Sugar shouldn't be too expensive
Thanks. This is a great topic that we need more information about.
Here is my situation: I *am* looking for sex, not a quasi-girlfriend. While the quality of escorts has improved in recent years, I have high-end tastes. I'm really only interested in around 20% of the ladies who show up on USAG. I don't like rough types, middle-aged women, or overweights. I don't like incalls in sketchy parts of town. That weeds out a lot of the escorts for me.
I'm also reasonably good looking and fit, without being George Clooney. I'm in my mid-40's, far too old to be "boyfriend material" for most of these ladies.
My experience: an SB can generally be had on a per-meeting basis for about what a higher end escort would cost ($200 to $400). If someone wants $6 K per month from you, politely tell her "no thanks", and counter with $250 per meet.
There are many variables here, of course, but a sugar baby should not involve a monumental amount of money. Keep in mind, this is Gen why we're talking about, the "hook up" generation. Be polite and be a gentleman, but don't even think about promising someone a monthly allowance. (I always go pay-per-visit.).
My observation: over half of the women join Seeking Arrangements with unrealistic expectations, and end up dropping out in a few weeks or months. But there are definitely women who are willing to deal, who have fewer lifestyle issues and less mileage than the typical Backpage escort.
SBs are also *legal* I should add. This makes a huge difference to me.
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Ultimately, you'll need to figure out what you're really looking for in a girl. If you're just looking for sex, get an escort (seriously, guys, isn't that why most of us are here? Your SugarBaby is going to be anywhere between a FWB and a serious girlfriend. Some will want to meet up once a week, some will want you to spend all week with them. Be honest with yourself, figure out what you're looking for, and go out for it.
Finding SugarBabies isn't that hard -- however, where you find them is usually a good indicator of what's going to happen. I've found out that CraigsList is probably the worst -- I've had girls quote me 6-10 K / month for two dinners and no overnights -- however, your mileage may vary.
If all you want is just sex, find an escort (god knows we have plenty of them in Cincy! But, sex is a part of an arrangement even if you don't like to acknowledge it. Don't expect to jump into bed with her on your first date, and if you want to have fun and good sex, you'll want to be comfortable with each other. Don't schedule it nor make it seem like a formality.
If you have any questions, or need advice, please let me know.[/QUOTE]
Digits for Trusted Seniors
Fellow mongers, a friend recently decided to experiment with a website dedicated to SB / SD relationships. It was pretty easy to find some ladies in need of help with bills. He found a lady in Western Hills that was so appreciative for a few bucks for car insurance that she let him abuse her mouth for a BBBJCIM. Now this lady is not going to win any beauty contests, but she does have a nice rack and is clean and some may even find her attractive if they are in to long hair and curves. She is mid 30's. She is willing to share pics. Her mouth was very soft and she could deep throat pretty well apparently, and the boys also were not left out of the action. She was willing to invite him over to her apartment, but he opted to drive to a large nearby park and have her go to town in the back seat. His favorite part was how she did not object to him bouncing her head up and down on his shaft like a basketball, and he is above average girth and length. She gagged a couple of times but my friend likes that. My friend believes that she is willing to be a CFS girl, because she does like to talk about how kinky she is, but he just wanted to abuse her mouth.
He received direct permission today to share digits because she could use some more help on some projects. Trusted seniors, if you are interested in the UTR types and are like my friend you can PM me for digits.
Searching for a sugar baby
I am a older gentleman looking for a sugar baby relationship looking for one lady to spoil and see regular if this interest anyone please message me.