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[QUOTE=Herow;6247788]Being nice goes a long way. That is a baseline for all interactions. Same with not being a disgusting slob. Beyond that they are there for the $, unless they are just looking for a kinky side game.
And 150 is laughable, unless you are banging druggies, old ladies or teenagers who have no idea what they are doing.
If you want to low-ball every profile on SA you can manage to write to in an afternoon, go nuts. Doesn't make anything harder for me. You are like the statue of liberty sugar daddy, looking for the poor, the desperate, the huddled masses.[/QUOTE]I actually mention in my profile I am not a sugar daddy. My bread and butter is single moms between mid 20's-40's.
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[QUOTE=DowntownBoy;6245402]She recently favoured me on seeking arrangements. I know whopte do LOL. But currently not a paying member on SA. She has been reviewed before. Guess she was a bartender? Does anal. Ect. I have. A semi UTR in Plainville I could hook you up with (trade). I was initially not going to share her because I legit had feelings for UTR Plainville girl. But she just fucks anyone. And as the saying goes you can't turn a hoe into a house wife. Believe me I've tried. And just not going to chase sex workers into a normal relationship. I'll post some pictures of SA girl that I'm looking to meet. She has a new profile on seeking. Ill provide the link in a later post. Pictures should be enough if I can get them to post.[/QUOTE]I've communicated with her on SA and Fet. Both instances started the same, friendly and flirty, then complete radio silence.
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[QUOTE=OkWhatever;6247889]Good info. I'm going to start offering much much less. I'm a good looking guy and single. So I don't give a shit about any of this. I got all the time in the world to low ball these women.[/QUOTE]Plan on getting a lot of messages back saying Bye and then being blocked.
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How to pay 300 all-in?
[QUOTE=JDeller;6247400]If you are paying 400 and they host, what is the problem then with paying 300 and getting a day use hotel for another 100? You are paying pretty much in the ballpark what every body else is paying for slim to average attractive women. It is definitely possible to get one for 300 who hosts for what you are looking for. It just might take longer.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I have already started to arrange dates with women who both asked for 400 but could not host so I got them to agree to 300 by saying I would pay for a dayuse hotel near them. My question was about how to get the all-in cost down to 300 instead of 400. Do the ones who host fir 300 ask for more than 400 so you negotiate aggressively or do they ask for 400 or less?
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[QUOTE=OkWhatever;6247889]Good info. I'm going to start offering much much less. I'm a good looking guy and single. So I don't give a shit about any of this. I got all the time in the world to low ball these women.[/QUOTE]That is the problem with your mentality. $100-$150 is a lot of money to a lot of people still. If you think paying that amount is a low ball then something is wrong with you. Play your handsome card because I also believe I am an attractive handsome man as well. See screen shots of my typical text exchange with a sb from SA. Obviously after they see my photo it goes along way also. You will notice that my previous sb Beth told me she was gonna see another guy in addition to me cuz he was gonna pay her more money. I have no problem with that. In fact if they can get more money from other guys but still wants to hang out with you for your set amount it actually says something about your character.
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[QUOTE=Syedna;6248656]Plan on getting a lot of messages back saying Bye and then being blocked.[/QUOTE]That's simply not true.
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Inflation since 2020
[QUOTE=GianniVersace;6249068]That is the problem with your mentality. $100-$150 is a lot of money to a lot of people still. If you think paying that amount is a low ball then something is wrong with you. Play your handsome card because I also believe I am an attractive handsome man as well. See screen shots of my typical text exchange with a sb from SA. Obviously after they see my photo it goes along way also. You will notice that my previous sb Beth told me she was gonna see another guy in addition to me cuz he was gonna pay her more money. I have no problem with that. In fact if they can get more money from other guys but still wants to hang out with you for your set amount it actually says something about your character.[/QUOTE]Your screenshots are a good learning tool for how to deal with SB negotiations but leave unanswered whether since that exchange 2 years ago you can still find a a good SB who hosts for about 200, or for showing how to negotiate their rate down to that level from an initial ask in the 400-600 range, which I get initially.
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[QUOTE=WillSmith96;6248437]I've communicated with her on SA and Fet. Both instances started the same, friendly and flirty, then complete radio silence.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/89bbfebd-33c8-4e58-b3ae-874c18f12111[/URL]
Would love her fet life account. I'm friends with a lot of girls on FetLife. Some dudes too.
