Slutcake, You are a Real Gem
[QUOTE=SlutCake; 1319052]A regular is gave a special rate and then tries to take advantage of the provider, she says NO, and he replies "I'm going to due it anyway" This is not acceptable and will not at all be tolerated by me. This person is a long time lurker on the boards although I did not meet him from this board, I know he exchanges PMs with members. It has been discussed here before and my apologies for having to bring it up again, but is it that hard for adults to understand that No means No.
Due to this incident I cancelled on what was going to be a new friend I was to meet. My deepest apologies to you, if you allow me the opportunity I will gladly make it up to you.[/QUOTE]I was the new friend that SC had to cancel appointment. From what I have read about her on this site and others and personally knowing her friends, of course I rescheduled for the next day. I am so glad I did. She truly believes in having a positive attitude, have fun in life, an hour is at least an hour and mutual respect goes a long way. She also is very fair in her massage rates. Not many phone numbers get saved in my phone, but hers sure has. She is in the top group of ladies in Indy.
My condolences to Slutcake on her issue with a client
No lady should have to explain the meaning of NO to a client nor put up with one who does what he wants to do in spite of her telling him NO. Sorry that happened to the lady. No woman deserves it and no man should be that stupid.
I would also like to thank the ladies who are open enough to explain to a guy what they mean by GFE. There are too many ladies who say they are then hit a guy with a long list of no's when he arrives. GFE is very simple. It is expecting what your girlfriend would provide to you in your time with her. Some ladies give you the BS that they determine what GFE is and that is their prerogative but no girlfriend would have a man long if she didn't dfk, speak french without a translator, or allow DATY. To the ladies who after clearing you tell you upfront or in private tell you honestly what they enjoy and if it isn't what he expects doesn't mind him walking THANK YOU for your professionalism. For those we might travel to see don't lie to us get the roses then change the playing field and keep the roses when we get pi*ed for it. This is all about finding a person who can meet our needs, both the man and the woman and don't be ridiculous and expect more flowers than our lawyer gets for an hour of their time. Don't mislead on either side. Thanks to those I have been fortunate enough to see and who have been very willing to make me a happy man and work with me under my personal conditions at home. I wish I could hit the lottery so I could VERY happy and die in a woman's arms with a big Chessie Kat smile on my face LOL An early Happy Thanksgiving to everyone and enjoy what you can while you can.