The Sugar Bowl (in Greensboro & Winston-Salem)

Hi fellow mongers.

There has to be some of you guys enjoying the Sugar Bowl or "sugaring" here and in Winston-Salem. I realize that you don't want to share your successes, especially your long term SBs, but at least share your failures with the rest of us! I have to admit that I've even been playing in the Charlotte and Raleigh areas due to the slim pickings around here. TBH, I only look for short term arrangements in those areas because of the distance I would have to drive on a weekly basis. I have a couple of M&Gs set up in this area but still looking. FYI, there are a lot of faces I recognize on the SA website (www.seekingarrangement.com) from their BP ads.

Safe mongering and sugaring.

Ron

P.S. For more information on sugaring in the Charlotte and Raleigh areas, check out the SB blogs under each of these cities.

Here goes:

I dreamed I finally had some success in the Greensboro area Sugar Bowl! Maybe now I won't be needing to go back to RDU / Chapel Hill area...at least, not for SBs.

A couple of weeks ago I dreamed I met one that I'd had a M&G with several weeks before. We chatted by text for several days and then met at a nice hotel in the area. Wow, she is not only gorgeous but awesome in bed. She enjoyed the DATY with digital anal stimulation almost as much as I did and her BBBJCIMNQNS was spectacular. Let's just sum it up by saying that I dreamed it was one of the most enjoyable sexual encounters of my life. Her allowance was very reasonable too!

Then in the last few days I dreamed I met another 24 year old at a different area hotel, near the airport. I already knew she has one of the prettiest asses I've seen! She too is gorgeous and almost as good in bed as the one mentioned above. (I think I can train her too!) She enjoyed the DATY with digital anal stimulation almost as much as I did and her BBBJCIMNQNS was excellent too. She's definitely a keeper too, although her allowance is a little higher.

Both of these experiences were exactly what I'd been seeking in all my years of mongering. They were very personable and truly more like GFEs. Plus we communicate frequently (enough) and hopefully will become good friends. No, I'm not sharing either one because I hope to keep them both long term!

Safe mongering and sugaring!

I recently learned that Hotwire is my new friend, especially in the Sugar Bowl arena. I've booked two rooms in the past couple of weeks using the red flame deal (Hot Rate) via the app on my iPad. Both time I paid approximately half price for two great rooms. This past week I selected a 3-star hotel near the airport for $72.00 plus taxes. Once I booked the room, I learned that it was Hilton Garden Inn Greensboro Airport and the room usually goes for $139.00 plus taxes per night. I have used other apps like [URL]Hotel.com[/URL], [URL]Priceline.com[/URL], Expedia, etc. but have seen the best deals with Hotwire. The Hilton Garden Inn Greensboro Airport room was as cheap as a lower scale rate near the airport. This may not work as well on the spur of the moment but will when prior planning is available.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

I have participated in the Greensboro area and had some success. Mostly with AA girls since that is my thing. They all say they want an ongoing thing but it seems like they are always one done.

**Previously #2, posted by Triad Traveler on May 10, 2017 at 21:08 and accidentally deleted by RWARNMSN69 on May 21, 2017!

I have met k_ fund a couple times. Very hot girl and lots of fun.

I thought there would be more action than this in the area.

[QUOTE=TriadTraveler;3491287]I thought there would be more action than this in the area.[/QUOTE]I thought so too, Triad Traveler.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

[QUOTE=RWarNmsn69;3493199]I thought so too, Triad Traveler.

Safe mongering and sugaring![/QUOTE]Got any leads for me?

[QUOTE=TriadTraveler;3493244]Got any leads for me?[/QUOTE]I haven't had much luck in this area lately and have ventured out to Raleigh and Charlotte. Any you would share with me?

Safe mongering and sugaring!

[QUOTE=RWarNmsn69;3494666]I haven't had much luck in this area lately and have ventured out to Raleigh and Charlotte. Any you would share with me?

Safe mongering and sugaring![/QUOTE]My membership has expired but I'll be rejoining next week. I'll let you know if I find anything. Did you try k-fund?

[QUOTE=TriadTraveler;3494785]My membership has expired but I'll be rejoining next week. I'll let you know if I find anything. Did you try k-fund?[/QUOTE]Thank you sir! (My membership is currently expired and I have 26 messages.) No, I didn't; we couldn't agree on terms.

