Respectfully offered. Some tips.
[QUOTE=WarrenAJeffers;2139438]See my post #1680. Bianca / Candace is a scammer![/QUOTE]I read a few of your posts and it sounds like you've had some bad experiences. I've been a hobbyist for over 25 years and my experiences have gotten better as I've learned more. Here are some rules I try to follow. I hope you can gain some insight from them.
For outcall or incall, if the girl doesn't match the picture, that's an automatic no-go. Even if she's hot, she's already proven she's a scammer or that she's working for someone who is a scammer. If she offers a reasonable explanation (that's my roommate's ad, want to meet her?) and the vibe is ok AND she's really hot, still proceed with caution.
For incall, always check the bathroom, closets, etc. I've caught my share of people lurking in the bathroom. If the girl says you can't look around, RUN!!
Trust your gut. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't.
For the SW scene, it's reasonable to show the SW the money, but don't give it to her until festivities are done unless she's someone you know and trust. Keep the doors locked and never park where you're blind or can't get out quickly. (Back into that parking space).
Treat girls with respect. If you're asking the girl to do something that, without the money, would make you think she was trash, then expect her to feel like she's being treated like trash. Asking a girl to do two of you in a row where you're both there. No. Imagine if a SW said "Sorry, I've got to charge more because you're really ugly. " Making an escort feel like a working girl is the same as someone telling me I can't get what I'm looking for without paying for it. Never put an escort in a situation that makes her face the reality that she's sucking cock for money. If it feels like a "friends with benefits" experience to her, then it will for you too.
Some girls are scam artists. That's why we "mongers" try to help each other out on this board. Don't lose your temper, and continue to treat the girl respectfully, but get out of the situation as fast as you can and share what you've learned with your fellow mongers.
Expect that some encounters won't go the way you'd like, and share your experiences, both good and bad on boards like this. When an encounter goes badly, she uses her teeth, she's a clock watcher, she smells like poo, don't get angry over it, just move on and share what you've learned. Treat the girl with respect, and maybe offer some feedback. Saying "less teeth please" solves a lot of problems.
Be clean, be polite, be clear about what you want and expect. Once you're behind closed doors, it's absolutely appropriate to ask "Does this price include <service type?" I've been hit with the "If you want me to do more than a hand job, it costs this much extra" after festivities have begun.
Be prepared to walk away. If you're not both happy with arrangements it's not going to end well. If she's charging more than you want to pay, it's usually better to walk away than haggle over price.
If you end up being a "regular" with a girl, understand that you're going to have to put up with some of the drama in her life. You'll get random texts at 3 am Asking if you can help her out. You'll get to hear about problems with her ex, other customers, other girls, kids, LEO, etc. In exchange, you'll get a level of "service" that most guys can only dream of.
I hope I'm not out of line in offering these "rules. " I mean no disrespect to you or any of the members of this board. I wish someone had given me this info when I was starting out, and I'm grateful that this board exists as a resource.
Stay safe.
Excelent Advice For Us All
[QUOTE=MedicoVan;2141349]I read a few of your posts and it sounds like you've had some bad experiences. I've been a hobbyist for over 25 years and my experiences have gotten better as I've learned more. Here are some rules I try to follow. I hope you can gain some insight from them.
For outcall or incall, if the girl doesn't match the picture, that's an automatic no-go. Even if she's hot, she's already proven she's a scammer or that she's working for someone who is a scammer. If she offers a reasonable explanation (that's my roommate's ad, want to meet her?) and the vibe is ok AND she's really hot, still proceed with caution.
For incall, always check the bathroom, closets, etc. I've caught my share of people lurking in the bathroom. If the girl says you can't look around, RUN!!
Trust your gut. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't.
For the SW scene, it's reasonable to show the SW the money, but don't give it to her until festivities are done unless she's someone you know and trust. Keep the doors locked and never park where you're blind or can't get out quickly. (Back into that parking space).
Treat girls with respect. If you're asking the girl to do something that, without the money, would make you think she was trash, then expect her to feel like she's being treated like trash. Asking a girl to do two of you in a row where you're both there. No. Imagine if a SW said "Sorry, I've got to charge more because you're really ugly. " Making an escort feel like a working girl is the same as someone telling me I can't get what I'm looking for without paying for it. Never put an escort in a situation that makes her face the reality that she's sucking cock for money. If it feels like a "friends with benefits" experience to her, then it will for you too.
Some girls are scam artists. That's why we "mongers" try to help each other out on this board. Don't lose your temper, and continue to treat the girl respectfully, but get out of the situation as fast as you can and share what you've learned with your fellow mongers.
Expect that some encounters won't go the way you'd like, and share your experiences, both good and bad on boards like this. When an encounter goes badly, she uses her teeth, she's a clock watcher, she smells like poo, don't get angry over it, just move on and share what you've learned. Treat the girl with respect, and maybe offer some feedback. Saying "less teeth please" solves a lot of problems.
Be clean, be polite, be clear about what you want and expect. Once you're behind closed doors, it's absolutely appropriate to ask "Does this price include <service type?" I've been hit with the "If you want me to do more than a hand job, it costs this much extra" after festivities have begun.
Be prepared to walk away. If you're not both happy with arrangements it's not going to end well. If she's charging more than you want to pay, it's usually better to walk away than haggle over price.
If you end up being a "regular" with a girl, understand that you're going to have to put up with some of the drama in her life. You'll get random texts at 3 am Asking if you can help her out. You'll get to hear about problems with her ex, other customers, other girls, kids, LEO, etc. In exchange, you'll get a level of "service" that most guys can only dream of.
I hope I'm not out of line in offering these "rules. " I mean no disrespect to you or any of the members of this board. I wish someone had given me this info when I was starting out, and I'm grateful that this board exists as a resource.
Stay safe.[/QUOTE]Great advice for all the members, both new and senior. Sometimes we senior members begin to take things for granted or begin to take shortcuts and maybe not follow the rules that we KNOW that we should. Thanks.
Burner Phone. Good Advice. Any suggestions as to which network?
[QUOTE=Fighter123;2141613]Wish I had found this board before learning some of these lessons on my own. Luckily I've for the most part emerged unscathed and have not lost too much money. This is all sound advice. Thanks for the tips Med. In addition, since some girls may start getting comfortable with you and texting / calling at all hours, so use a burner phone. That way if you start being harassed, you don't have to change your main phone number. As for Candace being a scammer, I could see it happening. Someone struggling for money would just walk out with the cash if they could get away with it. Lucky for me, she has never ripped me off and my experience with her has mostly been good. Well, minus her flakiness and the "can you help me out" calls.[/QUOTE]I definitely need to get a burner phone. That's really good advice. Any recommendations based on experience as to network, etc?
Thanks.
Little red head with freckles WSW
I was passing through Albany going up Central & was at the red light at JH BLVD. This was on July 1 at around noon. She was crossing the street coming from Washington Park direction. She had on a long skirt & a low cut blouse. She looked a little spaced out but waved to me like she knew me. She hops right in my car & says I'll blow you for $20. Who can beat that? I go through the usual BS LEO crap, grab her tit, show her my cock. No reaction. She was cute & clean but out if it. I pick a spot and she goes right to town. Bbbjnqns. Rubbed her pussy and played with her tits. Never got her name. No phone. Sucked my cock nice and slow. She didn't like to go too deep, started to gag when I really started to push my cock in hr mouth. She took it like a champ. I got lucky that day. I hope I see her out again. I'd say she was late 20's early 30's.