Nothing that even remotely interested me, outside the ones that clearly state several times only platonic, and have logged in, in the last few weeks.
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Nothing that even remotely interested me, outside the ones that clearly state several times only platonic, and have logged in, in the last few weeks.
I've had really good luck with cuddle sites both in Orlando and while traveling in different parts of the US, so I wanted to share some things I have learned if you want to try this offshoot of the hobby.
- It is incredibly YMMV. You have to be OK with a normal straight cuddle session. Think of it as a way to get some good reviews on the cuddle sites if you don't get any extras.
- Do not hint that you want extras in any way on the cuddle sites or while texting the girls. Even girls that I had good luck with all mentioned that they don't like it when guys hint and will frequently block or report them.
- The girl is in charge! Let her lead the session and be comfortable with you. When you start a session most girls will ask what position you want to cuddle in first. Let her decide. Saying something like "What do you feel comfortable with" will help her feel safe and know she is in charge.
- Do not grind. Once again, let her make the first move. Patience is a virtue! If you get hard it is OK to mention it and apologize and see how she reacts.
- Look good and smell good. Think of it as you are going on a date. You want her to be interested in you and WANT to take it further.
- Don't stress too much about what they put in their profiles, ones with huge disclaimers about no sex have fooled around and ones without cleavage pics have jumped on top of me. I personally ignore non-pros because they seem to be filled with time wasters and lots of back and forth.
The cuddle girls seem to break down to three groups in my experience.
50% - girls that will not do anything except cuddle. No extras, no nothing. Cuddling can still be fun and refreshing but you will not get anything at all.
25% - girls that are basically sex workers. These are ones that will expect extra $$ for extras. This could be anything from a HJ to FS to a naked cuddle with you being allowed to grind against her. But be prepared with extra cash. One of the ones I had fun with a few times offered for a "topless cuddle" for an extra $100 on the first session. She then allowed me to grind on her pussy to completion later on. Most will be obvious about the upcharge when they feel comfortable with you.
25% - this is the fun group. Girls that may be willing to fool around because they get turned on or like you and do not expect (or sometimes even want) extra $$. You will notice the signs with this group. They will start to gently hump your leg or give you kisses right by your lips. But let them guide the session. I had one that would only let me go down on her, no service to me at all! Money can get akward with this group because they clearly aren't SW. I generally give them a few extra bucks as a "tip" or "for their extra time" since these sessions will almost always run long.
Hope this helps!
My experience was great, easy set up, met her at her hotel and took care of the donation up front (she advertised as pro).
She asked how I wanted to cuddle and we laid spooned on the bed me behind her as we chatted about our lives. My hand was right up under her breast and I just casually moved it up and asked if it was okay if I touched her there. She said that was fine if there would be a tip. I agreed and up came the shirt and bra. We continued the same way chatting and me fondling her breat for about 20 minutes when I whispered in her ear if she'd remove the rest of her clothes. She said"You want to play?" Boom we got down to multiple positions with 2 pops.
Money was never discussed, I gave her $. 5 and she never even counted it. A nice hug and a promise to see her again when she's back in town.
[QUOTE=OnTheGoInMco;6092497]I've had really good luck with cuddle sites both in Orlando and while traveling in different parts of the US, so I wanted to share some things I have learned if you want to try this offshoot of the hobby.
- It is incredibly YMMV. You have to be OK with a normal straight cuddle session. Think of it as a way to get some good reviews on the cuddle sites if you don't get any extras.
- Do not hint that you want extras in any way on the cuddle sites or while texting the girls. Even girls that I had good luck with all mentioned that they don't like it when guys hint and will frequently block or report them.
- The girl is in charge! Let her lead the session and be comfortable with you. When you start a session most girls will ask what position you want to cuddle in first. Let her decide. Saying something like "What do you feel comfortable with" will help her feel safe and know she is in charge.
- Do not grind. Once again, let her make the first move. Patience is a virtue! If you get hard it is OK to mention it and apologize and see how she reacts.
- Look good and smell good. Think of it as you are going on a date. You want her to be interested in you and WANT to take it further.
- Don't stress too much about what they put in their profiles, ones with huge disclaimers about no sex have fooled around and ones without cleavage pics have jumped on top of me. I personally ignore non-pros because they seem to be filled with time wasters and lots of back and forth.
The cuddle girls seem to break down to three groups in my experience.
50% - girls that will not do anything except cuddle. No extras, no nothing. Cuddling can still be fun and refreshing but you will not get anything at all.
25% - girls that are basically sex workers. These are ones that will expect extra $$ for extras. This could be anything from a HJ to FS to a naked cuddle with you being allowed to grind against her. But be prepared with extra cash. One of the ones I had fun with a few times offered for a "topless cuddle" for an extra $100 on the first session. She then allowed me to grind on her pussy to completion later on. Most will be obvious about the upcharge when they feel comfortable with you.
25% - this is the fun group. Girls that may be willing to fool around because they get turned on or like you and do not expect (or sometimes even want) extra $$. You will notice the signs with this group. They will start to gently hump your leg or give you kisses right by your lips. But let them guide the session. I had one that would only let me go down on her, no service to me at all! Money can get akward with this group because they clearly aren't SW. I generally give them a few extra bucks as a "tip" or "for their extra time" since these sessions will almost always run long.
Hope this helps![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Bugs2112;6093156]My experience was great, easy set up, met her at her hotel and took care of the donation up front (she advertised as pro).
