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This topic is a suprise! Which one of you CT mongers asked for a swinger section?
Never did any swinging when I was married. Before that I did some swinging on my swing set.
Now I just swing my big log.
I've swung at a few spots. I'll post about them at some point. Not with the "wifey" however, with a fuk friend on the sly.
Spots I've loved are in Hartford and one in the 'burbs that switched a few years back.
There was a big one in Meriden, I think...tough to get into. I never got a chance to get in and ...lo and behold...they got busted this year. Karma, eh?
In all spots, you have to stand your ground, know what you like and dislike, and respect a woman who says "No." Thats a big one.
My issue is that sometimes the guys think that just because you swing, you might be interested in dabbling with some bi -action. Make it very clear, punctuated by profanity and angry scowl, cause some guys will be persistent. In my case, the guy never been with a black guy. Seeing me bang his GF turned him on and he was "open" and "curious". Told him to fuk off, grabbed my chick, my clothes, and my drinks, and we were out. That spot was just too harassing anyways...and I had my fill with his GF anyway.
Not everyone is clean, btw. Some, for some reason, come into the place smelling real off. Drugs? No...I was told by one guy that some people get turned on by the "natural funk". Oh well. Its a freak show sometimes!
I found that it was better to sample and have fun, never to completion. But thats just me perhaps. Bring lots of condoms of your preference, latex. They offer, but choices suck and are cheap. I gots to have my magnums. ;)
The one in Hartford is called Leisure Time. I recommend for those wishing to give it a shot. The outside betrays nothing...it looks torn down. They are open during the weekend. Not truly underground action, but as close as you get for an establishment thats been around for a few decades.
The action there is hit or miss, imo. Sometimes you see a real cutey with a bit of stinginess to them, most times you see fat ugly couples swinging who will practically pay you to share with them.
Everytime I hit pay dirt though and have lots of fun.
The spot is BYOB. Not a problem. Its a must, imo...but don't get drunk however. Keep your head about you at all times. Otherwise you'll end up "experiencing" things you don't want to think about. Fortunately, I haven't been drunk since 1994. ;) Yet, I've seen some angry reactions rumble out, and I've heard of some real cat and dog fights take place due to jealousy and shit. Being drunk is almost always the impetus.
Its an experience I think most hard core mongers should try at some point. Its not for all and generally speaking, the crowd is freaky to the core. Too freaky for this perv consistently...you know.
I do hear that the NYC swing scene is a blast x 12. Some point I'll give it a go...but I need to be in better physical shape first. I here they are real selective.
Stoner,
I also frequented Leisure Time about a year ago with a lady friend and was able to hook up a little threesome action with a young PR girlie.
The place was cool enough although I thought the owners were a little off center. What are they, about 70 years old? LOL
I have been to a swingers party up in New Hampshire that allows single men in. If anyone is interested, I'll elaborate.
G
To all:
I'm surprised this thread hasn't caught on a little better than it has. Perhaps it's because our mongering brethren don't realize that there is a nice little niche for the single male to ply his wares, unfortunately just not in CT.
Without a doubt, the best swingers club I've ever been to that allows single men to attend is a place called "A Private Affair" located in Maryland. If anyone expresses interest, I'll elaborate.
Monger on,
G
Heh GMan,
Interested here!! Where in Maryland is it?
Kendog,
Its located in Port Deposit, Maryland.
The place is huge, holding 200 comfortably. What astonished me most about this place was the quality of the females that attend.
Aside from the open rooms, there has to be at least 15 private and semi-private rooms in which to operate.
Go to their website and check it out for yourself.
aprivateaffair.com
Good luck,
G
GMAN1
Just checking on the address you gave. I could not access the site for whatever reason.
I get the message: You don't have permission to access / on this server.
It could be that the server might be down..
I'll check again later..
Thanks
Joe C,
My apologies,
The name they use for their website is "theprivateaffair .com".
I tried it this morning without any problems. Try again.
G
Joe C and others,
By the way, if anyone is interested in learning more about " A Private Affair ". swingers club that allows single men, just pm me and i'll give you the 6 letter access code to the members area of their website.
G
Found the Problem..
The Correct Address is:
http://www.theprivateaffair.com
Any good clubs that allow singles in closer or in Connecticut...?
Joe C,
I've been to a swingers club in NH that allows single men.
If interested, pm and I'll eloborate.
By the way, unfortunately as of now, there is no place in CT that allows single men. At least one that I know of.
G
Uniquediversions used to allow "bi-friendly" fellas in on the side. Thats the spot I mentioned that was in the 'burbs. Thomaston. One could probably lie there way through...yet...Just bring a date...thats what I did. Took a gal from The Patio cafe in Wolcott. Decent time was had...but wouldn't do it again. Leisure time was much better.
I think the spot (Uniquediversions) is closed. I checked my info and it appears they are lights out, so to speak. Phone is off and website is 404. Maybe they moved again? Probably.
Stoner,
What a dud of a thread, LOL. I thought we would see a little more action on this subject.
In hopes of kick starting this dismal thread, here is a list of east coast clubs with websites that allow single men to attend their gatherings, whether it be through membership or just a once a month "special night" where they allow single men to attend.
1.- The Secret Chalet, W. Deering, NH, 603-464-4780
2.- New Encounters, Haverhill, MA,
3.- The Alliekat, Providence, RI, 401-277-9664
4.- Cherries Inn, Flemington, NJ, 908-782-8002
5.- Charldine Club, Schnactedy, NY, 518-895-2372
6.- Foursome, Manhatten, NY
7.- Special Friends, Binghamton, NY, 607-724-7823
8.- Couples Social Club, Long Island, NY, 515-942-3500
9.- The Farm Travel Club, York, PA, 717-225-5082
10. TJ's Lasting Impressions, Harrisburg, PA, 717-932-5082
11. Enchanted Evenings, Central?, PA, 717-225-9101
12. DJ's Island, Beaver Falls, PA, 412-519-8608
13. The Cottage, Gettysburg, PA, 717-334-0882
14. PA Swingers Club, Latrobe, PA, 724-640-5257
15. Swingers Palace, Pittsburg, PA, 412-751-4443
Lets see if this information brings about any responses.
G
Gman,
I think this thread has merit. In my experience, I've hooked up with a few private parties through invitation, but I've never attended a club. I've had alot of fun with this, and would definitely do it again. I just don't know as much about it. There is no "stroll" you can cruise to check it out. Hence all my experience is related to just those private parties that I mentioned.