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I wanted to poll the other members on etiquette when you arrive to a meeting with a provider and she is nothing like what was posted. Do you suck it up and try to make the best of it or is it ok with politely advising the provider that this is not what you signed up for and graciously make your way out? Just curious what others have done or believe. Thanks to any who take the time to reply.
[QUOTE=MassageDude;2098107]I wanted to poll the other members on etiquette when you arrive to a meeting with a provider and she is nothing like what was posted. Do you suck it up and try to make the best of it or is it ok with politely advising the provider that this is not what you signed up for and graciously make your way out? Just curious what others have done or believe. Thanks to any who take the time to reply.[/QUOTE]Would a provider accept monopoly money? When the advertiser uses fake or old pictures, they are trying to scam you. I have no reservations about doing a 180 in such cases. Simply say "I'm sorry, I'm at the wrong place" and leave. You don't owe an explanation, they know they are pulling a scam. Don't accept this and the faster they leave town and our hobby.
This is one of many good reasons you use a burner phone or a google voice or skype number to cover your real phone number.
[QUOTE=MassageDude;2098107]I wanted to poll the other members on etiquette when you arrive to a meeting with a provider and she is nothing like what was posted. Do you suck it up and try to make the best of it or is it ok with politely advising the provider that this is not what you signed up for and graciously make your way out? Just curious what others have done or believe. Thanks to any who take the time to reply.[/QUOTE]I would give her .2 and say sorry, Something came up at the last minute and I have to leave. Or just say you are not the person on the picture and I have to cancel because that's not what I have in mind.
It may be helpful just have .2 in your hand before you see her, and prepare to walk away if the pics and real person do not match. You should also to confirm with her that the pics are her recent ones before going.
2 is just soft the cancel so she would not be too mad at you and create a drama for you to walk away.
Of course, this is for incalls, I have no idea what would be a good way for outcall, she does spend some time travel and may expect to get some money from you in that case.
[QUOTE=MassageDude;2098107]I wanted to poll the other members on etiquette when you arrive to a meeting with a provider and she is nothing like what was posted. Do you suck it up and try to make the best of it or is it ok with politely advising the provider that this is not what you signed up for and graciously make your way out? Just curious what others have done or believe. Thanks to any who take the time to reply.[/QUOTE]If I question the photos and am assured they are 100 percent real and accurate then that's what I expect. If I arrive and find a different girl I walk. I make it clear that's what I expect and tell them ahead of time I will walk if I am deceived. I also don't give them anything for the trouble. I'm not rewarding anyone for straight up lying to me.
[QUOTE=MassageDude;2098107]I wanted to poll the other members on etiquette when you arrive to a meeting with a provider and she is nothing like what was posted. Do you suck it up and try to make the best of it or is it ok with politely advising the provider that this is not what you signed up for and graciously make your way out? Just curious what others have done or believe. Thanks to any who take the time to reply.[/QUOTE]I've never walked in on anyone using different photos and would walk if the door opened and a different person were there. It's common for them to use old photos. I can think of one provider that is using photos from 2007. She's still a pretty woman with just a bit more of her there now. Good question, Thanks for asking.
It has happened to me a couple of times when it has been a hot provider posting other hot and similar pics for discretion. The real thing looked just to good to walk.
Yurengr.
[QUOTE=MassageDude;2098107]I wanted to poll the other members on etiquette when you arrive to a meeting with a provider and she is nothing like what was posted. Do you suck it up and try to make the best of it or is it ok with politely advising the provider that this is not what you signed up for and graciously make your way out? Just curious what others have done or believe. Thanks to any who take the time to reply.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MassageDude;2098107]I wanted to poll the other members on etiquette when you arrive to a meeting with a provider and she is nothing like what was posted. Do you suck it up and try to make the best of it or is it ok with politely advising the provider that this is not what you signed up for and graciously make your way out? Just curious what others have done or believe. Thanks to any who take the time to reply.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the reply folks. I appreciate the advice and knowledge. If I can ever return the favor just hit me up.
I've never had it be a completely different provider. I have had it happen more than once that the pictures were not accurate and or very old. I've stuck to my guns when it's happened and played the hand I was dealt. Each time the place I was at, and the position that a bad episode would have put me in made me turning her away not really an option. I posted not to long ago about an "event" where after just a couple of minutes I told the provider that we were done, she had the money and she needed to leave. Her reaction and demeanor made it clear that it could have gotten ugly with her real quick. Even with her having the money agreed to and having to do nothing for it, her skanky ass got "offended," I felt I was lucky to escape with only a monetary loss. Once you open that door and a chick with arms bigger than yours and a cooter with a stench that would make buzzard gag walks in, its very "touch & go" lol
[QUOTE=MassageDude;2098107]I wanted to poll the other members on etiquette when you arrive to a meeting with a provider and she is nothing like what was posted. Do you suck it up and try to make the best of it or is it ok with politely advising the provider that this is not what you signed up for and graciously make your way out? Just curious what others have done or believe. Thanks to any who take the time to reply.[/QUOTE]
"Once you open that door and a chick with arms bigger than yours and a cooter with a stench that would make buzzard gag walks in, its very "touch & go" LOL.
I literally just fell off my chair laughing LMAO.
Hey everyone I always see ads listing qv or hh or hour so can I assume the qv is just a BJ? Because bjs are what I'm into rather than FS. Any utr out there mind clueing me in? Or maybe helping me out LOL. I would appreciate some input.
[QUOTE=SouthernYankee;2436189]Hey everyone I always see ads listing qv or hh or hour so can I assume the qv is just a BJ? Because bjs are what I'm into rather than FS. Any utr out there mind clueing me in? Or maybe helping me out LOL. I would appreciate some input.[/QUOTE]All you have to do is ask or tell them what you're looking for. I think a qv is probably what you're looking for.
[QUOTE=Hunter3203;2437090]All you have to do is ask or tell them what you're looking for. I think a qv is probably what you're looking for.[/QUOTE]I had been a little nervous to ask it outright. Is a junior member here out of line to pm a provider?