First of all thank you, ImThaGuy
Thanks for starting the thread and sharing your experience. I think it's a great idea and as I've moved slowly away from the escort world to the sugar world, I'm very interested in everyone's experience. I have a bit of SD experience myself and I will be sharing soon but I just wanted to say thanks first and that I'm excited to see where this thread goes.
Brannigan.
SA is the only quality in ILM
[QUOTE=NCHobbyist69;3622754]Feel free to PM me with full links to their profiles to see if I've chatted with them; tough to do a search on those terms you have there. For my part, I've met one SB here in ILM that was halfway decent, two others I met for coffee that I ran from due to obvious demons. Hit or miss for sure, but there seem to be a decent amount of college students on the site in the area looking for financial help. Should be some diamonds in the rough, patience is a virtue on SA.[/QUOTE]It takes a little work on the front end, plus I insist on meeting them first before deciding to proceed, but I now have a stable of 8-9 great / cute women of varying ages and no demons. It's like fishing in a stocked barrel. Sorry but I have no way of providing details based on current SA handles. I tend to join for 30 days, make my connections, remove myself at the end of 30, and go with what I have until I need to open new doors. But, it IS worth the 30 day membership if you're willing to do the work upfront.
I agree with JFC, SA is a great resource.
I've only been a member once about six months ago but I found a great regular girl there that I'm still seeing. 27 years old, slim, pretty and lots of fun. I only met a handful of girls at the time because I didn't really understand the site very well but I have no doubt if I joined again, I could find 5 or 6 girls no problem.
Some things to be aware of if you decide to join:
1. If you get a girl to message you, set up a meeting asap. Don't bother with a lot of chat or getting to know you stuff. I usually just send one message and ask what she likes to do for fun and then try to set up a coffee / drinks date. Don't set up a date too far in advance or she'll likely flake. A day in advance is perfect.
2. Insist on meeting before you make an arrangement or invite her to your place / a hotel. The UTR pros will try to go straight for a "date. " If she insists on that before a drink date, pass.
3. Try to avoid money talk before the meetup but if she insists, go ahead. If she's looking for four times what you're willing to spend on a date, there's no point in a meetup anyway.
4. A lot of girls have totally unrealistic expectations for an allowance. I've had girls ask for 600 a date. I even had one ask for 2000 for one date! One girl wanted a signed contract. Some girls ask for 200 or 300 to just go to dinner and be "arm candy. " LOL. Obviously you want to pass on those.
5. Avoid a monthly allowance. You'll get most bang for your buck doing it per date anyway. And if you pay a monthly and she ghosts, you're out that money. So if she insists on a monthly, pass. If you see a girl for six months and trust her and want to start giving her a monthly, that's probably okay but never for a new girl.
6. Nothing but drink dates for the first meetup. Important. I've broken this rule a couple times and got stuck for 2 hours with a girl I knew I wasn't interested in and was out 100 or so for my troubles. Go for drinks, spend as little as possible, and bail after the first drink if she's not for you.
7. Do not give her any money before you meet! Do I have to mention this? One girl asked me for 200 before we ever met so she could buy hair supplies (she was a stylist). Hard pass on any girl who asks for even 5 bucks up front.
8. Don't be afraid to walk away. I don't care how beautiful she is. If she asks for too much money, if she makes weird demands, if you get a weird vibe from her, walk away. There are plenty of fish.
9. Don't be a dick. Most of these girls aren't pros, they're college students and single mothers. No need to play hard ass with them. As long as you stick to the rules above you don't need to anyway. If your style is to be a little cocky, that's fine but be a gentleman and treat them right. You make the community better for all of us if you treat the girls right.
10. If you strike out a lot, don't worry about. Like I said, my first time through I didn't really understand the dynamics of the site and I screwed up a lot of potential hookups. Learn from your mistakes and move on. If you don't catch any fish, wait a few months and try again. New college students come to town every day and the SA stable constantly replenishes so be patient and learn and enjoy.
Happy hunting!
Careful out there, gentlemen
Young lady with nickname "danilovelybug" in wilmington was chatting with me about getting together, was asking some odd questions and then requested a photo. I sent her one -- not of me though -- and she immediately started threatening to tell my wife and employer what I was doing, etc. Just confirmed my standard operating procedure of not sending photos under any circumstances.