Not of the porcine persuasion!
[QUOTE=WarEagle99;1390233]Smells like swine to me.[/QUOTE]You are entitled to your opinion, but you are wrong.
Also, how do I approach the subject of "extras
A typical approach may be something like this: during the massage try and touch her. She'll push you away; don't be put off by that, rather, later on, gently try it again.
On the flip side continue to touch her. Once she's convinced you are sane (and desire extras) she'll start another coy maneuver, whispering, asking what you want. Using sign language (not words) tell her. She will NOT verbally ask for money; if the request is do-able she'll hold out her hands for a donation.
If you provide the appropriate amount she'll take it and disappear (she doesn't want to be stiffed or caught holding your money); don't worry, she'll be back -and it will happen.
if it's not enough she'll explain that she/they don't do that here. Take the hint, it's not enough money. Next time offer a bigger donation.
In other words YOU have to be the one asking and offering (an illegal act), she won't. YOU HAVE TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.