Easy Budget method for the bowl and missing my ATF
So, some of you Big Bossmen Daddies have unlimited funds out there, BUT for the rest of us junior daddies still making a living, I came up with an easy budgeting solution for my bowl expenses. I laid out a normal household budget, then figured out how much I could spend on the bowl, outside of normal expenses and savings. Then I setup a separate bank account with local small bank, and put my address as my work address. So no materials ever go to house. Now here's the key...I setup direct deposit for a specific amount out of my bi-weekly paycheck to go directly into the separate account. My SO has no idea and never looks at my paystub (I shred it when I get it). Also, no awkward explanations about large cash withdrawals or purchases on our joint account or CC's purchases to Victoria Secret or anything.
If there's money in the bowl account, have fun. If not, take some time off till you replenish the funds. But have discipline, and never steal from your "normal" account. Now here's the funny thing, if you have a regular sugar baby on allowance, she'll know payday better then you. My ATF RN-student loved payday weekend. Little history, met hot 21 YO white 8/9/10/9 off Craigslist about 8 months ago. She spoiled me for all other babies that have followed. Lived alone and was on my way to work. So I dropped by her place almost every morning and sometimes after work, spent an hour or two waking her and me up, by filling her holes, then headed to work or home. BUT payday was not only when she got her allowance, but we also made it a tradition to go somewhere nice that weekend. Whether to the beach for a night if I could sneak away, or just a really nice dinner and movie. She knew she would get a nice date, and the sex those nights were always extra special, mainly because she was a little tipsy and open-minded. Unfortunately, she recently graduated and moved north to be close to family, and I miss her dearly...
But anyways, I still follow my method. No money in the bowl fund, then wait till next payday. No exceptions. I also use the bowl money for other things I don't want to get asked about, like visits to strip club, etc..
Total Noob so please forgive me for asking questions
Ok, as you can tell I am a senior member but I've been more of an escort and massage person. Today I took my first step into the world of SD / SB and I joined SA. I am looking for some guidance.
Before anyone asks yes I did my home work. I looked on google and read blogs and other websites. Let me know if you know of any other good sites to read. I also found a SB on SA and I did look up her pic on Tineye just to make sure it was not a fake ad. Tineye came up empty. I also tried to look for her name on this forum but honestly I don't know to look up shit on this website.
So here is my current situation.
I am getting a lot emails from [URL]SA.com[/URL] and am thinking of meeting a girl named Felicity. She is white, 22 and lives in Midlothian. She has a husband which is kind of weird.
1. Should I get involved with a SB that is married? Or is he her pimp? Honestly, this arrangement is more like an escort arrangement but I am good with that.
2. Has anyone ever heard of Felicity. I have her SA I'd if anyone is interested.
Sorry for sounding like a noob but I am one when it comes to SD / SB. Thanks everyone.