You don't know what your missing
I am a white southern boy. I had kinfolk shooting at the Yankees in the civil war, and others shooting at the Redcoats in the revolution. My dad shot at Nazi's in WWII and I pulled my stint playing with the Soviet navy in the coldwar.
I'm 47; I grew up with all that racism shit and desegregation too.
The first time I found myself attracted to a black girl I was in highschool; I was pretty confused, but then I confused about all women. The first time I ever had sex with a black girl, she was with a provider; it was a fantasy wonderfully fulfilled.
Beautiful large soft lips that felt just right in the right places; she was simply a wonderful young lady. She had asked me if I'd ever been with a black girl before, so I spilled my tale of a highschooler's suppressed lust, lol. I swear I think that inspired her to make it that much better.
My own take (on the mongering side) is this: Isn't being adventurous and trying something (and someone) different, part of the attraction of the hobby?
Guys you can kind of lump together in masses, but women are almost each a separate species unto themselves whether black, tan, yellow, brown, or white it doesn't matter. Women are the heart of mystery and delight.
I now conclude my "Dr. Phill" moment ;) - and yes, I know he is a phoney - but that incoherency was from this monger's heart.