Silk has always been dependable
[QUOTE=CincyGuy1793;1781303]Tried to hook with with Silk yesterday. She asked for references but never got back to me. I gave her a total of 1 one of which she said would not give out references. Is she too busy these days to take on new clients? Anyone else had a similar experience with her? Is it better to email her?[/QUOTE]I have never had an issue with booking with her and she is always quick to reply to communication, even if it is with bad news that there is a scheduling conflict and we have to choose a different time or day. It is one of her strengths. Maybe the issue wasn't with her but rather with the lady you gave as a reference? Sometimes it helps if you tell a lady, if she is sane and reasonable, that you are wanting to try another provider (most of the good ones know we get in different moods and want to try new flavors) and tell her you would like to use her as a reference and ask her to contact the new provider, or at least be looking for a query soon. My experience is most of these ladies are very fair and communicate with each other quite often and candidly, but there are a few bad apples that will hoard clients and withhold references, or at least delay them as a business tactic.
It is a shame, but it does happen.
Once you do connect with Silky, you will find it was worth the wait!
Experience from a few weeks back now. LilJewel
G'morning all..
Apologies for the tardiness of this report, but I've been occupied elsewhere of late. A few weeks back now, I had an afternoon's experience that I would like to share with y'all. It started with me having some unexpected time and funds that merged on a blue moon, which prompted me to weigh options for spending some time with one of the quality lasses that we've acquired of late. The time was around 4PM, and I did plenty of research before this to allow me a shopping list of options to go on. I first decided to call UTR since he was running that special of $125 an hour. I've had dealings with him before, long ago now, and appreciate his business model and candor. Unfortunately that day though, I'm guessing that y'all had really tuckered his lasses out for nooners and start of day fun, because they were done for the day already, and not even 5PM yet. Fine.. no worries.. I'm flexible. He suggested that I call Silk. I did, but no answer there. I then tried working with the folks at EE, but the time of day and me being on the north side of the river, the lasses available in NKY were too long a distance to try and finagle rush hour traffic for at that point. No big, as I had been trying to get schedules to mesh with Candice the 2 weeks before that, so opted to try my luck there. She was free and game, and I made plans to see her @ 5:15. I called her again 15 minutes later to confirm as I was leaving and she didn't answer. I waited in a holding pattern for a bit, using the time to check for updates on this board. Finally I heard back from Candice, but she had to postpone as a repair person had shown up to fix something at her location. That threw off the timetable that I had available at that point, so had to raincheck that visit for later. Then.. I tried LSMe, but no answer there. I tried Silk again. No answer. By this point I was about ready to give up for sheer frustration, and thought to myself that I'd try the little blonde, LilJewel, and if that was impossible for some reason, that I'd quit and try again another day. Well... LJ picked up, told me approximately where to go, and we agreed that I'd be there within half an hour. I got to the area and called to confirm a final direction, and this is where it started going sideways. Reports had been that LJ was operating out of an apartment... but apparently that had fallen thru, and she was now working from the Drake. I was leery, VERY leery, but thought to myself to at least swing by and scope the situation before waving off. I did a drive around and saw nothing out of the ordinary, and then parked where I had visibility of the side of hotel she was on, and the main drag too. Still no bad vibes. At that point, I saw a little blonde head pop out a door down the way, and she called me, asking if that was me in the car. I said it was, and she invited me in. I decided to take the risk and go ahead on in. Inside was a dismal little motel room, lived in, not awful, but nothing that I'd consider resting my head in for a night. LJ was a tiny little thing, much smaller than the pics that I recalled, and pleasant enough to talk with. She invited me to get comfy, and I did after I scouted the room and exterior again fully. She exited the bathroom and started getting comfy herself. She was SO thin, and looking a little haggard in the eyes.... made me worry about possible H involvement. We agreed to a hhr, and she lay me back and started with a very nice BBBJ. This being a new session with a new provider in a never before visited locale, my nerves were getting the better of me. She did her best to take my mind off of things tho. Once I was soothed enough to start enjoying the session, hands wandered and we got into a better groove. I alllllmost was relaxed enough to not realize what was happening next before it did. She asked if I was ready for the next course. I said that I was if she was. Without missing a beat, LilJewel then proceeded to sit back and then do this hop as to mount me cowgirl.. WITH NO COVER!! I caught her in mid-leap over me, and asked her what in the hell she was doing. She said that she was going to do the FS portion. I asked her where her covers were. She said that she didn't have any, and since I hadn't produced one at the start of the session, she thought that I was wanting BBFS. Now.. I know that I had broken a rule of my own of not bringing a cover of my own into the session, but keep in mind that I had initially been planning on seeing an agency lass or such, where there is a big box of covers always in the nightstand by the bed. I hadn't changed gears in my brain before the session with LJ, and as such I'd expected her to have one. Foolish me... but even more foolish LilJewel for trying to BB me. We talked a minute about covers being needed for this type of thing, and I quickly decided to have her go back to the BBBJ aspect until I could finish and leave. By that point it didn't take long.. as the BBFS option was the last straw for me. As I was getting cleaned up and dressed I asked her about the area some and she said that it was alright, and that she walked to get food or supplies every day. She said that on occasion she was picked up as if a SW and brought them back to the motel room. With Drake and Syc being closed that's not an option anymore obviously, but thought it pertinent to state that there was a streetscort vibe from the conversation at the end of our visit to be sure.
