Rules of FIGHT CLUB Revisited
Come on guys, please familiarize yourselves, you know who you are because you probably think it's funny, with the 1st and 2nd Rules of FIGHT CLUB. I had an SA woman rip me a new one for saying "A Seymour lady just wanted enough for a bucket of KFC, gas, and some smokes". I didn't even mention her by name, but she knew that I was talking about her. That is true: she was hungry, her tank was almost on E, and her cigarette supply was anemic. It was a win-win for both of us, so I don't know why her panties are in a wad now. For your convenience, here are the rules of FIGHT CLUB. You can replace FIGHT CLUB with anything pertinent, for example - USASG Knoxville Board, for which discretion is paramount.
1st RULE: You do not talk about FIGHT CLUB.
2nd RULE: You DO NOT talk about FIGHT CLUB.
3rd RULE: If someone says "stop" or goes limp, taps out the fight is over.
4th RULE: Only two guys to a fight.
5th RULE: One fight at a time.
6th RULE: No shirts, no shoes.
7th RULE: Fights will go on as long as they have to.
8th RULE: If this is your first night at FIGHT CLUB, you HAVE to fight.
With a belly full of canaries,
milfman
Doesn't know what she wants
I hate to say it, but I was set up to meet this one and she started to ask for more money after we made the plans for the first meeting. Worse, she tried to make me feel like I was being cheap by telling me about how many other offers she was getting for "so much more" than what I was willing to give. I wished her the best of luck, and pulled away. Just left a bad taste in my mouth how she went about doing it. More than anything I don't think she knows what she wants and is very uncomfortable doing this SA thing. Someone has to ease her into it, just not me. Seniors, you can ask more details via PM.
LTM.
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SA ladies dropping their profiles
I've checked with few SA ladies who no longer have active profiles on SA. I had exchanged texts or emails with them before, so I had to reach out to them that way. I was wondering if they had found out an arrangement which necessitated the removal, but that's not the case. It turns out that quite a few guys (not saying that they are Board members, but could be) are allegedly using their post-doc in douchebaggery to harass, degrade, or otherwise creep out the ladies. Facebook stalking is running rampant, low-balling is the norm, the ladies fear being outed as a result of being on the site, and no one is talking real arrangements. This is totally unscientific and based on talking to less than ten ladies. I'm just relaying what I found.
Stay safe,
Milfman.
Men Can be Creepy and Stalkers
[QUOTE=KnoxTNman;2329642]Same exact thing happened with Jen as I mentioned here, a few posts below. Not sure why guys are facebook stalking women on a site where discretion is premium.[/QUOTE]No amount of education can cure stupid. If a guy is creepy, he is going to creep. If a guy is a stalker, he is going to stalk. That is why girls have to be careful. Some guys want power and control and stalking is how they do it. Stalking is their way of exerting some power and keeping some control. It is not about the men trying to play by the rules of the game, it is the men who want power or control. If it wasn't they would be able to let go and find the other girl who does want him.
Just my thoughts.
FB stalking of SBs (and SDs)
[QUOTE=KnoxTNman;2329642]Same exact thing happened with Jen as I mentioned here, a few posts below. Not sure why guys are facebook stalking women on a site where discretion is premium.[/QUOTE]I can totally understand searching for someone on facebook. Given the gray nature of "arrangements" it's hardly surprising that SDs would like to know to what extent a prospective SB is who she says she is, and I fully expect that SBs are also researching prospective SDs for similar reasons. What I can't understand is letting someone know (explicitly or implicitly) that you're stalking her on facebook. It's always been awkward to (appear to) know more a lot more about someone than that person knows about you.
I was just about to say the same thing!
[QUOTE=CaneBay;2330246]A lot of the guys seem to be treating "real" SBs as UTRs. This will bring lots of problems to the arrangement. The problem (opportunity) for SD's is weeding out the profiles on SA's between SBs, UTRs and Escorts. This weeding process is done partially through verifying a SB via internet searches. Anyway you look at it, telling a POT that you are looking is just creepy and leads no where good. Telling a POT that there is a site where guys are chatting about them leads to nothing good unless she is UTR and asking you for help getting her name out.
All of you creepy guys, just makes it that much easier for us low key nice guys.[/QUOTE]The SA game is so much easier because I get to tell the women on there how creepy some of the girls are that I've met and how much I just want to meet a normal person. I have tons of lines that if I said to a girl in a bar would get me laughed at, but there are so many creepers on SA that it gets me a great selection of SBs wanting a cool, chill, low profile dude who just wants a mutually beneficial mutually respectful relationship. I never though being the nice guy would work in my favor, but here it does!
LTM.