Don't go in with the mindset of extras!
I've written this before. Be mentally prepared and accepting that things may stay platonic, especially on a first time. Extras can happen later, but it takes a good connection for them to happen, at least in my experience. I've had three cuddlers I felt I connected well with, and with two of them things started going beyond cuddling, but in later sessions, never the first. The third cuddler stayed strictly platonic, but our cuddling connection and desires were so mutual and good I kept seeing her. I've had other cuddlers but mostly they were "one and done," mainly because the connection wasn't there. (BTW the three cuddlers I got more with are no longer offering cuddles).
[QUOTE=OnTheGoInMco;6769839]If you are striking out with cuddlers I would encourage you to read one of the recent threads on CC about platonic cuddling. While it is filled with the usual subjects complaining that men want to touch them (the horror! It does mention quite a few "red flags" that almost all cuddlers who eventually fooled around with me mentioned that other guys did.
The biggies. Don't call them cute names like babe or hun. Don't ask them what they will be wearing. Don't ask what their limits or boundaries are. DO think about what you are saying to them in your initial message and be friendly and well spoken like you are trying to impress them. Have a couple of photos that you are willing to send them if you don't have photos on your profile.
One of the girls in that thread being vocal about only ever platonically cuddling spread her legs for me half way through our first session and I was just being a normal laid back non pressuring dude who let her call all the shots.
I don't have any current Orlando recommendations if you are thinking of sending me a PM. I generally only cuddle when I travel but if you want to chat about it in general or have any questions I'm happy to help and you can also see a post I made a few years ago with more suggestions. I'm not an expert by any means but I enjoy playing in this part of the hobby more than any other part and I have a decently high success rate with "normal girls" on CC.[/QUOTE]
Cuddlebugfr, FLcuddlequeen
I'm visiting the area and really interested in reaching out to these two. Any recent experiences? PM me if you would like. Happy to return the favor if anyone visits South FL.