The Demise of Jenna CL and others and my decision to stop H addict encounters
As I'm sure most are aware by now, Jenna CL is gone per this post this morning on the Dayton board:
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?11513-USA-Adult-Classified-Advertiser-Reviews&p=3205946&viewfull=1#post3205946[/URL]
I posted this on the Cincinnati "Octagon" thread this morning based on my Jenna CL reaction:
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?9626-Rants-Raves-and-Opinions-AKA-quot-The-Octagon-quot&p=3206156&viewfull=1#post3206156[/URL]
Much of what you're reading here is from the above Octagon post. But the end is different. The end of this post is about a service I'm willing to do on this board for a few days to help US.
Though I've never encountered Jenna I'm still moved by her passing. She's as much a victim as Dayton's CL panty girl (Becca?) and the myriad of using SP's that have flashed before our collective eyes and continue to flame-out at a frequency that appears to be weekly (sometimes daily).
More startling is this: many of us know using SPs right fucking now. Many of us continue to see SPs absolutely knowing they're not only supporting an H habit, many know that SP is managing her addiction either at that moment or she's about to head to her local dope boy soon after she's done with you, her money source. In my decades in the hobby and as is the case with so many veteran seniors on this board, we've never seen this death-related hobby phenomenon before: SPs dropping dead resulting from their reason for being in the hobby: H cash generation.
It's no longer to support kids, school, debt from a deadbeat husband, bad decisions, pimp, abusive leech boyfriend, whatever. It's now primarily about H habit support. And it's happened so suddenly in comparison to my years in the hobby. It's not only killing them, our hobby lives are significantly more dangerous as a result. And it's not local to Southwestern ohio. It's everywhere in this nation.
In the past, the worst SPs were doing was smoking crack, snorting meth, of simply toking a doobie (showing my age). But they weren't dying. And now they are. And why are they dying even more now? Because they're believing their dope boys now who are promising them "oh no, I'm keeping a close eye on my H and I promise you it doesn't have any trace of Fentanyl or any other impurities for sure!" Seriously, these users are being told by their suppliers their supplies are clean. And it's killing them. The suppliers need to suffer and they don't. They just find new users.
So what do we hobbyists do?
Here's what I'm going to do. I'm no longer going to engage the H addicts. But what I won't do is post their names here. Board rules are board rules and without this board more hobbyists might also be hurt.
I'm never going to say I "know" an SP is using unless the SP herself has told me (and they do). They do because I simply ask and they sing canary music. They sing because they want empathy and I give it to them as soon as I sense their using because it absolutely helps me properly assess my surroundings while at the same time giving them the opportunity to better focus in our particular moment at the time. Maybe you'd call it a technique. I call it a hobby survival tool. I believe the more you know about an SP when you're in the moment the safer you are when it comes to judging whether or not to stay or go in any situation. So I not only ask. I make sure I know to the best of my ability.
So in my post earlier today on the Cincinnati Octagon thread I publicly asked Jackson AND A2 about the rules related to posting SP names who use. Their answer surprised me but the answer is essentially "Yes. " And it makes sense because this board is to protect us.
As mentioned on my Octagon thread, I'm not trying to start a witch hunt. Instead, I'm trying to keep my board brethren safe and alive and no longer be a contributor to a known H user's problem. Why now? Actually a selfish reason: Aside from no longer wanting to support an SP's H habit, it's now really about my own personal safety.
Interestingly, I've already received PM's from hobbyists with SP names. So, I've decided not to post my own personal observations right now. Instead, as a service to my fellow Dayton area mongers I will post provider names as supplied by you guys via PM. But I won't name your names. That way, the Admins on this site will be able to confirm all I'm doing is relaying received reports from the team via PM.
So, you know a provider who's using but you don't want to report it? PM me and I'll do it for you but I won't report your name. This is not to hurt the SP's (though I know it might do just that). It's to help protect our team.
Harry.
So let's talk about the positive.
How many girls have recoved and quit and are no longer in the "business" ?
You guys either really don't care as much as you say or you simply don't pay any attention.
Haven't any of you noticed over the years that some, NOT all of the girls I refer on her eventually STOP using and leave the business?
I wonder why that is?
Well it's because they have become so deperate to get out of this "situation" they gotten themselves in.
You really think so of these young girls enjoy having to met Men twice their age in smelly shitty hotel room or car just to make a quick buck so they won't be sick the next day?
Of course it's their fault for getting hooked anyway to begin with, we can all agree there.
But those of you who think you're going to stop seeing girls who are hooked on Herione. Yeah good luck with that.
All you will be seeing is older burnt out ladies who are married like most of YOU.
Unless yu're going to spend $200 on an escort?
Why don't you change you why of thinking and instead offer one of these young girls help in getting clean or at the very least give them some respect the deserve.
Some of you are reall shit heads in my book and the girls keep me well informed on how they are treated by each of you.
NO I'm not there "pimp". BUT I'm trying to help each of them the best way I can.
ROSE = clean, no loner in the business.
LILY = clean, no loner in the business.
JENNY JUICE = clean, no loner in the business.
TATTO JESSIE = going to Rehab, soon to be clean and hopefully out of the business.
ABBEY = wants to go to Rehab, soon to be clean and hopefully out of the business.
There are more.
Let's see this list grow bigger not smaller.
And those of you who claim you will not see girls that have a "habit", well don't look to me for any referals.