Tips, Tricks, Arguing, and BS
This is the place for postings that may not fit into the main Forum categories, set up as a User Blog only. Think of this as the Garbage Bin of discussion threads. Most of the topics here will be of an argumentative nature. This provides a venue to get something off of your chest without as much fear of reprimand (expect a healthy dose of reprisal though).
Please keep the "Real" threads dedicated to the enjoyment of the hobby, the adoration of women, and a strong commitment to fulfilling the purpose of this Forum.
GFE more like "Just An Experience"
I'm seeing numerous newer members throwing the GFE label around for providers who post on this forum instead of the BP, CL, or others. After reading those reviews, the providers in question don't fit GFE. Not even close. From the complaints about being rushed, time wasted because of obsessive tendencies, not getting the full hour, not even considering MSOG for the the time that you've already paid for, and CBJ, those providers may be better described as "just an experience". The YMMV always comes into play since no one knows what kinds of girlfriends you've had in the past (fembots do exist). Unreasonable expectations may be set by providers posing as GFE, but not fulfilling the most basic requirements of the description. Some just don't pass the GFE sMELl test. Thoughts?
(from a popular search engine).
GFE.
A "provider" that provides genuine intimacy as well as.
Sexual services making the "client" feel as if they are.
With a partner not a pro.
Including but not limited to:
Oral sex without cover.
Long and deep kissing.
Lots of eye contact.
Cuddling,
Intimate conversation,
The desire to please.
Etc.
Irony: UTR with ads in public forums
I had to laugh at what I witnessed. Just noticed a provider with UTR as part of her handle and she has ads posted on public forums. I can understand "low volume", but definitely not UTR. It totally goes against what I consider UTR. I needed a good laugh for the day. It's about seeing a dude called Tiny and he happens to be 6'6" 350 pounds. The irony, got to love it.
Stay Safe,
MilfMan.
UTR tag and associated econonics
[QUOTE=WiseGuy868;2133834]As soon as she started to put ads in public, UTR is no longer apply.
She can still use the handle UTRxxxx, which does not mean anything. Just like my handle, I don't think I'm a wise guy and nor would anyone assume I am. It's just a name she likes to use and nothing wrong about that.
If someone use the name 18 yearhotgirl, would anyone expect an 18 year old? We are smarter than that. For all we know, the person could be a 45 year old fat guy.[/QUOTE]Excellent points! I am now seeing where UTRs on the Chattanooga Board are commanding 150/ hh and 300/ hr. Holy Smoke, Batman! If UTRs can command way above market rate in East Tennessee (specifically Chattanooga), more power to them, but I reminisce about the days when UTRs came in slightly below market value, proved themselves, and then their donations increased to reflect the experience. I enjoy the new, fresh face on the scene like the next guy, but I don't want to feel like I'm getting screwed. I've seen a luxury Kia, so I'm not surprised by much any more.
Stay Safe,
MilfMan.
Ongoing question / debate
[QUOTE=MilfMan865;2142174]Excellent points! I am now seeing where UTRs on the Chattanooga Board are commanding 150/ hh and 300/ hr. Holy Smoke, Batman! If UTRs can command way above market rate in East Tennessee (specifically Chattanooga), more power to them, but I reminisce about the days when UTRs came in slightly below market value, proved themselves, and then their donations increased to reflect the experience. I enjoy the new, fresh face on the scene like the next guy, but I don't want to feel like I'm getting screwed. I've seen a luxury Kia, so I'm not surprised by much any more.
Stay Safe,
MilfMan.[/QUOTE]Who or what determines "fair market value" when it comes to providers? There are some excellent providers that give exceptional service and ask for $200-$250. You have a couple of guys there bringing in UTRs with prices on or below $200. They may or may not be proven and as such, are not asking for more. If and when they are considered "proven", do they then raise their prices, as has been alluded by some? The service is the same. Only difference is now they are known.
I hope I didn't come across as a jerk that doesn't want to pay. I pay their asking price if I can afford it. If not, I don't see them. I don't try to finagle with them.
What are considered Deal Breakers?
I keep seeing reports of somehow getting cashed and dashed, providers who were previously offering stellar service and have since dropped off, and other messed up stuff. It got me thinking what would be considered deal breakers. I stopped seeing several providers over the years for one reason or another and often declined moving forward based on some of the provider's initial responses. If any of the ladies read this, take note if applicable and it can be a win-win for all. I'll get the list started, so add what you see fit.
1) No MSOG offered, so one and done. If I procure X amount of your time, I should be able to use the time for as many visits to the honey pot as time allows.
2) Real-life provider is so far from the pics, it's almost hard to tell if it is really the same person.
3) CBJ only available. I don't mind a CBJ, but BBBJ should at least available for consideration.
4) Not respecting time constraints. Endless texting back and forth and often hearing only crickets when the appointment time comes.
5) Obvious substance issues. No elaboration needed.