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I have had little luck in dealing with the campus cuties on S. A. And had let my membership expire. I have been thinking of signing back up again so your timing is good. I have exchanged lots of messages on S. A. But most seem to be hesitant to meet face to face. Most just go comms dark. Exchanged many text messages wit ne who actually agreed to meet at a local eatery. I arrived and saw a young lady sitting in a car who I guessed was my "date". I went inside and took a seat at the bar but she never showed. I sent her a text after a while thanking her for wasting my time and she replied that I had used 10 year old pictures in my S. A page. Hardly the case as they were a year old at the most and I have hardly changed since they were taken. Hell, even lost a few pounds. So I just told her to do what ever made her sleep better at night. Kids. I wished her well and blocked her.
Should be a good time to get a one-off since they need money for spring break.
[QUOTE=GeomaticsJoe;3743053]I have had little luck in dealing with the campus cuties on S. A. And had let my membership expire. I have been thinking of signing back up again so your timing is good. I have exchanged lots of messages on S. A. But most seem to be hesitant to meet face to face. Most just go comms dark. Exchanged many text messages wit ne who actually agreed to meet at a local eatery. I arrived and saw a young lady sitting in a car who I guessed was my "date". I went inside and took a seat at the bar but she never showed. I sent her a text after a while thanking her for wasting my time and she replied that I had used 10 year old pictures in my S. A page. Hardly the case as they were a year old at the most and I have hardly changed since they were taken. Hell, even lost a few pounds. So I just told her to do what ever made her sleep better at night. Kids. I wished her well and blocked her.[/QUOTE]They want YOU to sign-up and SPEND your money then when you contact a "girl" on the site, is it really a "girl" you are talking to?? You set up a meet and like you said, they go crickets because it ain't really a "girl" you been talking to you.
It's a numbers game you just have to message as many girls as you think are decent looking and they will weed themselves out to 3 or 4 possibilities of you actually meeting and hooking up with. If you can host then you are at a HUGE advantage as almost all of them have roommates or aren't thrilled with the idea of you coming to their place. I got lucky and found a few that will host once they meet in person or have a convo on the phone with you and see you are a decent enough guy. I've never been catfished yet but it's always good to be wary of that. I think Craigslist is more known for that than SA tho. There are a couple of TG on the site but they are up front about it and put it on their profiles. You also have to just take the ghosting or getting stood up that happens as part of the deal. I know it sucks and it's happened to me a number of times but when a few girls finally pan out it is really worth it. They are clean, fresh and enjoy hooking up unlike most professionals.
[QUOTE=Lars36;3743511]They want YOU to sign-up and SPEND your money then when you contact a "girl" on the site, is it really a "girl" you are talking to?? You set up a meet and like you said, they go crickets because it ain't really a "girl" you been talking to you.[/QUOTE]I have had middling luck actually getting to the pussy. Probably about 1 in 5 initial messages sent turn into a meet and all the meets I've had so far turned into the horizontal lambada. That said, the quality far surpasses what BP has available in this town at a nominal cost increase. I got sick of BP being hit or miss and some really nasty women.
Recognize that locally the site is dominated by 18 to 24 year old college girls, many with golden pussy syndrome and no clue about what other sources successful men have for satisfying their needs. Nearly every lady that joins the site does so with unrealistic expectations about the financial support she's going to find. Lots of newbies drop off the site after a day to a week. But many of the ones that have been around for a while and are still on have more reasonable expectations. It's definitely possible to punch above your weight class, in terms of the type of lady you can date on SA, but you should have reasonable expectations depending on your personal circumstances. Shotgunning a lot of ladies with a simple message can usually lead to a few meet and greets, a few of those usually turn into something more. I've had a higher success rate with lades that initiate contact with me than those I contact directly.
[QUOTE=Bcuplvr;3743938]Recognize that locally the site is dominated by 18 to 24 year old college girls, many with golden pussy syndrome and no clue about what other sources successful men have for satisfying their needs. Nearly every lady that joins the site does so with unrealistic expectations about the financial support she's going to find. Lots of newbies drop off the site after a day to a week. But many of the ones that have been around for a while and are still on have more reasonable expectations. It's definitely possible to punch above your weight class, in terms of the type of lady you can date on SA, but you should have reasonable expectations depending on your personal circumstances. Shotgunning a lot of ladies with a simple message can usually lead to a few meet and greets, a few of those usually turn into something more. I've had a higher success rate with lades that initiate contact with me than those I contact directly.[/QUOTE]You got it 100 percent correct! And if you travel and need spontaneity it's even more challenging.
This one is DTF.
$300 BBBJ cfs.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e655ac1d-4efb-4df9-8dc1-658c98718a90[/URL]
Has anyone seen this woman? Have a date scheduled later this week.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8a1f7f05-3fe9-4cd8-a7ed-3c44867e9c75[/URL]
[QUOTE=FredFlintBc;3796178]Has anyone seen this woman? Have a date scheduled later this week.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8a1f7f05-3fe9-4cd8-a7ed-3c44867e9c75[/URL][/QUOTE]Won't work unless you have an account.
With a free account.
[QUOTE=Lars36;3796310]Won't work unless you have an account.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FredFlintBc;3796572]With a free account.[/QUOTE]Profile not found.
That user's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, or blocked you.
[QUOTE=Chubbing;3796600]Profile not found.
That user's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, or blocked you.[/QUOTE]Is the link again. I just accessed it. Wonder if she blocked you? LOL.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8a1f7f05-3fe9-4cd8-a7ed-3c44867e9c75[/URL]
[QUOTE=FredFlintBc;3796629]Is the link again. I just accessed it. Wonder if she blocked you? LOL.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8a1f7f05-3fe9-4cd8-a7ed-3c44867e9c75[/URL][/QUOTE]When I click on the link.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/login?redirectTo=member/8a1f7f05-3fe9-4cd8-a7ed-3c44867e9c75[/URL]