Danger Danger Will Robinson! Fake / Extortion / Danger
Gents -.
I don't have the profile link on SA because I already blocked it, but run AWAY from the one on SA that today has started texting me messaging trying to extort money and threatening to file police reports etc.
Her 'real name' given is "Erika", posts on SA as "Smile" followed by some numbers, location is Lisle. We ended up meeting pretty spur of the moment, spent a couple hours hanging out, talking, ended up having a bit of fun. Today the messages start "broke car, stranded, please send money". I said I was busy and couldn't / wouldn't. And then just now started getting "ok, we'll do it the hard way. I said no. You got pushing. I saved some of your DNA on my shirt".
Good lord. P S why C H O doesn't even begin to describe this. Needless to say I've already talked to my local boys in blue and will be going in to formally file a report and make sure it's all documented, including her entire plan where she spells out in texts exactly how and what she's going to lie about and all that. Crazy crazy crazy, if you see this one or were thinking about it. RUN AWAY.
BAD NEWS all around. Presents as nice, likable. Then all the sob stories came out. Then the extortion attempt with threats of faking rape and all the rest. Probably taking a break because this isn't just worth it with all the crazies out there.
Sugarbaby 101 tip: try to meet for coffee, not dinner and drinks!
When meeting up a girl for first time, meet up for a coffee or a quick bite. Avoid going out for dinners, it can get expensive. Especially if you're not even sure of the outcome afterward. I'm only posting this in case it is of any use to any newbies. Surely all you experienced hobbies know this as "common sense. ".
I am definitely a bit rusty, finally connected with a girl last week. We had been chatting a few months ago. The girl is gorgeous, had a cute dress that showed off her great body very nicely. Convo was enjoyable. We fucked at the end of the night, so everything was on point.
Work usually keeps me busy, so I had gone along with her pick on where to go for dinner. Seemed like a good idea at the time, but the bill with drinks afterward was almost 2 bills. I'd want to avoid spending too much on a p4 p girl. Shoot, even if we're fucking for free. Our next date will be at her house. I'll just pick up a 6 pack and order a pizza.