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My 2 cents
[QUOTE=GianniVersace;6249068]That is the problem with your mentality. $100-$150 is a lot of money to a lot of people still. If you think paying that amount is a low ball then something is wrong with you. Play your handsome card because I also believe I am an attractive handsome man as well. See screen shots of my typical text exchange with a sb from SA. Obviously after they see my photo it goes along way also. You will notice that my previous sb Beth told me she was gonna see another guy in addition to me cuz he was gonna pay her more money. I have no problem with that. In fact if they can get more money from other guys but still wants to hang out with you for your set amount it actually says something about your character.[/QUOTE]I don't doubt you but none of these discussions mean anything without profile links or pics. Anyone can bag a girl off of SA for 100 - 150. Has nothing to do with how good looking you think you are. There are plenty of women posting these days I wouldn't see if they were paying me. Text messages mean nothing. Posting profiles or pics would make more sense but people do not want to do that which I totally understand. I currently see 2 young professionals for 200. People have posted they get it for free. Again, means nothing unless I post pics of them.
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He's Right
[QUOTE=Spike77;6249328]I don't doubt you but none of these discussions mean anything without profile links or pics. Anyone can bag a girl off of SA for 100 - 150. Has nothing to do with how good looking you think you are. There are plenty of women posting these days I wouldn't see if they were paying me. Text messages mean nothing. Posting profiles or pics would make more sense but people do not want to do that which I totally understand. I currently see 2 young professionals for 200. People have posted they get it for free. Again, means nothing unless I post pics of them.[/QUOTE]Spike is totally correct. Now, with that said, please forward me those young professionals info.
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[QUOTE=EasiePeasie;6249267]Your screenshots are a good learning tool for how to deal with SB negotiations but leave unanswered whether since that exchange 2 years ago you can still find a a good SB who hosts for about 200, or for showing how to negotiate their rate down to that level from an initial ask in the 400-600 range, which I get initially.[/QUOTE]The point of my screenshot from 2020 was A so the chances of my sb seeing the interaction regarding price 2 years ago will be slim. I have pretty high taste in women. I would rather jerk off than see an unattractive woman. Here is another interaction with one my SB's this morning. I normally pay her $100 and she hosts. She asked me for $115 for today and I am ok with that. Again I can't post pics or link to her profile or else it will screw up my arrangement with her when a lot of you guys pay her $250+.
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[QUOTE=Spike77;6249328]I don't doubt you but none of these discussions mean anything without profile links or pics. Anyone can bag a girl off of SA for 100 - 150. Has nothing to do with how good looking you think you are. There are plenty of women posting these days I wouldn't see if they were paying me. Text messages mean nothing. Posting profiles or pics would make more sense but people do not want to do that which I totally understand. I currently see 2 young professionals for 200. People have posted they get it for free. Again, means nothing unless I post pics of them.[/QUOTE]Again the point of my post is to show you all that paying between $100-$150 is possible. If I post pics or link to their profiles it does me no good because I will essentially ruin my arrangement with the sb when most of you guys are offering to pay her more money.
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[QUOTE=GianniVersace;6249483]Again the point of my post is to show you all that paying between $100-$150 is possible. If I post pics or link to their profiles it does me no good because I will essentially ruin my arrangement with the sb when most of you guys are offering to pay her more money.[/QUOTE]I agree with this somewhat. Although most hot woman want 300-400 which is fine but I do have a very attractive chick I've been seeing now 5 years who wants 100 to 120, never asks for more and easily could get more. If I posted a pic of her some of you simps would throw crazy money at her and just ruin it. But there are deciding factors that go in. She would rather take my 120 knowing I'm legit, safe. Younger and in shape. I have my own house in a nice neighborhood rather than taking 250 and seeing some 500 lb dude or some gangsta thug living in a Lawrence ghetto taking an elevator up to the 15th floor walking by dudes overdosed in the hallways so sometimes the risk reward for normal girls will factor in. When it comes to junkies they have no boundaries what they will do or go to make a buck.
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High taste?
[QUOTE=GianniVersace;6249468]The point of my screenshot from 2020 was A so the chances of my sb seeing the interaction regarding price 2 years ago will be slim. I have pretty high taste in women. I would rather jerk off than see an unattractive woman. Here is another interaction with one my SB's this morning. I normally pay her $100 and she hosts. She asked me for $115 for today and I am ok with that. Again I can't post pics or link to her profile or else it will screw up my arrangement with her when a lot of you guys pay her $250+.[/QUOTE]Using terms like "you can pop twice" tells me this isn't her first rodeo. I wouldn't be too worried about other guys seeing her because there is a good chance she is already doing that.
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[QUOTE=GianniVersace;6249483]Again the point of my post is to show you all that paying between $100-$150 is possible. If I post pics or link to their profiles it does me no good because I will essentially ruin my arrangement with the sb when most of you guys are offering to pay her more money.[/QUOTE]I understand your poaching concern and, speaking for myself, do not need to see pics or links. But eager to see an example text interchange that succeeds in bringing an initial request of 400 or more down to 200. As a SA newbie, I'm wondering if lengthier or more assertive texting on price works. Best I've done is get 600 ask for 400 with 2 women who can host, and 400 ask for 300 with two women who cannot host.