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But ending it.
Originally Posted by PriceIsRight39
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They can get weird when it's over. You just fired their azz! Haha women today (and most men) are fragile AF. Also, never expect a women to take accountability. Best to just kind of ghost um TBH. Don't bring um into your personal life. They give two shits about us save the money. It's a fun pretend thy she's "special" and she loves you (I had one that proclaimed her undying love, yes!) but at the end of the day, then are in it for the money. They have been trained by weak fathers and the simps (online and real) that boost their egos. Very few could even cook you a decent meal. They are fun to penetrate however.
That's just my opinion and personal experience, so don't get up in your feelings if you see it differently. I've learned shit about young women I had no idea about in the time on SA. I'm not hating on the ladies, I just don't take them seriously. It's been more fun since I've seen the " code. ".
Peace.
Realize I only covered the ghosting on the SB's part. Ending it on the SD's part is hard yes. The 'grown apart' in terms of availability / schedule at work is the easiest I have found. I have tried to provide 'constructive feedback' in the past that has gone down as one might expect. But sometimes it does come down to just not feeling it anymore on the SDs part as well.
I will say that the hardest was one of my earliest arrangements where I was essentially paying for food and rent. Ending that was hard as it was leaving her in a tough spot (and that is where the just one more month) requests happened. Do need to stick to your reasons when it happens. No good answers. Certainly don't expect another 4 weeks of fun if you ever cave.
I do think my increased failure rate on the site is because I do prefer SB's who don't 'need' to be here. When we do hit it off I sometimes wonder why it isn't normal dating true. But then I remind myself what my ex wife cost me and then I realize that a ppm is sooooooo much cheaper than 50% of what I'm worth. Not to mention the variety compared to the headache.
Just my two cents.
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Why not have some basic level of human decency at the end?
Originally Posted by PriceIsRight39
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They can get weird when it's over. You just fired their azz! Haha women today (and most men) are fragile AF. Also, never expect a women to take accountability. Best to just kind of ghost um TBH. Don't bring um into your personal life. They give two shits about us save the money. It's a fun pretend thy she's "special" and she loves you (I had one that proclaimed her undying love, yes!) but at the end of the day, then are in it for the money. They have been trained by weak fathers and the simps (online and real) that boost their egos. Very few could even cook you a decent meal. They are fun to penetrate however.
That's just my opinion and personal experience, so don't get up in your feelings if you see it differently. I've learned shit about young women I had no idea about in the time on SA. I'm not hating on the ladies, I just don't take them seriously. It's been more fun since I've seen the " code. ".
Peace.
I personally think ghosting is just one of the worst things one can do to someone you have been seeing regularly. I even mention to my SB's at the start that it doesn't matter the reason / we are both adults. Just talk! Don't just disappear. It happens enough with the one-nighters where I don't care / don't expect more. But it's happened with ones I've seen weekly for greater than a year. And there's just no need.
Personal dating life. Only time it's happened is when I have gotten someone pregnant or an std was involved. If either of those happen in the SB life I'd want to know as well.
I really do wish them all well. But would love to know that they found someone; that they moved on; that my hotboxing a fart was too much for them; that my long toe was too crocked to ever look at again or that things simply ran their course / not feeling it anymore. Unread / single checkmark messages are just the worst after the last message from them was saying it was 'Wonderful as always to see you!
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Originally Posted by HelloThar
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Is it just me or do the women on SA take it extremely poorly when you end things with them. I do it out of courtesy each time, but I'm beginning to think just ghosting is the better option with how badly many take it.
Have seen stuff from name-calling to blaming me for their deadfishing (my favorite, and I only met them once) to personality shifts. Hell, a couple have tried to get me to send them money as an obvious last hurrah when I'm pretty sure I'll never see them again. Some of these are women I've seen for months.
There's also this sentiment that you owe them the same thing even if they try to change the terms, then they lash out when that doesn't work for you. It's especially apparent when they get complacent about meetups. You definitely get a thicker skin over time dealing with all the bullshit.
Sort of a rant, but hopefully many can relate and / or learn from the 1 year mark that I've been on SA.
They can get weird when it's over. You just fired their azz! Haha women today (and most men) are fragile AF. Also, never expect a women to take accountability. Best to just kind of ghost um TBH. Don't bring um into your personal life. They give two shits about us save the money. It's a fun pretend thy she's "special" and she loves you (I had one that proclaimed her undying love, yes!) but at the end of the day, then are in it for the money. They have been trained by weak fathers and the simps (online and real) that boost their egos. Very few could even cook you a decent meal. They are fun to penetrate however.
That's just my opinion and personal experience, so don't get up in your feelings if you see it differently. I've learned shit about young women I had no idea about in the time on SA. I'm not hating on the ladies, I just don't take them seriously. It's been more fun since I've seen the " code. ".
Peace.
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Originally Posted by EasyLife772
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So do you have anything to input about this one specifically or are you just speaking in general terms?
In general. I'm not sharing info on the ones I have but I'm sure y'all is in um too. Hehe. I will give intell on some here specifically. I have in the past. You can check my post.
