Like us, they just have to screen well
[QUOTE=PauFord;3657050]I've seen SA from a girls app and theres a lot of ugly and gross dudes on there! Some real assholes too. Let's face it guys don't usually age well and the older dudes looked. Well really old.
However, SA is just crawling with 19 year olds now so pretty much any guy over 35 is an old dude to then.[/QUOTE]Then chose who they want. That's what I would do. I'm chatting up a hot black girl now. Will see how things go. How do you guys ease into wanting to setup a meet and more without making them feel hookerish?
A few more details please
[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;3656566][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/5ce40ba1-b4ac-46a5-be56-682972ff5bb4[/URL]
After chatting with her on the site for about a week and then by text messages for another week I was able to do a short meet and greet and maybe discuss a future meeting. She was just getting off work and I was in the area so I stopped by her place but we met at the next apt building because she has roommates and she wanted to be discreet. She seemed alil taller than 5'8 and is curvy. It was cold so we sat in my car and chatted. She seemed shy and didn't make alot of eye contact and wasnt really appealing. Meaning she didn't have my Mr johnson thinking of all tye things he'd like to do to her so I'm thinking maybe this is a no go. Alil more conversation and I told her I wasn't able to host tonight (really just trying to end the meet) and she said that maybe she could give me a nice treat before I left if I could help alil financially (looking down at Mr). I asked what did she have in mind and she directed me to a nice secluded area of the apts and gave a damn good BBBJCIM, good DT and hand mouth coordination and on my huge release she took it all down the hatch.[/QUOTE]How much help was she looking for or how much did you help her with that night?
Don't waste time, just get it out in the open first.
[QUOTE=WhiteNite2000;3657238]Then chose who they want. That's what I would do. I'm chatting up a hot black girl now. Will see how things go. How do you guys ease into wanting to setup a meet and more without making them feel hookerish?[/QUOTE]My experience is that there is a certain flow to the entire screening process. It's like playing Red Light / Green Light when you were a kid. First, I never discuss anything of importance on the site having always taken the POV that it's monitored. Some guys on here have learned that the hard way. Second, after I've switched the conversation over to text or KIK so we can chat and exchange pics, I'll start with asking them how open minded are they? Do they have any rules, etc. Surprisingly at this point about 90% will immediately say something like " I don't do anal", (Sorry Sicilly). Now that we've established that, all else should be apparent, and you need to only establish a price, unless you have a certain pecadillo you want to see if she's game for. Sure a meet and greet is good but only with the understanding that we'll move on to the next phase immediately after. Some will wash out (Red light) during this process, but so what? It's like panning for gold IMO.
Part of the fun is the hunt. Look for code words like, NSA, discrete, open minded. Some of these girls are on the site because of their economic situation only. Many of them are in school, or single mothers and are desperate. Others are there for shopping money, and they think it's fun or cool to have a SD that they can fuck occastionally for some spending money because they've heard from their friends who do it. And remember guys, ALL the girls at UNF talk about us with each other. I've had several SB's tell me that.
After you've gotten a collection of SB's to rotate through, to keep things fresh, don't renew your membership, just work with what you've got. When you're bored, and want chicken or fish instead of steak every night, log in, renew and there's a whole new crop waiting.
