F'in Cock Blocking Jelly Spined P*ssies!
So I made a date with a girl off of CL the other day. Got done with the back & forth texting and talked to her on her phone. We had plans to meet shortly. However, when I get on the phone with her, all of a sudden she asks if I can go later. Been around this game long enough that I suspected some other monger had stepped in line ahead of me by offering the girl list or above list price. COCKBLOCKED! (Me? I take my own advice and ALWAYS negotiate!) So we agreed to a later time (day) and I move on with my day.
Then no more than 30-minutes AFTER we spoke, her she is on the phone. "Hey, can you come now instead?" I asked, and she told me that some other monger had just stood her up. WTF! She tells me the dude drove past her, didn't like what he saw and so he booked out of there. Jeez, dude. This is like scooping a SW, once she in your car or you made firms plans, you owe her a forfeit if you walk away from the date! Mutha F*ckin azzhole!
(You can always walk in the face of danger, but this clearly wasn't one of those situations.).
But what gets me is how could the dude walk away? She sent me plenty of pics, enough that I could tell she wasn't a spinner. What is your F'in problem? Too stupid to ask for the right kind of pictures? (I asked for a pic that showed her belly, since the first ones she sent did not show it. She happily replied. Yeah she has "Mommy belly. ") Too dense to look at pictures with your BIG head? Or just a tire kicking yellow bellied, lilly livered, p*ssy that never really intended to date her, because you don't actually have the b at lls to do that?
WTF do you dudes expect off of CL or BP? You want the 9's & 10 model types them open up your wallet and take out 300- 500 and head to [URL]eros.com[/URL] and you'll find that. But sheesh, in the under 100 range, you are hunting unicorns.
I guess I should thank azzholes like this? The reason I have so much success is that there are plenty or jerks and azzh*les around like this dude. So when a girl finds one like me who treats them well, respects their time and is polite- I tend to get the world from them. But Jeez. It sure is frustrating having to deal with the blowback from bad behavior!
No one's in here fighting with you. LOL
[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3151863]This is a "fight" thread for the State of Delaware.
On with the douchebaggery![/QUOTE]You've definitely run across some douchebaggery, though. The guy who trashed you then turned around and asked for a referral is pretty ballsy.
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[b]CL Against the World[/b]
Ceph is a total lame-o, you heard it here first boys.
Always providing useful information and helpful tips, what a nan.
[u] Seriously though, is the DE board big enough to sustain any problem children? We get the occasional 1-post "Yo, let me get that info" but that's the worst I've seen in my limited time. Should I dig deeper into the past for some drama-llama entertainment? [/u]
-XPeaceSellsX
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I accidentally deleted this post but was able to capture it from the cache and restore it here FWIW. The italics above is said post. Now a comment or two.
The point is that NO, the DE board is not big enough to sustain when douchbaggery happens. There are plenty of lurkers here and quite few posters. So when some dude shows up and doesn't understand how things work and gets scared and essentially spouts off that it isn't safe to post or he's scared to do so, then that does nothing to turn the lurkers into contributors. Then of course ask any of the girls that were UTR and kind guys like Chipper10 or PappaSmurf or others have offered to share their numbers. Those girls will tell you about 50% are tire kickers, time wasters or picture collectors, not really going to come through with a date. Then about half of what is left will make an appointment and no show, or make some lame excuse 5-minutes after the agreed meeting time. Oh and then there are the dudes that do see a girl that is shared and they treat her badly, so much so that the girl blames the dude who shared. Of course then there are the White Knights who show reports to the girls which ends up cockblocking the dude who reported. Or of course the dude who put hoes before bros, then expected to reap the rewards here.
There is enough douchbaggery around DE that several VERY GOOD mongers have backed off from posting. So maybe some of the offenders can see themselves in these "grousing" posts? If so, the best way to turn that around is to share reports on finds and with time and valuable contributions, past mistakes can be forgotten.
Look, being new or having less experience is no reason to shy away from posting. Just don't try to fake like one is an expert. In fact, I cut my teeth and created a rep here by asking rookie mongering & technique (How to) questions. Asking often gets many replies and ways to stay safe, etc. Much easier to learn through Q&A here than on the streets, where mistakes can be costly, dangerous or get you jammed up.
OMFG! More Douchebaggery! Lurkers turned Advertisers
So I see a girl from DE posted on USA Adult Classifieds! WhooHOO! We are growing up!
Then I note that the girl didn't post herself, but some monger posted the advert for her! Had not seen the moniker for the monger before, so I looked him up and what did I find?
The "dude" is a scumbag lurker! ZERO freaking posts! So he's been banging this hot chick for a while, but hasn't bothered to post a report? WTF! Then he goes all "White Knight" and posts an advert to "help her out?" Jeez, dude, if you had just posted a report, she'd have plenty of business and you wouldn't have to advertise her.
HOW DO WE EDUCATE THESE DUDES AS TO WHAT IT TAKES TO HAVE A DECENT BOARD IN DELAWARE AND WHAT THEY NEED TO DO?
REALLY? You want me to Share just because your a Senior?
[I]Been getting requests to share contact info for girls I have seen & posted about. It is amazing how many dudes feel "entitled" to contact info. So here is an open letter to one of those that contacted me. The guility party should get the message, but it serves as a "guide" to others- hopefully![/I]
Hey XYZ987,
My apologies, but you are getting my less charitable side dude to recent events.
1) While you're a senior, most of your posts are down in Charm City and no posts in DE. [I]How's that help the DE cause?[/I].
2) Your last post was over 6-months ago and only 6 in all of 2016, only two could be considered "reports" on dates, and those only in reply to others. [I]What? You thought I wouldn't check?[/I].
3) You didn't even bother to offer up anything to share. [I] SERIOUSLY? Not even a common courtesy? WOW![/I].
4) And this is the killer. One of your fellow Balto posters got the girl's number and beat her out of money! [I]One bad apple spoils it for the whole bunch![/I].
So why should I help you out? What is in it for me? Huh? You contribute nothing in the area that would be useful to me, you are not really an active poster and you didn't even have the courtesy to offer up something in trade. WHAT? Just because you are a Sr member makes you "entitled" to a handout? REALLY?
I'm just sayin'.
CL.