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[QUOTE=BabySeal1959;2399912]Recent post from "Haley" on FB: "I don't really like guys I'm GAY!! Men made me this way and it almost feels like each and every day I grow more and more hate and discuss for yall. Just wanted to get that off my chest before I went to sleep. ".
She should add that to her BP ad.[/QUOTE]Actually, I think this can serve as a perfectly good reminder that the women we are meeting up with are perfectly human. They have real lives, regrets, fears, hopes, just like each of you and I. Be kind to them, they deserve it. I'm not trying to guilt-trip anyone; I'm a firm believer that the agreements guys like us make with other consenting adults are perfectly ethical. That being said, I think we all burden the responsibility of being particularly kind to them. None of these ladies have come to where they are because life has been easy to them. Compassion should be your default mode of operation.
[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2400540]Actually, I think this can serve as a perfectly good reminder that the women we are meeting up with are perfectly human. They have real lives, regrets, fears, hopes, just like each of you and I. Be kind to them, they deserve it. I'm not trying to guilt-trip anyone; I'm a firm believer that the agreements guys like us make with other consenting adults are perfectly ethical. That being said, I think we all burden the responsibility of being particularly kind to them. None of these ladies have come to where they are because life has been easy to them. Compassion should be your default mode of operation.[/QUOTE]Well said. I totally agree!
[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2400540]Actually, I think this can serve as a perfectly good reminder that the women we are meeting up with are perfectly human. They have real lives, regrets, fears, hopes, just like each of you and I. Be kind to them, they deserve it. I'm not trying to guilt-trip anyone; I'm a firm believer that the agreements guys like us make with other consenting adults are perfectly ethical. That being said, I think we all burden the responsibility of being particularly kind to them. None of these ladies have come to where they are because life has been easy to them. Compassion should be your default mode of operation.[/QUOTE]I have a book store I like to take the girls too. It has mostly gays there but its fun to do some playing in front of them. But its a good hr drive to get there. You would be surprised of the things you find out about the girls and their life. Stop get them a bite to eat talk to them listen to what they have to say you become like a old friend. For me getting the story is half the fun. (everyone has a story) In turn the treat you much better. But it can be heart sickening one girl ate like she hadn't had a good meal in yrs. Just remember they have their problems and habits just like we have problems and (HABITS).
[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2400540]Actually, I think this can serve as a perfectly good reminder that the women we are meeting up with are perfectly human. They have real lives, regrets, fears, hopes, just like each of you and I. Be kind to them, they deserve it. I'm not trying to guilt-trip anyone; I'm a firm believer that the agreements guys like us make with other consenting adults are perfectly ethical. That being said, I think we all burden the responsibility of being particularly kind to them. None of these ladies have come to where they are because life has been easy to them. Compassion should be your default mode of operation.[/QUOTE]Respect should be your default mode. Everything else you said I think is fine, but compassion is not an emotion to be just applied to someone you don't know. And you don't know them just because you got a screw or BJ from them. Respect is the only thing anyone deserves off the bat. Unless of course they start out saying I hate you guys more and more each day. No compassion there it looks like, but I'm supposed to feel compassion for her? F that.
[QUOTE=VaInSight;2402131]compassion is not an emotion to be just applied to someone you don't know.[/QUOTE]Oh yes it most definitely is. I'm sorry you haven't figured this out yet.
[QUOTE=BabySeal1959;2399912]Recent post from "Haley" on FB: "I don't really like guys I'm GAY!! Men made me this way and it almost feels like each and every day I grow more and more hate and discuss for yall. Just wanted to get that off my chest before I went to sleep. ".
She should add that to her BP ad.[/QUOTE]Who cares. Time to move on.
[QUOTE=VaInSight;2402131]Respect should be your default mode. Everything else you said I think is fine, but compassion is not an emotion to be just applied to someone you don't know. And you don't know them just because you got a screw or BJ from them. Respect is the only thing anyone deserves off the bat. Unless of course they start out saying I hate you guys more and more each day. No compassion there it looks like, but I'm supposed to feel compassion for her? F that.[/QUOTE]Guys just be careful with people like that bad things can happen. She ca take her anger out on us.
[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2402175]Oh yes it most definitely is. I'm sorry you haven't figured this out yet.[/QUOTE]And you will too one day. Keep giving that compassion to someone who's set on you as their ATM and making withdrawals by lying, cheating, stealing, and doesn't give 2 cents about you. You going to tell me that person ain't out there? Good luck.
...should indeed be the default with someone you don't know. That doesn't mean it should continue once shown that it's misplaced. The former doesn't preclude the latter or vice versa.
