The twisted little games we play
[QUOTE=Iliketowatch;1167879].... The girls approach him and ask for a drink, and he says no thank you, but give me your digits and we can hook up later. They leave in disgust and I always tell him, you're cold dude. He says no I'm not, our generation doesn't play games. She knows what's going on. If she likes me, I'll know. I don't have to pay to know, reading her actions are free. He says, my generation can separate lust and love, yours cannot. ...... He said, you can chase a dream all your life, or you can fu*k a nightmare. I'm not a lady killer, so reality sucks, and she suck pretty good! Who is this kid? I tell him he has much wisdom and he says no, he just know his generation's quirk's. Best we learn, because we are dealing with their generation now.[/QUOTE]This is deep wisdom here, dude you're like Mr. Miyagi for the Monger set.
It is a chase, but in the end we mongers can always make more money, the clock is against the KBG as she only has a limited earning window before her looks fade. Hopefully, we catch her before that happens. But even if we do somehow end up catching her, once a bar girl ALWAYS a bar girl and she will drop you for a better hustle.
So is it better not to chase? Just to sit back while the game is going on around you? Cause even is you don't play the game, the game gets played on you. As sick as this game of circles is, I'm game to play
Stimulate The Big Head. It Needs Arousing To.
I like to say women in general not just KBGs. Let's look at a bigger picture at a greater scale.
Women are more cautious on men than men are of women. A woman will test a man to see if he can pass her tests or fail them. Most men fail because they are downright predictable. She's able to read him from the very start. It's like watching a movie and there's no suspense and drama. You know women love these types of movies. If the movie is predictable and you know what's going to obviously happen it wouldn't be all that enjoyable and you lack interest in the movie. Most men are too busy thinking with the small head. Women don't think with their putang. Women think with the big head and use their putang tool to their advantage. That's why women don't give it up and put out easily. Some guys like get them drunk, hinder her thinking so it makes it easier to take advantage. It's an easy way of getting through her defenses. A woman is already thinking, judging and labeling you the second she sees you. She figures you out and then thinks: "Just as I thought, another needy desperate guy" If her first impression of you is negative, let's say she views you as a player. You'll have to prove her wrong that you're not one. In the meantime, she has stuck a label on your forehead as player until she feels she can slowly start to peel that label off. Notice I say slowly peel it off and not remove. It's going to take her time until she feels you have passed enough of her tests to where she can finally remove the label. Most men on the other hand, are not cautious when it comes to women. Once they see an attractive woman, getting her is mainly what's registering in his head."Damn, she's hot!" It's gung ho time! It overwhelms them when they see a hot sexy woman. Then, they do outrageous things in hopes of impressing her. But, all it does is pushes them away. It's like a job interview where the employer (hot chick) see an applicant (dud, chump, etc) who writes too many things on his resume to impress the employer. The Employer looks at the resumes (mens backbone) and tosses it aside. The Employer knows they are boasting on the resume. Therefore, they don't want to waste their time reading all of that.
What more men need to do is to do what women do. Be cautious and keep their guard up. Do your own test on the woman to see if she's really playing you a fool. What do these BGs do also? See numerous guys. You need to do the same and keep your options open. See more than 1 girl. This will help minimize being fixated on that 1 girl. If you're applying for a job, you don't want to rely soley on that 1 job position because you really want that job. As much as you feel qualified and eager to get that job, there's a possibility that they may not hire you. Thus the saying: "Don't put all your eggs in one basket" Same applies with women and focusing on that 1 girl. If you don't get the job you were applying for, then what? You're not going to bother looking for another job? The difference here (this is where it can be difficult) is that an employer may turn you down and you feel down and rejected about it, but, a female turning you down is more hurtful because it's personal and involves feelings (if you have feelings for her). But, look at it this way, it's just a job. There are other jobs out there. Same with women. She's just a chick / a BG / AMP girl etc. There are other chicks out there. Like Oldee said in a previous post: "never say never" Never think that you'll never find a nicer car, a better job, a better place to live or a prettier / nicer girl. When you least expect, you find a replacement that can match or better what you currently have or had.
