The consensus is to ignore what ever they put down for expectation
[QUOTE=Monfortu;2928096]Thanks for the information, but I tend to avoid anyone who has substantial on their profile.[/QUOTE]Apparently most of them do not have a realistic understanding of life in the bowl so just ago go ahead and message who ever interests you the worst thing they can do is say no. With me some of them have said no and I did not hear from them again and some have countered with a lower amount though the latter have been in the minority.
Just a pain in the ass really
Tried the SD sites and even though you might can find something good here and there, it's still a pain in the ass. The entitlement mentality is grotesque. It's common with these millenials. I went on a few dates and the SB's wanted their money right away and then they would contact me when they wanted more money. To be honest, F* that sh* I went back to my low key, UTR providers and it's not BS about it. I get to spend good quality time with them and there's no question of what the basis is. I Even get lots of OTC time, especially during the summer when I have the pool open at the house. If you have good luck with SA or similar sites, then hats off to you, I simply don't have the time to be screwing around and waiting on responses from girls who are trying to say they aren't hookers by being on SD sites, when in fact, they are hookers. Let's get real. No money, no date, No money, no sex. Just call the kettle black already.
[QUOTE=YayaGogo;2926724]I've avoided most of the ones on the OP's list for various reasons (majority I haven't even bothered to contact), but can add to the conversation on the following:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f64e736a-f7ba-721d-6335-1255e783910b[/URL]
This one sounds like a scam based on my emails with her. Hasn't gone further.
I met with her when she was starting out last year. Wanted $$ at that time and wouldn't take my offer for $$. 5 weekly for long term arrangement. She is nice, real, and cute, but does not do PDA if you go out in public. I dropped it so idk whether reality has set in for her. Just a young girl / student that heard about the lifestyle and wanted to get the most out of it.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/311e6ab8-19b8-7f7a-11a8-6292c3811fa6[/URL]
This one has no car (aka red flag), wants you to go to her place off New Bern (another red flag). The pics are her, she has a nice body, but I suspect she is a pro.
Concur she may be a pro, however she is actually smart (can talk about programming) and pleasant (but a smoker) so it may be the case she is a student starting on a bad path. She texted me one morning and had to meet RIGHT NOW (Chapel Hill) as her rent was due. Meeting at a coffee place I noted she had a nice body but she kept scratching her arms and legs. It may have been allergies or something else but it bothered me. She asked for a donation to meet (of course no) asked for me to get a hotel (no) then accepted going to her place. Asked for $$$ but accepted $$ Asked to see the money (weird, but she may have gotten burned in the past). I thought about it on the way and declined when we arrived and I just dropped her off. Did not want to follow up as she seemed off and I suspect may be into drug use.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/534630f0-5138-611c-06a0-38002e0558f3[/URL]
Legit, real pretty, big HUGE breasts. Just wants like 1800 a month, all upfront. Not sure if she is the runner type, but I don't care for that mentality.
Concur she is real. She is a student trying out the lifestyle. Contacted and met with her when she opened the account. She is nice and smart, a bit thick but if you like curvy girls she is perfect for you. She did not ask for that amount from me or having it upfront (she may have since been burnt). I decided against her as my long term SB as I didn't feel the right connection. She would make any serious SD very happy as she is relaxed and pleasant to be around, and very sexual in private when she is into the moment.
This is a fantastic area for the SBSD lifestyle with a lot of real (non-pro) girls trying it out. If you approach them as if they are pros you likely will go nowhere with most of them. I hope others will post their own experiences so we can all learn who is worth pursuing and who is not.[/QUOTE]
SA is worth the month membership.
[QUOTE=YayaGogo;2947943]Sorry it didn't work out for you. I enjoy the chase aspect of it and the prospect of f*cking young, hot girls with goals in life for less $ than pros. However, I never pay for platonic meets and do make it clear that there's no pay without play in case one ever tries the 'I need to get comfortable with you first' routine. Good luck![/QUOTE]Every time I have re-upped for a month, it is a gold mine! Definitely a bit more expensive but the quality is 10 fold. And eventually, with time, you can turn one into a $0 cost friend!