[QUOTE=CantWinLosin;2402531]...should indeed be the default with someone you don't know. That doesn't mean it should continue once shown that it's misplaced. The former doesn't preclude the latter or vice versa.[/QUOTE]You guys are scaring me. Throwing around compassion very lightly. When you pick up streetwalkers or see a chick with the monkey on her back, you're only giving them advice and resources to help them get out of their situation, right? Cause that's compassion. When you popping girls you just met bareback then claiming how scared YOU are that you might have caught something dangerous but not if THEY might have caught something dangerous, tell me where was your compassion then? Just because you don't call a SW a disrespectful name doesn't mean your compassionate. But as was once said, we're her to exchange info about working girls, so I'll shut up.
Was coming back from a trip south and saw an ad Wendy posted. She'd also posted the link to her Facebook page. The pictures on the FB page are either very old or she's really on serious drugs. She's easily aged a good 10 years since any of those pics were taken.
Still, since I was already there and had the cash and the obligatory hard-on, I figured I'd stay. Besides, the lighting was bad and I could pretend she didn't look so haggard. Ha.
The BBBJ was very good. I do enjoy a good BBBJ. Bareback was available, but fortunately I was packing and strapped up. She was neither particularly tight or loose, but I'd say she worked out pretty well. The sex was satisfactory, nothing more. I won't be going back because there are better options out there. I'd become spoiled by gals like Skyy and Liz and a couple of other high quality / low cost providers and knew I could do better. I have Wendy's info if anyone's interested.
I couldn't agree more. Most of these chicks are feeding habits and playing on the fact that we're all a bunch of horn dogs. I've done my time being compassionate. I've done my time being empathetic. I've gone my time being supportive. I treat everyone with respect and I'm friendly to anyone I am with. If I was being compassionate I would simply give them the money and maybe take them to dinner and wish them a happy evening. That's what all of us would do. The fact of the matter is if they stop fucking we stop spending.
Most all of them would take the money without giving anything in return every time. They all know that they'd run out of customers long before they ran out of the habit. I haven't met a single woman out here who doesn't have some sort of a habit she is trying to feed.
Most of them have at least one kid because they were stupid at some point and got knocked up. It is so refreshing when you meet an honest girl out here that will freely admit she's seeing other guys. Most of them blow smoke up your ass and act like you are special. Let me assure you you are not special. If you were not sporting the cash you would not be getting the gash. So I think the bottom line is f* the ones that are interesting to you in some way. Clean up well and go the hell home. Save getting to know someone w* someone who is worth it.
[QUOTE=VaInSight;2402782]You guys are scaring me. Throwing around compassion very lightly. When you pick up streetwalkers or see a chick with the monkey on her back, you're only giving them advice and resources to help them get out of their situation, right? Cause that's compassion. When you popping girls you just met bareback then claiming how scared YOU are that you might have caught something dangerous but not if THEY might have caught something dangerous, tell me where was your compassion then? Just because you don't call a SW a disrespectful name doesn't mean your compassionate. But as was once said, we're her to exchange info about working girls, so I'll shut up.[/QUOTE]You make some good points, but it feels like all you want to do is argue semantics. Call it compassion, call it being nice, whatever, just don't be a fucking jerk.
I never claimed to be Mother Teresa, and I reiterate that I find the agreements I make with these women to be perfectly ethical. If you don't agree, then what are you doing here? Feels like you want to give me a guilt trip, just because I dared utter the word "compassion". Might you be projecting your own feelings of guilt?
Look, I can't make the ENTIRE WORLD a better place. But I can at least not make any parts of it a worse place. Keep your judgement to yourself, all I really said is that we should be kind to these women, and if you object to that, then I just got nothing else to say to you.
[QUOTE=CreepyCreeper;2403042]You make some good points, but it feels like all you want to do is argue semantics. Call it compassion, call it being nice, whatever, just don't be a fucking jerk.
I never claimed to be Mother Teresa, and I reiterate that I find the agreements I make with these women to be perfectly ethical. If you don't agree, then what are you doing here? Feels like you want to give me a guilt trip, just because I dared utter the word "compassion". Might you be projecting your own feelings of guilt?
Look, I can't make the ENTIRE WORLD a better place. But I can at least not make any parts of it a worse place. Keep your judgement to yourself, all I really said is that we should be kind to these women, and if you object to that, then I just got nothing else to say to you.[/QUOTE]Dude don't backtrack and say now because you don't understand the words coming out of your own mouth. You didn't say kindness. I specifically explained you were using the word compassion loosely. Never claimed you were mother teresa, never claimed I or anyone here was, so how you are trying to turn this around that I'm feeling guilty is beyond me.