Was on TER prior and, holy hell, the costs started ramping up way before I even saw a lady and the validity of the rating was shite.
Saw a "38 yo" who, I found out later, was 51 (and looked it!) who then started pressuring me to give her 9's. "You're not going to give me an 8? True story.
I said F that and found HX in '08 and haven't gone anywhere since. Perfect? By no means. Drama? Holy crap. Daily.
But, for the most part, there is a steady stream of ladies that I can weed through to keep me satisfied.
BP is so low rent (and, frankly, all the LE bust shows seem to be from BP), CV is WAY out of my price range so I am where I am.
Like a hobby phone, when my mail expires (in May, IIRC), I will get more points and carry on. My $0. 02.