I agree with all the points made in this uh FAQ? But I would like to ad a fwew comments having been a frequent visitor to many clubs over the years, I dated a good many strippers and currently have been going with a former dancer for the last 14 years, so I do know something about the business.
Do not ever be so foolish to think its about you or your charms, its ALL about the M O N E Y. The girls couldn't care less about you but are highly interested in your wallet. I have seen far too many guys (especially young guys) fall instantly in love and get suckered for every cent they have. After they know you (this takes months and months not just a few visits) there can be the possibility of takeout if you have established a good relationship. Prior to that its all about seperating you from your money, oftentimes through subtle or implied hints that extras are an option but too many times it is just a lead on to get you to spend more money.
I have heard many a guy use a crappy pickup line thinking it will work, all it does is make an ass out of you. These girls have heard every line you could possibly think of so you are just wasting your time.
Ever notice it is the hefty fat girls that are the most aggresive in these places? LOL
Just my 2 cents
[QUOTE=Live for Licken]Ok, thought I would start a thread on this, as I didn't see a FAQ on this board. I have some experience in this area after living in Dallas for several years as well as traveling around and hitting up the clubs in several major cities (as well as in the boonies). I still consider myself a novice, and am always learning new things. Here are some suggestions I picked up over the years.
The Do's:
1. Do take a shower and smell good before hitting up the clubs. The girls will be in more of a hurry to get the dance over with when the guy stinks. Also, if you wear a nice cologne, the really like that too. On another board there was an actual debate over which cologne the ladies preferred guys to wear.
2. If you're going to wear pants, wear some business style dress pants or similar. The reason is that most strippers don't like giving a dance to a guy in jeans. A couple reasons given to me was that they are rough on the skin and hard to slide up and down on. My personal favorite is a pair of somewhat loose fitting dress pants with a long zipper. They're thin, easy to sit down in, easy to adjust, and they're thin. Did I mention they're thin? Oh, and going commando, well, just do it (you'll thank me later).
3. If permitted by club, wear shorts (docker/golf style or gym shorts) during the warmer weather. Same suggestion as pants, again, commando and you'll thank me later.
4. Tip your waitress well. It is well known that the waitresses are a great source of intel on the right type of girl you're looking for. A generous tip can bring up a wealth of info. If the bouncer is not a total douche, and you plan on revisiting the establishment on a regular basis, tip him well too. Some will allow a bit more privacy and watch your back (same as the waitress) when you want to spend some quality time with your lady friend.
5. Tip the girls on stage. Sometimes the dance they give you there can give you an idea of what to expect for a lapdance (but not always). Also, if you're seen pulling out that wad of ones and tipping all the girls, word gets around and you can be sure to have a decent flow of girls your way.
6. Test the club during daytime hours and nighttime hours. Some clubs have a better day shift than night shift.
7. Keep a bottle of Febreeze in the car and/or a change of clothes. If you have a significant other, roomates, or are going back to work it will save your butt. Also, check yourself in a mirror before heading back home/to work. Makeup, glitter, etc could be an awkward conversation starter.
8. Do your homework and read this board and other boards for info on the clubs. Pay attention to your surroundings in the club. Sometimes I'll sit for an hour drinking a beer just making note of the girls and how they act to get an idea of who I want to spend time with. Also, only bring what you want to spend. You don't want the address of the ATM on your bank statement if another can see it. Also, don't let the girl talk you into withdrawing more money and then have them walk you over to the ATM. Look for the 2 for 1 dances, and be sure to check how much the clubs charge for dances before you go.
ok. feel free to add more do's here.
The Don'ts:
1. Don't be an ass to the waitresses or bouncers as you will be on their radar.
2. Don't buy the girls a drink, unless you were very satisfied with their dance, or you have gotten to know them pretty well. If the girl buys her own drink, then you just may have yourself a good one.
3. Don't grope the waitresses, unless you have gotten to know them and they get "friendly" with you. It's poor manners, plus see #4 in the do's above.
4. Don't ask the girls what they will do for or to you on the floor. Alot of these clubs and girls have been raided by police or have been cited for solication and are usually wary of those requests from someone they haven't seen in the club before. A first dance will tell you alot about what might be available from the dancer. Pay attention to how the girls treat other guys in the room, how they sit with them, how much touching they allow, etc. If a girl is giving you an air dance, don't expect anything more. If she pushes your hands away when you touch her arms or legs, don't expect anything more. If she tells you what you can and can't do and it involves you just sitting there with your thumb up your butt, dont' expect anything more.
5. Do not give a girl the money BEFORE the dance. Same rule as with SW applies here. Also, keep track of the # of songs that she has danced to. If need be, stop them after 1 or 2 songs and pay them for those before proceeding further. Also, if an extra special attention is to be made by the dancer after agreement is had, make sure to specifiy if that is all total or with dances included. Best thing is to get her to agree to a said amount no limit on dances.
6. Do not rip off the girls. This should be a given. If you don't want a bunch of angry strippers, customers, bouncers and owners in your face, dont' rip them off. Also, remember that the girls usually pay a "house fee" for dances given, VIP room, etc. With that being said, don't stand for being ripped off either. If you have followed rule #4 in the DO's, you can go to the bouncer first and then the floor manager if you feel you have been swindled (of course this was only for payment of dances). Be calm and explain the situation to the manager. Sometimes you may get some of you money back (all if you're lucky). Managers won't stand for the girls ripping off their customers, since the customers won't be back.
7. Don't get too drunk in the club. You are now an easy mark for the wisened stripper to drain your wallet of all it's contents.
Ok, that's all for now, of course there is alot more info out there.[/QUOTE]