[QUOTE=Geburah09]It's too bad because she could be a good provider. She is unique, being petite and not overweight, in an area that is overflowing with fat girls. I can't believe how many overweight people are in this area of the country. I can't believe how hard it is to find a young, hot, sweet fun girl (escort) here. I suppose that I was spoiled when I lived in florida (many for a reasonable rate).
Anyway, I also saw her a few times, but I stopped because of all the endless BS. Like many others have stated, she never shuts up. And, her talking, which can go on for 15-20 minutes, gets taken off of your time with her. And then, when the touching and sensual excitement begins, when she really should finally shut up, she just keeps talking and talking. It is so not enjoyable. I told her about it once, and she answered, "well that's me".
Key point. I pay $150-200 for one hour of a girl's time. I want one hour of attention directed at me, primarily along the lines of sensual erotic excitement of some form. Ideally, the girl has some sense of art and understands what it means to start off slow, gently tease, use all she's got (hair, eyes, nose, lips, tongue, tittties) to rub against your skin, and build up with some intention and attention on her part. Too many of these girls, Lacey included, seem to think that all she needs to do is be there and get off with her after a very lame and uninspired "massage" (while also talking the whole time). So boring. So not creative. So not interesting.
Yep, I had to also order her to back off from the immediate BJ, and behave a little like a GFE, at least with some gentle touching, erotic sensations, etc. But, she needs to be constantly reminded.
Yeah, the new places she is at really suck.
What it is about her, is that she has problems in her life. And she "brings her problems at home to the job". Nobody should do that, including escorts. But, they sure do. Also, as is quite obvious, she simply doesn't at all like to do what she "has to do". It shows. It affects the session negatively.
Lacey could be a top notch provider if only she would realize that she is there for you, to just shut up, to understand that guys just don't want to hear it, and actually lose interest in wanting to see her again, because she doesn't ever shut up. Especially when all the talk is about her problems and life difficulties. And, simply, the constant endless talking is a major distraction to what should be a relaxed, entirely enjoyable sensual experience.
I want to see a happy smiling face when an escort opens the door. I don't want to open the door, see Lacey frowning, and on a cell phone arguing with her husband, and then answering the phone a few times during the session (which she did). I also don't want a girl spending 15 minutes "getting ready" in the bathroom, while I relax on the couch, and then have her tell me 10 minutes into the session that "we can't stretch this one out" (which she also did).
I would have liked to see her again and again. Because of the cute figure and nice BBBJ, but the negatives were too much to bother with. No DATY. No foreplay (if she can help it). Talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, about BS most of the time, with her attention off in space somewhere else most of the time. I do feel sorry for her problems, but I am not paying any girl money to act as her therapist (especially when it comes off of my time). Geez.
If she decided to she could become a very successful escort. But, I don't think she cares enough about it (not being into it at all) to want to learn and apply what men actually want and don't want in a one-hour visit. But, she is not alone in that. In truth, I would prefer to see nobody than see her, even at a discounted rate, when the performance is so uninspired, lacking in attention, and basically mechanical. And of course, the constant talking is a huge turn-off. I don't think she at all realizes just how much men don't like, don't enjoy and don't want to have to listen to that endless chatter. We want to be treated with attention, care, an attitude of "do all I can to put a smile on your face", and give me a relaxed hour of sensual entertainment. For $150-$200 per hour, I don't think that is too much to ask for.[/QUOTE]This is a lesson I wish all of our ladies would learn.
Number 1- Shut up about personal problems. The incessant jabber is unnerving. The most arousing prospect for me is a little mystery.
Number 2- Please care about what you do for us or find another career. If I just needed the mechanics, well enough said.
Number 3- Please provide the exotic experience we are looking for to break up this humdrum, high stress existence.
Number 4-If it were all about the money I would see a Therapist.
Nick