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Over the past two years or so, I've had mostly good experiences with SA. I found five great ones there. Some I met with just once or twice, some more like once a week for several months. There were also two not so great ones: a "princess" who thought I was going to be her ATM without her having to do anything at all, and an "explorer" who wasn't really serious about it, just wanted to test out her own attractiveness and see what offers she could get. But I think I've learned to avoid these types, for the most part. Still end up thinking with the wrong head every once in a while though.
SA is not necessarily better than various escort ad sites. It all depends on what you're looking for. If you prefer hh or 1-hr appointments and lots of variety, SA probably isn't something that will interest you. If you're more into regularly-scheduled (1-2 times a week) multi-hour dates with one girl, it can be a very useful resource. It also seems to me (and this is definitely YMMV), that I see a lot less "pharmaceutical" issues, boyfriend issues, or other types of drama. Maybe I've just been lucky, like I said. YMMV.
Purely from this thread starting, I joined four different sites and did a little reading elsewhere. It seems to me, you better have some deep pockets for this game. While I do think there is going to be less drug issues, disease, etc. Drama could be the issue. I have yet to set a date with anyone. Of choose every site wants money to be able to contact the ladies which I can understand even though I hate paying for information. Then of course, you have no idea of the HE. I'll say I'm in between on whether to keep pursuing this.
[QUOTE=WrldTrvlr388;2217920]Purely from this thread starting, I joined four different sites and did a little reading elsewhere. It seems to me, you better have some deep pockets for this game. While I do think there is going to be less drug issues, disease, etc. Drama could be the issue. I have yet to set a date with anyone. Of choose every site wants money to be able to contact the ladies which I can understand even though I hate paying for information. Then of course, you have no idea of the HE. I'll say I'm in between on whether to keep pursuing this.[/QUOTE]Deep pockets certainly help (same as with just about anything else). Mine could use a lot more depth, but even with relatively limited resources, these sites can work. I'm not spending any more now than I was when I was seeing Alexis the Retired 3-5 times a month. In fact, it's actually less. It's not nearly as bad as it may seem if you're just looking at their stated expectations. They'll list anything there -- 5 k, 10 k / month. Doesn't hurt to ask, I guess. But I'm pretty sure very few of them ever get that. Well, maybe in places like NYC, Chicago, Bay area they might. For most of them, what they ask for and what they will happily accept are two very different things. This is a very rough estimate, but I'd say most are good with getting 20-50% of their initially stated expectation.
The big downside of these types of sites for me is that they requires way more effort and patience in communication and initial date setup than scheduling with an escort. It's also necessary to figure out what she is and isn't comfortable with before meeting in person. Some are adamant about "not being an escort", so you might run into some 3-dates rules and other conditions like that. I usually pass and move on to the next one immediately if I get any indication of this sort of thing.
As far as drama goes, it's been surprisingly drama-free so far. I'm very careful in choosing who I meet though.
[QUOTE=Orbits;2218427]Deep pockets certainly help (same as with just about anything else). Mine could use a lot more depth, but even with relatively limited resources, these sites can work. I'm not spending any more now than I was when I was seeing Alexis the Retired 3-5 times a month. In fact, it's actually less. It's not nearly as bad as it may seem if you're just looking at their stated expectations. They'll list anything there -- 5 k, 10 k / month. Doesn't hurt to ask, I guess. But I'm pretty sure very few of them ever get that. Well, maybe in places like NYC, Chicago, Bay area they might. For most of them, what they ask for and what they will happily accept are two very different things. This is a very rough estimate, but I'd say most are good with getting 20-50% of their initially stated expectation.
The big downside of these types of sites for me is that they requires way more effort and patience in communication and initial date setup than scheduling with an escort. It's also necessary to figure out what she is and isn't comfortable with before meeting in person. Some are adamant about "not being an escort", so you might run into some 3-dates rules and other conditions like that. I usually pass and move on to the next one immediately if I get any indication of this sort of thing.
As far as drama goes, it's been surprisingly drama-free so far. I'm very careful in choosing who I meet though.[/QUOTE]Any advice on which od those sites has worked the best for you in this area? Thanks.
[QUOTE=RJHunter;2218694]Any advice on which od those sites has worked the best for you in this area? Thanks.[/QUOTE]I live between Nashville and KNoxville so I check out both Cities. I have found Seeking Arrangement to be the best website (navigation wise) and with better variety of women.
Overall I have found being a SD is much more time consuming and lots more drama than Providers. I started seeing Providers 3 years ago. I would get in, get out and not think about them after I left. I saw a few Providers multiple times (Alexis 1987, Chloe Cummings and a few SBL ladies). After two years I thought I would try a SB and see if I liked it. I found a 22 year old college girl in my town and we started seeing each other. We agreed on roughly $1,000 month for 1-2 meetings a week with sex (this was about what I was spending on Providers so I was ok). Within two months she was pregnant with her ex BF and then the drama started. She had a rough pregnancy and couldn't work, she dropped out of school, had to make rent, had a car payment, yada, yada, yada. She was always needing additional money for things and when I didn't oblige, she always got upset and threw a tantrum. It is a ton of drama, but you also get more emotionally than you would from a Provider. Kind of like a girlfriend lite LOL.
