Jackie. 51 yo redhead from Encinitas
What can I say? This older man likes older women. After emiling back and forth for most of two days, she came to my PB hotel. She was 30 minutes late, but had been updating me as she came. Pleasant, weathered slender older woman, red hair and freckles. Once she got here, she started telling me she felt sick. Ended up leaving without doing anything. Turned down gas and parking money. Then messaged she didn't have enough to get out of the parking lot. Told her come back up, but she never showed. Real spaced out. Avoid!
Lucky Lovejoy- weird experience
Saw her on BP and she looked like just what I wanted for a morning appointment. Texted a few times for some time the next day then in the morning made contact and headed her way in Chula Vista. Got down there and messaged when I got off the freeway. She gave directions a few blocks away and I followed them in. Got to the street she had me come to and parked. She then told me she was in a motor home on the street. Now. I have 2 problems with this set up. First, an rv just seems a little less secure than a house or apartment- just my preference. Second, it was parked on the curb in front of a school playground. I got to think that any hobby activity in a school zone has to come with a little more risk. There were people around, including a couple guys across the street who seemed to take an interest in me as I walked back down the block towards where she was. This tickled my spidey sense in a major way so I immediately called her back and expressed my concerns and cancelled. I just did not feel right- too many little things adding up. I know she has good reviews and I am sure that she would have provided the promised services. But all the other things right then were just too much.
I got back in the car and drove away. About 2 blocks later my phone rang- it was her- she proceeded to chew me out for being a flake and being disrespectful. She said she was going to put my name and number on some nationwide black list. I told her I understood she was going to do whatever she was going to do and all I could do was apologize. She finally stopped chewing my ass and hung up on me.
Had I known she was in an RV from the start I would not have contacted her. Had it not been on a street with a school I might have considered moving forward, and if the guys across the street hadn't been eyeballing me, who knows? Maybe I would have gone forward.
If she reads this I will just repeat- I had no intention of flaking on her- and felt bad about it, but it just was did not feel right.
Just weird.
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