Non Pro's

**BrstMan** · 11-27-22 14:26

I had been quiet on SA for nearly a year as I had a good thing going, things changed and was back on there looking around. I have noticed the number of women on there seems to have dropped significantly. Is anyone else noticing this? Or is it my search area and settings? I reached out via text to a few from last year via text and they have all dropped off SA.

Is there another site that has popped up that everyone is using?

I am seeing similar things on STG and LC.

**ColoHobbyist** · 11-25-22 10:50

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

I've had some great relationships on SA. I've had several that were like girlfriends or (a good) wife. I involved them in my life and they took very good care of me…A lot of guys just want to get straight to the sex, that isn't going to work there (unless you find one of the escorts, who will charge you more than they do on escort sites).

This is the best advice. Very similar to my experiences. By and large, the women I find on SA are notable for NOT being escorts / hookers / etc. The handful I've met that were down to PPM on a first date that I hooked up with were mediocre and have led me to not ever want to hook up with that type from the site (unless I'm traveling).

The best deals on the site, if you're willing to put in the time and effort, are the ones like Michael described. They're not the hottest, but they make up for that with actual personality, desire, and low cost. At this point, I use SA like Tinder, looking for girls to actually go on dates with and, maybe, even have a relationship with. Paying a girl $$ or $$$ a date is a small price (for me) to pay a girl to overlook a 20 or 25 year age gap (I'm in my mid-50's). Over the years, I've had numerous amazing experiences, including one girl who actually moved in with me for a couple years (and asked me to stop paying her! Admittedly, it's a bit of a needle in a haystack thing to find these girls, but they're definitely out there. They're less about the money than the combination of wanting to feel desired, having actual daddy issues, and / or just enjoying the competence / reliability / resources that an older man brings to a relationship.

To the issue of finding such girls, cast a wide net, send a lot of messages, lower your standards a little*, and be ready to bail on anyone who quotes you a PPM like they know the routine.

I'll be moving up to Seattle-land sometime next year (after a project in Phoenix) and just starting to get the lay of the land, scene wise. When I've visited in the past, I've always found the pro scene pretty solid, but what I've been reading is painting a grimmer pic than I recall (more GPS, more drug abuse, fewer broken nymphos), so I'll probably look for someone off SA.

* Lower, not abandon your standards. I've never had a great experience with a 9/10 or a 10/10 from SA. I've definitely had surprises though. A girl I'd have called a 4/10 based on pics, in person, had a 6/10 face and a 9/10 body with amazing, natural, F cups on a very trim frame. She'd made a point to hide those tits in her photos because she didn't want someone who was just looking for big tits. Met a girl peak pandemic that was, max, a 4/10, but she just was horny and had daddy issues, so I got to absolutely use that girl like a fucktoy (creampies, anal, rough, etc) for six months in exchange for a lot of Starbucks. Enthusiasm is better than looks sometimes.

**ColoHobbyist** · 11-25-22 10:13

Originally Posted by Tuchon [View Original Post]

About to sign back up on Sa. What's everyone using for payment? Are the visa vanilla cards still good? Thank you in advance.

They do. That said, I use the visa gift cards, not the reloadable ones. You can "register" the cards so that they're attached to a name / address. I use a pseudonym and a real address (one of my rental properties). This, along with a VPN and burner phone, is the best way to bypass a ban (if you pick one up).

**Michael1967** · 11-24-22 00:04

Originally Posted by TeninchBeast [View Original Post]

Thank you for the tip. She originally wanted 400 to meet. I was polite and declined. Offered her 300 for two hours at my place.

A week later she hit me up. Came over. We drank some. She likes to be treated like she special. Told she is beautiful. She stayed 3 hours and I dropped three nuts in her. She is needy but a really good sub that will squirt. You just got to be nice. $300 each visit.

She likes sex. She can't deep throat me yet.

Sorry, she's sent me photos and videos and I wouldn't fuck her with someone else's 10 inch beast.

**TeninchBeast** · 11-23-22 19:46

Originally Posted by SeattleGonzo [View Original Post]

She does not advertise on. Stg.

Curvylatina sticks to dating / sb sites.

She is a pro but stg is not part of her business plan..

Thank you for the tip. She originally wanted 400 to meet. I was polite and declined. Offered her 300 for two hours at my place.

A week later she hit me up. Came over. We drank some. She likes to be treated like she special. Told she is beautiful. She stayed 3 hours and I dropped three nuts in her. She is needy but a really good sub that will squirt. You just got to be nice. $300 each visit.

She likes sex. She can't deep throat me yet.

**TnaPorter** · 11-23-22 05:39

Originally Posted by MarkoRamius [View Original Post]

I usually hold out for the "2000 credits for $299" deals (which works out to about $0. 15 per credit) when I top up. 2 k credits usually lasts me three or four months, which is approximately what an SA subscription costs. The added bonus is that if I just drop out and don't use the site for a while my credits are still there when I get back, but old messages are not so I don't waste my time unlocking them.

There does seem to be this bounty thing going on about getting guys to open messages or unlocking pix. Because a lot of the girls seem to just send an intro message and ghost.

