UTR Ladies

[Vbgent4u2c]

I love the idea of UTR but I always feel weird about putting these girls out there. Like I know we are all in this together as hobbyist but one girl I have who is UTR literally only does is just for some spending money for her kids. She'll hit me up when its like birthday / holidays. She's blonde hair and sexy as hell. A little curvier as of late but I really don't mind. However I have tried to hit her up when she wasn't the one calling me and she has always blown me off. How do you approach giving her info out to other guys without losing her as a every now and then fuck? In reality I would really be helping her and be hooking all of you guys up so well. I just don't know how to approach it.

Well, in my opinion, only an idiot would mess up a good thing with a UTR lady. Some UTRL's only want / need one friend on a regular basis. However, in my experience there will come a time when she will need more funds and will ask you if you have any friends that you can send her way. Christmas is right around the corner!

Also, if she is hinting about more money or anything like that you could always suggest it to her and let her make the decision on giving her number out and to whom.

[Nymking]

I love the idea of UTR but I always feel weird about putting these girls out there. Like I know we are all in this together as hobbyist but one girl I have who is UTR literally only does is just for some spending money for her kids. She'll hit me up when its like birthday / holidays. She's blonde hair and sexy as hell. A little curvier as of late but I really don't mind. However I have tried to hit her up when she wasn't the one calling me and she has always blown me off. How do you approach giving her info out to other guys without losing her as a every now and then fuck? In reality I would really be helping her and be hooking all of you guys up so well. I just don't know how to approach it.

From the sound of things, the situation with you is probably ideal for her most of the year and she's probably not interested in having a whole bunch of suitors flocking to her all at once. In the back of her mind, she knows what she is trading for the $, but has it justified in her mind with you. Don't make her feel like you think she's a working girl who'd screw anyone out there for some quick cash (even though she might). Just throwing her info out there, then have 50 guys bombard her would not only blow it for yourself, but probably make her rethink a similar arrangement in the future with anyone. If you think she might be interested in pulling in a little more given that it's holiday season, I would approach the subject indirectly and very delicately, maybe talking about her financial needs for this time of year and let her know what of that you could assist with. If there's still a decent gap between what she needs and what you can help with, see if she has any thoughts on how to make that up, slowly build up to a point where you can read if she seems open to finding other guys. If she does, suggest you think you might know how to find someone interested (don't mention there's a board full of mongers foaming at the mouth, LOL). Unless she says she wants to see "X" more guys, assume just one more for starters (somewhere down the road possibly see if she'd be interested in more, but like I said, don't make her feel like a working girl) , then have SMs PM you their email info and give her the info of the first (or "X" number of) SMs interested for her to contact them from there.

Guess is she might want to meet & feel out any potential new guys on neutral turf (assuming since she is ultra UTR, you ran into her in public first and not answering some personal ad or on a site or something) , see if that's the case and of course mention that in your post. This is one situation where I think it'd be ok to be a bit selfish in that, if she doesn't seem at all game at any point, drop the subject, don't ruin it for yourself.

[Bb2011]

I love the idea of UTR but I always feel weird about putting these girls out there. Like I know we are all in this together as hobbyist but one girl I have who is UTR literally only does is just for some spending money for her kids. She'll hit me up when its like birthday / holidays. She's blonde hair and sexy as hell. A little curvier as of late but I really don't mind. However I have tried to hit her up when she wasn't the one calling me and she has always blown me off. How do you approach giving her info out to other guys without losing her as a every now and then fuck? In reality I would really be helping her and be hooking all of you guys up so well. I just don't know how to approach it.

I wouldn't with her! What I normally do is say that I have friends that I trust that want to see you (the utr chick) and wait for her response! If she's game then she's game if not her loss! B

[Jwredskins55]

I love the idea of UTR but I always feel weird about putting these girls out there. Like I know we are all in this together as hobbyist but one girl I have who is UTR literally only does is just for some spending money for her kids. She'll hit me up when its like birthday / holidays. She's blonde hair and sexy as hell. A little curvier as of late but I really don't mind. However I have tried to hit her up when she wasn't the one calling me and she has always blown me off. How do you approach giving her info out to other guys without losing her as a every now and then fuck? In reality I would really be helping her and be hooking all of you guys up so well. I just don't know how to approach it.

[Nymking]

One of my most recent discoveries was at a local pizza place.

Nice. I always am assessing the talent at some of the places I go to for lunch. There've been 2-3 I think might have been game, but unfortunately they've all been in places that my SO sometimes frequents with me, and don't want the risk of her or her coworkers letting the cat out of the bag, so I can only dream (and not in the "dream" sense that some use as code).

Kind of in reverse, but one provider from around here (I think recently retired) used to be a bartender where my SO & I used to frequent a few years earlier. I didn't recognize her off the bat because when I knew her, all I saw her was in the bad bar lighting and she was preggo at the time. Took her a few, but she recognized me. Ever since then, I've had my radar up.

[Seanrinva]

Nice thread. Hoping to contribute.

[Vbgent4u2c]

Found a very nice looking. 22 year old, thin, asian / aa mix. Needs some help.

SM's and recent contributors you know what to do.

[Vbgent4u2c]

With the abundance of UTR ladies in the area I figured they should have their own thread!

What is a "UTR" lady?"UTR" = "Under The Radar". This could mean several things to different people but my definition is a lady that doesn't advertise on escort sites (Backpage, etc) and is low volume. This could include new ladies or ladies that at one time did advertise / post but don't anymore.

Where can they be found? Well, they can be found just about anywhere. Personal ads, chat lines, at the store, massage ads, etc. One of my most recent discoveries was at a local pizza place.