"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?
A couple of commercial sites specialize in hookups with girls who aren't supposed to be pros but definitely want something more than a kiss on the cheek at the end of the evening. The sites themselves offer "free trials" but once you sign up you get a couple emails per day, supposedly from girls who want to meet you. You can't actually contact them unless you become a paying member though. So are these sites worth it? Are they really a place where you can meet so-called amateurs who don't advertise elsewhere? The question is complicated by the fact that there appears to be a range of girls on the sites, from strippers to students. I have posted in other threads about my experiences with the one site I belong to. In the case of the other site, which emphasizes "arrangements," I'm not a paying member but I have a "free trial." It lists 2, 700 girls in Virginia. In Richmond, here's what one girl says about herself:
[I]Hi my name is Angel and I am an exotic dancer. I've danced in Las Vegas and on the East Coast. Originally from Va. Beach, Virginia, my first love is the ocean, and living a healthy, happy lifestyle is so important to me. I love shopping, getting my hair done, massages, manicures, pedicures, and tanning. I am available for generous gentlemen who want to go out once or twice a week to dinner, movies, or events. I like strip clubs, visual fun for both of us. And I would like to get a new car this year.
My Appearance: 36c-24-34, long blonde hair, green eyes. 5'5, tan, athletic. 125 lbs. Look forward to meeting someone sweet and nice. Lots of love, Angel. Xxooxxx[/I]
Angel says she is 26 and doesn't indicate what kind of arrangement she is seeking, other than she wants a car. Do you think she might accept donations to a "car fund"? Probably negotiable is my take on it.
Another girl has a nude pic with her nipples whited out (?) , wants to go out and have fun, and says she is a 19 (or 20) year old receptionist seeking $3k. $5k per month (!)
[I]"Just need help paying for tuition and some living expenses"[/I]
Then there is a 19-year old, somewhat awkward looking in her (fully clothed) pix, who says:
[I]"Hey! I'm an artist living in richmond. I love going to the movies, hanging out with my girlfriends, meeting new people, comedy, going out, staying in, just about everything. I'm super laid back and I always have a good time. I get along with just about everybody and love to laugh and be merry. Let me know if you are interested in meeting me!
I gave this a shot earlier this year but ended up dating someone. Needless to say; I'm single again and ready to give it another go.
Nothing special about my situation. Just a young woman frustrated with "dating" men my age. I enjoy the company, conversation, and other benefits of an older gentleman."[/I]
For what it is worth, my initial estimate is that here we have 1. A moonlighting stripper; 2. An escort or a want to be escort; and 3. A girl who is clueless but willing to hang out with older men who she knows will expect sex from her.
Now to each his own, but for me, if I were going to pursue one of these girls, it would be number 3, the 19-year old "artist." It's the awkwardness and self-consciousness she displays in her post that I like, and her photo shows a reasonably pretty girl. She'd be a little nervous and we would beat around the Bush for a while, but I think she is the one with the most potential for a mind-blowing fuck. But that's just me.
So back to the question, are these sites worth it? The answer appears to me to be: not if you are looking for or prefer pros. Pros are going to advertise elsewhere. Strippers you can go fondle. Well, not in Richmond. And take for a test drive before you ask her for takeout. But an awkward, fully clothed. 19 year old artist coming off a relationship who wants to meet older men who are looking for a mistress? I don't know any other reliable way of finding such girls. Maybe if you hang out at the laundromat long enough.
Payments, SB3 (Lit2 gets flim-flammed)
Many thanks to OBX for sharing some of his technique. I am following along, trying to figure this so-called amateur scene out.
Coolhand, inmo this is a cash business. There are a hundred reasons why. None of them are to comply with tax regulations. On the "other site", the "arrangements" site (of which I am not a member) , it seems to me they try to get you to sign up in advance for some kind of monthly commitment. Maybe that will work better with some girls. You still should be able to figure out how to pay in cash though. Otherwise you leave a trail and I'm not talking about pecker tracks.
So I zeroed in on SB3, she of the emails saying how she wanted me to fuck her so bad etc. Summary: when I tried to meet her she said she was nervous and didn't quite have the time. So I'm kicking this one down the road for a while. I'll revisit later, still would like to taste that sweet pussy. I gave her some sugar in advance, maybe she'll just pocket it and drop me. We'll see.