I used it for a while because I got perma-banned on SA, but the whole intro message + ghost seems too much like a scam. I would say that this NEVER happens on SA where the girl reaches out to you but then doesn't respond. However on SB, it's the most common interaction that you get. I've definitely met some real girls on SB but I'd say that the percentage of real girls who are looking to meet is tiny compared to SA.

**Marko Ramius** · 11-22-22 14:17

Originally Posted by Money420 [View Original Post]

I think old Herb Rose has a good scam going with SB. It's pretty easy to blow through $100 worth of credits in a couple of days when girls waste them with the "HI" or "Hey" messages and then never respond back to your messages. I believe a lot of these are just planted to waste your time and credits. Think about it. It's a pretty good scam. At least on SA you get a whole month of endless messaging and pics.

I usually hold out for the "2000 credits for $299" deals (which works out to about $0. 15 per credit) when I top up. 2 k credits usually lasts me three or four months, which is approximately what an SA subscription costs. The added bonus is that if I just drop out and don't use the site for a while my credits are still there when I get back, but old messages are not so I don't waste my time unlocking them.

There does seem to be this bounty thing going on about getting guys to open messages or unlocking pix. Because a lot of the girls seem to just send an intro message and ghost.

**Money420** · 11-22-22 13:55

Originally Posted by MarkoRamius [View Original Post]

Well, now on SB you can use your credits to get yourself listed as a top admirer.

I really don't understand the value add for anybody here but SB. Any normal girl would prefer that money be spent on her directly rather than SB. And spending credits this way is no guarantee that you'll get replies back from the lady in question.

So it looks like this is a good deal for SB and nobody else.

I've found the hunting and the cunting on SB to be just about as good and as bad as SA otherwise, and the cost of credits spends about the same (or even a little less) than an SA subscription. But this new thing looks like a way to make it all less valuable.

I think old Herb Rose has a good scam going with SB. It's pretty easy to blow through $100 worth of credits in a couple of days when girls waste them with the "HI" or "Hey" messages and then never respond back to your messages. I believe a lot of these are just planted to waste your time and credits. Think about it. It's a pretty good scam. At least on SA you get a whole month of endless messaging and pics.

**Hypster** · 11-21-22 22:38

She's a typical "send money for gas" scammer.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-93765e0c1125

**Marko Ramius** · 11-20-22 13:10

Well, now on SB you can use your credits to get yourself listed as a top admirer.

I really don't understand the value add for anybody here but SB. Any normal girl would prefer that money be spent on her directly rather than SB. And spending credits this way is no guarantee that you'll get replies back from the lady in question.

So it looks like this is a good deal for SB and nobody else.

I've found the hunting and the cunting on SB to be just about as good and as bad as SA otherwise, and the cost of credits spends about the same (or even a little less) than an SA subscription. But this new thing looks like a way to make it all less valuable.

**Lego19** · 11-19-22 13:30

Originally Posted by BriannasBoy [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-827f1afea0d2

Wondering if anyone here has met her? She looks amazing!

She gave me a link to her website. She seems to be a pro, not what I am looking for on Seeking. You can find her prices here https://deastarbabe.com/indulge-me.

**PriceIsRight39** · 11-18-22 01:38

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

I've had some great relationships on SA. I've had several that were like girlfriends or (a good) wife. I involved them in my life and they took very good care of me. They made sure I had food, made sure I didn't spend too much time working and made sure that I took care of myself. I am still friends with most of them and we talk regularly, but this site isn't about that. You probably want to know more about getting laid.

So, right now I'm seeing someone that is 20 YO, I initially did not have any interest in her. I would say looks are about 5-6/10. She wanted to do a PPM and I was horny so I figured I'd give the ugly chick a try. She is the sweetest kid in the world. Definitely not a great fuck, but then she told me I was the sixth person she's had sex with in her life and she has only been sexually active 18 months. So, she has a lot to learn. At any point, her personality moved her from a 5-6/10 to about an 8/10 for me. No she's not going to win a beauty pageant, but (I'm going to sound like a chick here) her personality more than makes up for her looks. She is the one that I'm basically seeing now. The weird part is that she has a good job, lives rent free in a house that her parents own and she doesn't need the money. At any rate, she comes by after work and we go out and do things, fuck, watch a movie or two, fuck and she spends the night. In the morning we fuck have breakfast, fuck again and she leaves. It costs me $400. I saw three people from the other board last week, I spent more than $1000.

I can go back to previous girls I've seen, but I've reported about them here already. I think the thing that makes it difficult for so many people here is that with SA, you really can't just message someone have them come out, fuck you and leave. Yes, there are numerous escorts on the site that will do that, but for the most part, you're looking at people that don't want to be called escorts. So, you need to actually have a conversation with them, care (or pretend to care) about their issues and problems, be kind and empathetic and make them feel good about their decision to fuck you for money. You can do this without being a cuck. A lot of guys just want to get straight to the sex, that isn't going to work there (unless you find one of the escorts, who will charge you more than they do on escort sites).

I'm in a ltr right now off SA. We did a couple of days together out of town recently. It's basically a second wife. She's not cheap, but I'll admit she gives me a lot of extra time for her " regular " rate. It just happened. I went the first time for a booty call and new we're pretty dang close. The sex is amazing and she'll sleep over sometimes too! Fun girl and actually nice to get close the her in more than humping.

IMO.