You come to an arrangement
[QUOTE=NeoMax;5385030]I thank you very much for taking the time to answer brother. I guess that what I have been trying to figure out for the longest is. How do you meet a girl like the one you met? I am not telling you to tell me about that one you are currently enjoying, I guess I just need to know where to look. That's all.
I have also noticed that women who do not have papers here in the US will easily let you sleep with them, believing that you are going to get them their documents. I have a buddy that has a different (undocumented girl) almost every week, I just do not know where he meets these types of women, it is almost like if he takes advantage of their desperation, and it always works.[/QUOTE]I met my sugar baby out in town and struck up a conversation. It's that simple. Got her number and asked her out. Normal dates a few times and got to know her and she tells me about how hard it is getting by on a low paying job. I told her I used to help a college girl with what she needed and in return she took care of me. She liked the sound of that. We talked about it and agreed to an arrangement. It's like a business deal. The key to this is to understand her problems and offer to solve them. The deal has evolved but it is mutually beneficial. We enjoy each other's company.
This kind of thing isn't for everyone. You need to have some game, it takes time and you definitely can't be broke. Most guys on here manage their need for stress relief one encounter at a time and maybe $200 a whack. I plan mine on an annual basis and know what I'm going to spend this year. My deal falls within that range. I am generous. You'd probably choke if you knew what I spend but I can afford it. My sugar baby is very happy and so am I. Part of her job description is to drain my balls every chance she gets and to keep it interesting. She does and keeps it very interesting.
I have nothing to do with taking advantage of undocumented women. Misrepresenting what you can or will do for a desperate person is fucked up.