She asked how I wanted to cuddle and we laid spooned on the bed me behind her as we chatted about our lives. My hand was right up under her breast and I just casually moved it up and asked if it was okay if I touched her there. She said that was fine if there would be a tip. I agreed and up came the shirt and bra. We continued the same way chatting and me fondling her breat for about 20 minutes when I whispered in her ear if she'd remove the rest of her clothes. She said"You want to play?" Boom we got down to multiple positions with 2 pops.
Money was never discussed, I gave her $. 5 and she never even counted it. A nice hug and a promise to see her again when she's back in town.[/QUOTE]Who and what site? Link?
Excellent advice, OntheGo!
In short, be a perfect gentleman on your first date with her. If she wants more while cuddling she'll show you. On my first cuddle I was very cautious, then she started rubbing my arm to direct where to go. A week later I was cuddling and making lazy circles on another gal's stomach, getting close to her breasts. After a couple of passes, she picked up my hand and dropped it on her breast. No mixed messages there. I let out a laugh because it reminded me of an experience I had with "heavy petting" when I was a teenager.
Go with the flow. If she wants to talk, you talk. Better still, if you can, make her laugh. If she wants to switch cuddling positions often, let her. Don't let her get bored. Ask her if she is comfortable if she doesn't ask you first. And if she says no to more, act like you don't mind. She might only be postponing it, and taking note how you react. And remember with some girls, they might be just playing games.
One cuddler told me a guy who smelled bad tried to snuggle up close face to face right away. She was turned off right away and it was an awkward few minutes before they just quit. Don't be that guy.
SJ.
[QUOTE=OnTheGoInMco;6092497]I've had really good luck with cuddle sites both in Orlando and while traveling in different parts of the US, so I wanted to share some things I have learned if you want to try this offshoot of the hobby.
- It is incredibly YMMV. You have to be OK with a normal straight cuddle session. Think of it as a way to get some good reviews on the cuddle sites if you don't get any extras.
- Do not hint that you want extras in any way on the cuddle sites or while texting the girls. Even girls that I had good luck with all mentioned that they don't like it when guys hint and will frequently block or report them.
- The girl is in charge! Let her lead the session and be comfortable with you. When you start a session most girls will ask what position you want to cuddle in first. Let her decide. Saying something like "What do you feel comfortable with" will help her feel safe and know she is in charge.
- Do not grind. Once again, let her make the first move. Patience is a virtue! If you get hard it is OK to mention it and apologize and see how she reacts.
- Look good and smell good. Think of it as you are going on a date. You want her to be interested in you and WANT to take it further.
- Don't stress too much about what they put in their profiles, ones with huge disclaimers about no sex have fooled around and ones without cleavage pics have jumped on top of me. I personally ignore non-pros because they seem to be filled with time wasters and lots of back and forth.
The cuddle girls seem to break down to three groups in my experience.
50% - girls that will not do anything except cuddle. No extras, no nothing. Cuddling can still be fun and refreshing but you will not get anything at all.
25% - girls that are basically sex workers. These are ones that will expect extra $$ for extras. This could be anything from a HJ to FS to a naked cuddle with you being allowed to grind against her. But be prepared with extra cash. One of the ones I had fun with a few times offered for a "topless cuddle" for an extra $100 on the first session. She then allowed me to grind on her pussy to completion later on. Most will be obvious about the upcharge when they feel comfortable with you.
25% - this is the fun group. Girls that may be willing to fool around because they get turned on or like you and do not expect (or sometimes even want) extra $$. You will notice the signs with this group. They will start to gently hump your leg or give you kisses right by your lips. But let them guide the session. I had one that would only let me go down on her, no service to me at all! Money can get akward with this group because they clearly aren't SW. I generally give them a few extra bucks as a "tip" or "for their extra time" since these sessions will almost always run long.
Hope this helps![/QUOTE]
You al are making me curious about this option. Can anyone PM me a few recommendations of cuddlers? Going to begin looking now. Thanks !
Just signed up for CC. Any recommendations?
Hey GDriver and Heywood2020. I'm going to PM you with some thoughts. It is incredibly YMMV so what worked for me may not work for you. My current fav is taking a break from the site so I don't have a direct suggestion but I can try to help!
[URL]https://orlando.craigslist.org/hws/d/winter-park-cuddle-therapy/7526864833.html[/URL]
She said 1 per hr was curious if anyone hit this yet?
[QUOTE=OnTheGoInMco;6098242]Hey GDriver and Heywood2020. I'm going to PM you with some thoughts. It is incredibly YMMV so what worked for me may not work for you. My current fav is taking a break from the site so I don't have a direct suggestion but I can try to help![/QUOTE]Also just signed up for CC and made some requests. Any more info would help immensely.
[QUOTE=MachoManSavage;6098986]Also just signed up for CC and made some requests. Any more info would help immensely.[/QUOTE]Just signed up too. Looks like there are very slim pickings in Orlando.
Those of us who've gotten some extra cuddle action understand the importance of keeping things low key. These are ladies who have jobs, families, and for the most part not SWs. If we're going to trade intel let's keep it via PM!
Wise words have been spoken.
[QUOTE=Whiskeysours;6100017]Those of us who've gotten some extra cuddle action understand the importance of keeping things low key. These are ladies who have jobs, families, and for the most part not SWs. If we're going to trade intel let's keep it via PM![/QUOTE]
She wants a pic of you before you get a pic of her. Good luck with that.
[QUOTE=WhydouCare;6098584][URL]https://orlando.craigslist.org/hws/d/winter-park-cuddle-therapy/7526864833.html[/URL]
She said 1 per hr was curious if anyone hit this yet?[/QUOTE]
Just send a pic of someone that looks similar to you.
[QUOTE=IAmAshamed;6102845]She wants a pic of you before you get a pic of her. Good luck with that.[/QUOTE]