So... the short and sweet of it is this... I'd not recommend seeing LilJewel unless you're fine with seeing a lass that offers BBFS to even first time patrons. Nice enough lass... but very risky endeavor when there are MUCH better options out there IMHO.
Hope this helps..
Jay
And speaking of better options. Candice!
So, a week or so after the debacle that was the LilJewel visit, I decided to call in that raincheck with Candice (finally). MUCH different time was had, and I'm glad to report it to everyone.. :)
Called Candice one afternoon, again around 4pm. She said that she would be home by 5, and to head that was as to where I'd get there by then, with a general location as for where her home was located. I ran an errand, and headed over 15 minutes later to account for cross town traffic. Just as I got to her neighborhood, she texted that her roommate was there still, waiting to be picked up to go to a Reds game. Argh. I went into a holding pattern for about 20 minutes, but no biggie on my part. Got a call around 5:15 stating that the coast was clear, and a request for me to pick up some covers as she hadn't had a chance to yet. I gladly did, especially after the mess with LilJewel, and was on her doorstep at the expected time. She met me at the door in a black nightie with a hug and a peck and ushered me inside. Candice was a very, very personable and sweet woman. We talked for a few minutes, allowing me to get nerves in check and cool off as it was a really hot afternoon that day. We talked about likes and dislikes, and then got comfortable. Now this next part is something that I've decided is VERY much what I prefer in a session with a provider.. and brings up an interesting debate.. GFE versus FWB (Friends with Benefits). Personally... I'm not a huge fan of GFE. After awhile.. many, many sessions having been spent with a lass... you might know each other enough where the passion and comfort level is something that could be considered GFE. That takes time tho. Anything that is considered GFE before ample time being spent.. in my opinion.. is an acting job by the lass, albeit a good acting job one would hope. I've never appreciated faking things tho, and as such, if TOO much time is spent acting swooned or enraptured, it would bring me out of the moment as I'd spot the 'tells' of where the act was interwoven into the session. For me.... give me a damn good FWB session every time. I don't want a GF... they're expensive, and there is drama sometimes too. Give me a lass that lives down the street that is fun to hang out with, picks up the check as often as expects you too, and every now and again just wants to get utterly scrogged senseless while making your toes curl into new and entertaining positions. ;) From my limited time so far with Candice... that's what I expect that she is, or at least can be if personalities are copacetic. We talked, laughed, scrogged each other quite nicely, and then talked and laughed some more whilst enjoying our personal afterglows. She muted her phone.. she didn't watch the clock.. and it was just about me during our time together. I appreciated all of that.. a lot. When I was heading out, she gave me a big warm hug with a nice kiss chaser, and stated that she wanted to see me again soon. I was very pleased with the entire time... and from start to end it was a very genuine FWB session. I'll visit her again when my schedule frees up next month, but in the meantime I give her a thumbs up for anyone considering seeing her on here. :)
Hope this helps..
Jay
Oh.. and anyone that DOES see her.. feel free to remind her that 'Doc' states that she needs to keep drinking more water, and lay off the acidic sodas. ;)
This brought a smile to my face.
[QUOTE=PhatDaty;1781832]No one is bullying her. She can do CBJ if she wants to, but she then needs to stop advertising herself as GFE. CBJ is not and never has been acceptable as GFE level services. If she can dupe folks like you into providing non GFE services at double the price the best GFE gals in our town offer, more power to both of you.[/QUOTE]And in her latest ad, she quotes 10000 per minute for PhatDaty. Got to wonder if that includes BBBJ.
No that's just for letting him get within 10' of her.
[QUOTE=Phlasher;1782381]And in her latest ad, she quotes 10000 per minute for PhatDaty. Got to wonder if that includes BBBJ.[/QUOTE]As far as BBBJ she'll require him to wear a triple bag. (is that a CCCBJ?) LOL