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Originally Posted by DrtyHarry
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Since you mentioned Marcy. I have dedicated this thread to her and put her as the subject. She is a fucking legend. I fucked her every which way for a long time. I used to drive either to Tac or close by and get a room. She is the most unreliable person. So would always have a backup plan. Pop the blue pill with a half bottle of booze waiting for her to show up. We would smoke a little and then it was non-stop fucking. She took it all and loved being treated like a *****. I loved slapping, choking and pulling her hair while jack-hammering her in prone bone. I am getting hard just thinking about her.
Okay back to this list. I have not seen #3. Would like to though. Although she has porridge face, that whole tomboy fixing her dyke mobile (Nissan) thing turns me on. There is a pic with either a hickey or something on her throat. Yeah I would love to fuck her.
Marcy, is in Spokane now and still on SA.
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She's long gone
Originally Posted by Diver6390
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Does she still have an account on SA? If so, do us a solid and post the link, please!
She hasn't had an account on SA for at least a couple years; she's long gone.
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Link?
Originally Posted by DrTraveler
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I know exactly who that is. She is absolutely amazing. Hasn't been on SA in a long long time though.
Does she still have an account on SA? If so, do us a solid and post the link, please!
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Marcy
Originally Posted by Kinkaid69
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So after a few years away I'm back on this bullshit. Wow, it's different, but still fun! Nothing like the glory days 10 years ago, but still fun. There are probably 10 x more fake accounts. Quite a few more older ladies, and not as many pros. The prices are nuts, 500 is the new norm, with most girls starting out with something like "I could do 800 ppm, but my usual allowance is 1000". Most are willing to negotiate if I'm polite. The sweet spot for me is still young daddy issues, before the addiction sets in, with a hint of crazy. Here are a few to share, I might have more when I'm done with them.
This one is 5 mos prego, wants 350 ppm, can host. I didn't meet her, she sent a pic of the bump, looks small and sexy..
Since you mentioned Marcy. I have dedicated this thread to her and put her as the subject. She is a fucking legend. I fucked her every which way for a long time. I used to drive either to Tac or close by and get a room. She is the most unreliable person. So would always have a backup plan. Pop the blue pill with a half bottle of booze waiting for her to show up. We would smoke a little and then it was non-stop fucking. She took it all and loved being treated like a *****. I loved slapping, choking and pulling her hair while jack-hammering her in prone bone. I am getting hard just thinking about her.
Okay back to this list. I have not seen #3. Would like to though. Although she has porridge face, that whole tomboy fixing her dyke mobile (Nissan) thing turns me on. There is a pic with either a hickey or something on her throat. Yeah I would love to fuck her.
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Mystery wife
I know exactly who that is. She is absolutely amazing. Hasn't been on SA in a long long time though.
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Need more then a boob pic.
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Anybody fuck this man's wife?
He's posting pics and asking for people to let him know if they fucked his wife. She looks familiar, but I don't recognize and I usually was banging women who were unmarried.
https://www.reddit.com/r/tacomaafterdark/s/AskiMzxFkc
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Originally Posted by Kinkaid69
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So after a few years away I'm back on this bullshit. Wow, it's different, but still fun! Nothing like the glory days 10 years ago, but still fun. There are probably 10 x more fake accounts. Quite a few more older ladies, and not as many pros. The prices are nuts, 500 is the new norm, with most girls starting out with something like "I could do 800 ppm, but my usual allowance is 1000". Most are willing to negotiate if I'm polite. The sweet spot for me is still young daddy issues, before the addiction sets in, with a hint of crazy. Here are a few to share, I might have more when I'm done with them.
This one is 5 mos prego, wants 350 ppm, can host. I didn't meet her, she sent a pic of the bump, looks small and sexy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-38f0f7ce26a7
Can't figure this one out. Sends an unreasonable number of sexy, but low quality pics, so many pics she doesn't see my replies. "Almost ready" and "getting in the uber now" for hours, then dissapears. I suspect blues, or insanity, or blues to cope with the insanity, or insanity from so many blues. Anyone met her?
https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-0fe604a2aade
This one is better looking in person, if you're into the tomboy / dike look, genuine and smart. Probably not down to f**k, or maybe I'm not her type. Kinda shy.
https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-24a8f8daf0d4
Also Marcy is still out there 😉.
First one has reports that she's a starfish in bed, CFS, nonexistent in the GFE department. If you don't care about that as she still has a nice body and looks. Kind of pissy attitude in text and I think this is a short term thing for her. Might as well get someone from the other board with all those negatives though.
Second one I've chatted with but got nowhere. I suspect time waster, but I didn't pursue due to distance.
Also if someone says 'my usual is 1000, but I'm willing to go down to 800' it's usually complete bullshit. They're likely looking for around 600 in that case but want to get the suckers in. However, everyone has different definitions of what a meet is, so 600 for an overnight isn't necessarily a bad deal. It's the ones that think their time is worth gold and say 1-2 hours for 600 that piss me off.
Imagine being on the site desperate for money yet thinking your time is worth so much more and you can't justify more than an hour or two. If your time is so valued, maybe you wouldn't be on SA.
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I met her for lunch on Tuesday. We talked for a bit. I don't think she is out to fuck random guys but may if it's the right one. She would be a long term investment that may never pay off. I'm not going to.
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