Well said uki! By the way I like to think my big head is the one down under.
I know I've been labeled. Problem is, my label is a tatoo. It's a permanent sign on my forehead. Maybe I should wear a hat, it would also help cover my bald sphere (the kbg's seems to like hiding in their hats around town). All kidding aside. Just looking at the posters here, JR, Mobi, Oldee. . . Are we just spinning our wheels. Are the people we're trying to enlighten, actually on this site? We try to have each others back, but I wonder if they care. Personally, in the past, I thought I knew it all, so maybe the school of hard knocks has to just run it's course. Once you enter the kb world, you will not go back (like a black guy, as I've heard). You get jaded, thick-skinned, and corrupted. I've been to jail, and I'm not the same as before I went in. I was semi-decent before, just like these girls, but I was more skum when I got out. I lie to the kbg's just as much as they lie to me. I call them skum, but I also know I am also skum. The environment changes you. My drinking buddies served in wars and they say they could be the same. They never went into a VB, in fear they would snap. Guys go to kb's because (generally) speaking, relationships with the opposite sex in the normal world just has never worked out for them, for whatever reason. So they bravely slither at first, into our dark world. Growing with false self-esteem, once a girl says,"sure I'll sit with you, handsome". I the man! No tell me what to do, I the one with hottie sitting next to me. Once they enter, they all change, never to go back. You are now me. I am not better a person than you. Just understand the rules of the bar. There are none.
Get Burned In Order To Learn
[QUOTE=Iliketowatch;1168461]Are we just spinning our wheels. Are the people we're trying to enlighten, actually on this site? We try to have each others back, but I wonder if they care.[/QUOTE]There are those out there that don't care actually. They may read but, its not like its registering In their heads. It's unfortunate that they only learn after getting burned. Then, they realize. But, they are willing to take the chance because their current social life isn't all that exciting or they in a state of need for emotional + intimate affection. They either had someone before that didn't work out and trying to compensate for it. Or, a need to have someone they never had. They think they only will go so far and thats it. But, females will push and put pressure and in most cases, they'll just give in. In this day and age, there's a lot of social pressure like never before. It would be strange to find someone being a virgin. If you're a virgin, people would be like: "What? Your still a virgin? Your missing out on life and you need to get laid" Its like get with the program kinda thing. They don't want to feel like a social outcast. The clock factor also comes in."Getting old already. Need to find somebody" The older people (both men and women) they get desperate. Age can affect both men and women. Some people avoid social gatherings to avoid the pressure and criticism by others.
This board is finally livening up!
Theoretical question? If I walked into every kb in town with a bag of 100's, totaling $50g, and asked every girl to have sex that night for all the cash, would any girl decline? Not that I have $50g's, just playing around to see if some girls are not all in for the cash. Remember I look like a bulldog, an old bulldog. Go Butler. What % are the ones that we are spinning or wheels for no chance in hell. Do some girls have too much pride, and will even turn down this much cash for sex? Are these the girls everybody is hopelessly chasing? Are they the young ones? The old ones? The hot ones? The plain ones? The loners? The always in a group ones? The new girls? The old vets? The skinny ones? The fat ones? Are they the ones we already know will go to the rooms for action and the rest will never agree? Does how they get the money matter? Seeing that kbg's are in it for the money and bar guys are in it for the sex? Would U-turn down a chance for sex, free, everyday? . . . But it was with a guy! No matter how much we want to screw, we (I know I have) limits, do they? Would be fun to see everyone's opinion. This though was spurned by all the talk about be-friending a girl, intellectually stimulating a girl, being an advice giver, etc. Great advise, with the hidden motto: Know what makes each girl tick. Then scratch her itch. Anyone know of any girl with a bald fetish? Sumo fetish? Is a graduate of Butler? Let me know.