I have done 4-5 Meet and Greets with ladies that didn't go any further than the first Meeting / Lunch.
I am now seeing a girl every other week I met off Seeking Arrangement. It's almost like a P4 P, but it is way cheaper. So far we have fucked twice and I paid her $60 and $80. She is great in bed, looks good and so far no drama. So far LOL.
Hope this helps.
[QUOTE=Gibson1970;2218965]I have found Seeking Arrangement to be the best website (navigation wise) and with better variety of women.[/QUOTE]SA seems to work well for me too. Lots of profiles, simple and easy to use interface. I tried a couple of other sites. Sugardaddyforme was ok, sugardaddyfinder was totally useless.
[QUOTE=Gibson1970;2218965]I live between Nashville and KNoxville so I check out both Cities. I have found Seeking Arrangement to be the best website (navigation wise) and with better variety of women.
Overall I have found being a SD is much more time consuming and lots more drama than Providers. I started seeing Providers 3 years ago. I would get in, get out and not think about them after I left. I saw a few Providers multiple times (Alexis 1987, Chloe Cummings and a few SBL ladies). After two years I thought I would try a SB and see if I liked it. I found a 22 year old college girl in my town and we started seeing each other. We agreed on roughly $1,000 month for 1-2 meetings a week with sex (this was about what I was spending on Providers so I was ok). Within two months she was pregnant with her ex BF and then the drama started. She had a rough pregnancy and couldn't work, she dropped out of school, had to make rent, had a car payment, yada, yada, yada. She was always needing additional money for things and when I didn't oblige, she always got upset and threw a tantrum. It is a ton of drama, but you also get more emotionally than you would from a Provider. Kind of like a girlfriend lite LOL.
I have done 4-5 Meet and Greets with ladies that didn't go any further than the first Meeting / Lunch.
I am now seeing a girl every other week I met off Seeking Arrangement. It's almost like a P4 P, but it is way cheaper. So far we have fucked twice and I paid her $60 and $80. She is great in bed, looks good and so far no drama. So far LOL.
Hope this helps.[/QUOTE]That does help. Thanks.
Hope y"all don't mind me butting in. I do SD4 M. Not sure if this thread is exclusively to talk about SA. Let me know.
Here's another site to search. Although my experience so far is you'll see a lot of the same ladies again.
[URL]Whatsyourprice.com[/URL]
Are these understood to be exclusive arrangements (on the part of the ladies) or might they have arrangements with more than one guy? Or does it matter as long as you are getting what you want?
[QUOTE=Orbits;2218427]Deep pockets certainly help (same as with just about anything else). Mine could use a lot more depth, but even with relatively limited resources, these sites can work. I'm not spending any more now than I was when I was seeing Alexis the Retired 3-5 times a month. In fact, it's actually less. It's not nearly as bad as it may seem if you're just looking at their stated expectations. They'll list anything there -- 5 k, 10 k / month. Doesn't hurt to ask, I guess. But I'm pretty sure very few of them ever get that. Well, maybe in places like NYC, Chicago, Bay area they might. For most of them, what they ask for and what they will happily accept are two very different things. This is a very rough estimate, but I'd say most are good with getting 20-50% of their initially stated expectation.
The big downside of these types of sites for me is that they requires way more effort and patience in communication and initial date setup than scheduling with an escort. It's also necessary to figure out what she is and isn't comfortable with before meeting in person. Some are adamant about "not being an escort", so you might run into some 3-dates rules and other conditions like that. I usually pass and move on to the next one immediately if I get any indication of this sort of thing.
As far as drama goes, it's been surprisingly drama-free so far. I'm very careful in choosing who I meet though.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Gooshpop;2221929]Are these understood to be exclusive arrangements (on the part of the ladies) or might they have arrangements with more than one guy? Or does it matter as long as you are getting what you want?[/QUOTE]Might they have arrangements with more than one guy? Only if they're lucky!
It's all about the cash, guy.
I hope not or else that website I posted earlier is going to get me in trouble. LOL Speaking of SD4 M, I just got kissed by a girl from the Ukraine. I think we have a shot.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2220041]Hope y"all don't mind me butting in. I do SD4 M. Not sure if this thread is exclusively to talk about SA. Let me know.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Gooshpop;2221929]Are these understood to be exclusive arrangements (on the part of the ladies) or might they have arrangements with more than one guy? Or does it matter as long as you are getting what you want?[/QUOTE]I've never asked for exclusivity with any of them, it's not something that matters to me. I think it's one of those things that's easy for them to agree to if someone asks for it. But would they actually take it seriously? I wouldn't bet on it.
[QUOTE=Orbits;2222602]I've never asked for exclusivity with any of them, it's not something that matters to me. I think it's one of those things that's easy for them to agree to if someone asks for it. But would they actually take it seriously? I wouldn't bet on it.[/QUOTE]I require my SB's to be exclusive as I only have one SB at a time. Do I know for sure she isn't seeing someone else. No.
Just make sure you both are clear on what you expect from each other up front.