If you guys want to do this
[BLUE]I'm fine with that, Brevard uses up a lot of my time. These types of threads are not "ANYTHING" goes. They are threads where the argumentative infraction rules are relaxed. You can call a guy a cocksucker but you can't threaten to kill him. You can't give out real personal info, you can't talk about arrest shit, STD shit, all of the other rules are still there.
Chicks can defend in these threads.
It also means there is ZERO fucking tolerance for douchebaggery in other threads in Brevard. If you quote some guy and argue with him you go on moderation the first time it happens. It means the reviews threads are for reviews or comments on reviews to add more info. If somebody writes some shit you don't like, when you quote them, you quote them in here. If you don't know how to do that say so and I'll put up the post showing how in here.
I will know if you guys want to do this if the thread gets use.
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Great Advice for Providers
I monitor some of the other boards including Orlando as I spend time in both areas.
The following message was posted by Vino 7373 and I thought it was great.
While targeted towards Dallas, remove the name and it could apply to some of the providers in our area just as well.
There was some other discussions on the board that we should change our behaviors for them. That is crap and the only reason they get away with it is because some of you let them get away with it. It only works for so long, before they burn too many bridges and then they have to realize that we have choices.
Ladies, there is some GREAT ADVICE here!
Thanks Vino.
[QUOTE=Vino7373;2308189]I originally wasn't going to get into this. I feel that I have to because (guess what) I was the monger that brought Dallas to this great forum. Don't believe me, look back through my posts; a few posts beyond my G note mark is when I brought Dallas into the limelight.
I dreamed of her several times and she looked fabulous, the service was outstanding, she had a good attitude, she was sweet, and I thought that I could help her. I was wrong. She got a swollen head from a few mongers telling her how great she was, raised her gifts through the roof, etc, etc.
The rest of this message is aimed directly towards Dallas and to other providers out there. Dallas is in a deep, dark hole right now and I am going to give her advice to try to help her to get out of it. She can do it if she listens to what I have to say.
First of all Dallas, you are a very dumb girl. I'm not saying that to be mean, I'm just being honest. When you got in line for everything, you got the beauty, oh yes, did you get the body, but when it came time for you to get your brains, you told God, "check you later dude, I'm out of here!
The simple truth of the matter is that doing this is the most amount of gifts that you can make with what you have. You can certainly will make more doing this than you can by screwing up orders as a Hooters waitress!
These are the things that you need to do to dig yourself out of this giant hole:
1. Start being consistent and reliable. This is your number one problem; you are always late, you NCNS appts like crazy, you forget who the hell that you're texting, you string guys along, etc. If you can't make an appt, cancel it. If you're going to be late, text what time you can make it and show up then. Try to remember who that you're talking to and stop telling guys every hour that you're an hour away!
2. Be consistent on your gift requirements. Your price should not be, "how much I can get the guy to pay. " You need to make and keep a reasonable pricing structure. And fuck no, 250-400 ain't it!
3. Try to make yourself more available. You had it down when you got the motel room. Maybe post up a couple of days in advance to let guys know when you're coming into town and getting a room. Pre-book appts, keep them and be on time!
4. Maintain great service. You are more than capable of doing this. You are a solid performer and total GFE. You need to make sure that you do this all the time and be sure to give the guy the time that he books! No rushing!
5. Don't just keep drama to a minimum, make it go away completely! No one wants to hear about your problems or issues. You are there to make the guy feel as if he's the only man in the world for you. Do that, and you're golden, girl!
6. Don't ever mention your husband again. You would never, ever mention that fact to anyone, let alone a guy that you had a first time dream with! We really don't care if you have a husband, bf, pimp, or whatever. All we care about is our dream. We want it to be fun, enjoyable, sensual, and above all, completely safe. Keep any outside guys involved with you exactly that: outside and out of the limelight completely!
Dallas, if you start adhering to these standards, you will rise above this. You will gain mongers' respect and they will want to be with you. How you react and behave from this point on will define who you are as a provider and your career. If you continue to play games, NCNS on guys, give rushed service, have drama, etc: then you are done, plain and simple. You'll end up having to walk the Trail. I am not kidding on that one.
You already have most of the things that you need to be successful. You are beautiful, you have a hot body and you give a great performance when you want to. Now, it's time to work on the big problems of reliability and flakiness. Solve those problems and you will be one of the best and you will make gifts like crazy.
The choice is up to you as to what path you choose to take now.[/QUOTE]