A friend of mine said he's been cleaning up in the gboro area on SA lately. Are you guys having luck and just being hush-hush about it? What's the price range you guys are getting?

[QUOTE=OrdinaryJohn;3509799]A friend of mine said he's been cleaning up in the gboro area on SA lately. Are you guys having luck and just being hush-hush about it? What's the price range you guys are getting?[/QUOTE]Yes it's hopping but pricey. The quality is good though. $$. 5-.

I dipped into the sugar bowl and I haven't looked back. At this point, I can't imagine any other way to indulge. However, there are some drawbacks. I'm in my mid thirties and started my own company some years ago. I'm not rich by any means, not even close, but I do okay. I also travel quite a bit for work, so I've seen my fair share of SB's in different cities and different regions of the country. I feel so much more at ease in the sugar bowl than perusing other avenues. And like others have noted, the quality is lightyears better than other resources.

A few things, my age is a tremendous bargaining chip. With most of these girls, I can hang out with them and most people just think I'm a friend. My age, and my ability to blend in and actually relate to things with them that they actually care about has resulted in random hookups, dates, them smoking me out, cooking for me, etc. Many of these girls aren't going to go for it, no matter what you're offering, if you're in the same age range as her dad or older. Not at all the 'hurry up and finish' approach from other places. It literally is night and day.

Here are the drawbacks from my personal opinion:

-The girls in this area don't actually know (or very very few of them) what an SB is or how to be a good one. They really just think that you're supposed to fawn over them because they're young. Not only is that lame, they don't realize that there are literally hundreds of girls in the immediate area with the same commodity: youth. The SB's from other areas, particularly New York, Los Angeles, and Vegas realize that they're supposed to be providing a fantasy. And they make you feel like the proverbial king. Whenever I'm in this area, the SB's make me feel as if I'm wasting my money. So a lot of times, I just abstain until I'm somewhere else.

-The girls in the sugar bowl also aren't guaranteed to be anything special. Many of them are nervous, don't know what they're doing, and are inexperienced young women. They think they can divulge until they can't. I've left plenty on the table because someone wasn't comfortable. It's simply not worth it to argue. She needs it more than we do anyway. That leads to an additional point.

-And I'm sure this happens everywhere, but too many of the SB's in this area are on sites simply because financially their lives are falling apart. That's not ALL of the girls, but way too many. They have zero interest in actually being an SB and really can only feign interest for as long as you show you have something to give them. Again, the SB's in other regions of the country provide an experience.

-Hanging with SB's has taught me just how low the bar has fallen for dating women in their age bracket. Almost all of the girls in this area are pining over some guy who treats them like garbage. Again, making me feel like I'm wasting my money. The girls in other cities are exciting and fun from the moment you see them until the second you leave. Sob stories are EVERYWHERE, but the frequency here is off the charts. It makes it not fun. I can't tell you how many women lead with stories about deadbeat boyfriends, having to pay for all their own dinners, not having enough money for rent, etc. It could be a ploy, but that stuff doesn't work on me and I walk. I can't believe that some of these very attractive women are chasing after these dudes to be basically used as objects. It's a shame and definitely doesn't make me want to spend my time with them.

But the positives are great:

I've yet to run into anyone with any demons. That's a major plus for me. Also, I enjoy chatting with people first, and if I get the psycho vibe, I get up and walk. That's it. I say thanks, and then I get to act like I've never met them before. Also, these chicks are almost always hotter than chicks you'll find in other places.

And because of the absolutely abysmal shape of the dating world, and how lackluster men their own age are, I've actually had a few try to date me. Their expectations for men are REALLY that low. I don't know how these guys continue to get laid. I've heard absolutely horrendous stories about how women their age are treated now. It's mindblowing. Sadly, some of these girls just want to be respected for more than 15 minutes. That's been my biggest winner. Treat them like a person, take them somewhere better than Cookout, and you're likely to score. At least, that's been my experience. I actually feel bad for most of them, because a lot of their heads are messed up because guys routinely just treat them like toys. That part is actually pretty upsetting.

However, it's not always guaranteed. There's a time investment. And I think at the core, they have to actually like you somewhat. Hope that helps, gents.

Anyone had any meetings with:

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a879daa9-3076-847c-02d2-304c89b7d7e0[/URL]

Thanks,

Sparky.