating isn't ideal.

In the greater 5 mi radius of downtown Seattle, is there a nice place with couches or nice private booths with comfortable and wide seats that will allow you to cozy up and start getting handsy when things heat up, and not draw too much attention?

I'm thinking hotels and nicer clubs without bright lighting. NOT pubs, bars with loud people and music or restaurant booths.

I just provided you a good suggestion, so PM me if you don't want to give away your hot spot in exchange. Or just open it up to all of us.

Bookstores. Interesting. I usually get them to open up by feeding them alcohol.

**WaldoJnk** · 10-04-22 18:09

Originally Posted by Irwin18 [View Original Post]

She asks for $400 ppm and offers to sell pics. Taking it cautiously.

Pretty much the same MO for me too. Sent me a picture which was just a larger version of her profile pic (more body in the picture). Then started talking about meeting and what I liked. Asked for the same PPM amount. I think it's a TGTBT situation myself. I am still considering it though. Not sure what it is. Maybe the thrill of finding out if it is real or not. I am going to strike up a conversation with her on the weekend if you or KnoxNetters don't beat me to it. Try and go for a confirmation pic (ask for a weird pose). If she can't provide it, then it's likely just a pic seller. I have caught a couple that way. Ask for her to send a pic with her finger beside her nose, or a thumbs up. Something that wouldn't be part of a group of enticing pictures. If she can't deliver. Well there you go (but you likely know this already).

**Michael1967** · 10-04-22 18:01

Originally Posted by KnoxNenters [View Original Post]

I've been meeting a lot of SBs this past few weeks. Book stores, restaurants, bars. So far, the book store has been most successful in getting them to open up. They'll talk about their favorites, or topics that interest them. You can buy them a book, and they'll think of you every time they pick it up. Etc.

But the seating isn't ideal.

In the greater 5 mi radius of downtown Seattle, is there a nice place with couches or nice private booths with comfortable and wide seats that will allow you to cozy up and start getting handsy when things heat up, and not draw too much attention?

I'm thinking hotels and nicer clubs without bright lighting. NOT pubs, bars with loud people and music or restaurant booths.

I just provided you a good suggestion, so PM me if you don't want to give away your hot spot in exchange. Or just open it up to all of us.

Bookstores. Interesting. I usually get them to open up by feeding them alcohol.

**Irwin18** · 10-04-22 17:58

Originally Posted by WaldoJnk [View Original Post]

Hi all,

Connected with this beauty. But I have alarms going off. She went straight to text in a single message. That's usually a red flag to me. Anyone have any experience?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...f-3598c88bf9f5

She asks for $400 ppm and offers to sell pics. Taking it cautiously.

**WaldoJnk** · 10-04-22 00:12

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

Newer. One photo. No information in profile. Is text number local? If not, assume scam until she proves otherwise.

Oh I know. But I think I got a little excited. Rookie mistake.

**KnoxNenters** · 10-03-22 22:58

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

Newer. One photo. No information in profile. Is text number local? If not, assume scam until she proves otherwise.

Massachusetts area code 508. I've got her in a string right now. I'll see what happens.

**KnoxNenters** · 10-03-22 22:22

I've been meeting a lot of SBs this past few weeks. Book stores, restaurants, bars. So far, the book store has been most successful in getting them to open up. They'll talk about their favorites, or topics that interest them. You can buy them a book, and they'll think of you every time they pick it up. Etc.

But the seating isn't ideal.

In the greater 5 mi radius of downtown Seattle, is there a nice place with couches or nice private booths with comfortable and wide seats that will allow you to cozy up and start getting handsy when things heat up, and not draw too much attention?

I'm thinking hotels and nicer clubs without bright lighting. NOT pubs, bars with loud people and music or restaurant booths.

I just provided you a good suggestion, so PM me if you don't want to give away your hot spot in exchange. Or just open it up to all of us.

**Michael1967** · 10-03-22 21:42

Originally Posted by WaldoJnk [View Original Post]

Hi all,

Connected with this beauty. But I have alarms going off. She went straight to text in a single message. That's usually a red flag to me. Anyone have any experience?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...f-3598c88bf9f5

Newer. One photo. No information in profile. Is text number local? If not, assume scam until she proves otherwise.