Schemes Escorts will try to Do
[QUOTE=Nkykinkyguy;1108853]...If HotSquirt was not able to attend the appointment then why schedule it, then try and switch the hobbyist to another provider. Why not just say I can't make that time and reschedule for another time or offer the hobbyist the option of the other provider at the time of setting the appointment?[/QUOTE][b]It's called Bait & Switch and most will try doing it to hobbyist. For instance, a group of providers will help each other and one will lure a hobbyist to their in-call or even an out-call place with another girl in the hopes that the hobbyist will go along with the change. Obviously they have done it before and they're going to take the gamble. [/b]
[QUOTE=Nkykinkyguy; 1108853]As far as the hobbyist is concerned, Why would you settle for a provider that you didn't schedule with and was not attracted to? Why not just say thanks but no thanks and leave with your consideration in tack?
KG[/QUOTE][b]Well lets look at the Hobbyist's point of view. First he was all "UP & READY" for a good time if you know what I mean. He probably traveled a good distance to the provider's place. In other words he has invested his time here and wants a "GOOD TIME" and really doesn't want to go home not having some fun. He might had this planned and won't have another open time in awhile. Hobbyist's are busy people and their time is just as valuable.
So he breaks down and goes for the "SWITCH" since he is there. His little head is telling him so because he has like a couple of seconds to decide since he was dropped a bomb.
He doesn't want to create waves and feels he's could lose out on another time with the provider he wants to see.
KG it's real easy to make a judgement after the FACT but sometimes while you're in the middle of a situation the little head takes over and you later regret your decision. We all been there.
Problem lies with the Provider's setting up the appointment and sticking to the agreement once made.
Many guys probably gone through this and even worst like "No show" and my favorite "They call you and set the time back sometimes an hour later".
Personally I've been through these and more. And YES I had said "NO THANKS" and gotten some hostile response. Also IMHO you could be in a situation where you might be set up for a robbery. They're wanting your money any way they can get it.
When a Provider shows some dishonesty. There is cause to be alarm and probably avoid.
Just my 2-cents and years of experience.
Harpo[/b]
Good to hear from you Harpo
I agree it part or in whole everything that you stated. I have previously extolled on this board my disdain for the repeated bait and switch tactics used my a few unsavory rip-off artists.
My post was to try and politely bring to light this issue again without causing a firestorm of controversy. If a new hobbyist will take the time to read the entire forum (I know it is long and there are periods of worthless dribble) there is also an absolute treasure troth of knowledge there for anyone new or old to either use or refresh themselves with the proper way to conduct yourself in the hobby.
No different than the 22 rules of mongering, there is a proper way to conduct oneself with escorts / providers. Time after time hobbyists have reported that the bait and switch tactic rarely if ever produces a satisfactory result. An educated hobbyist will realize this and chalk it up to another good piece of Intel rather that letting it become a rip-off report. Much like the hobbyist that frequent the street walker scene, some days you can cruise all you want but there is nothing there worth the time effort, risk or money. They chalk it up to recon work and go home, cash in hand rather than risk getting caught up in a sting or picking up an extremely questionable "Ride".
Guys keep you money and wait for a better opportunity, I know we all get 'The fire down below' but I know from personal experience the feeling of heading home less my cash and no satisfaction to boot is way worse than an empty trip. At least I have my cash for a better day.
Like I said I agree in whole or part everything you posted Harpo but the bottom line is that as an educated hobbyist you know that if you take the bait and then accept the switch then there is a 99% chance you will be posting your report in the rip-off thread.
What if you are not educated? Then take the necessary time to read all of the forum threads, ask questions (After reading the forum LOL) and do your home work before becoming a victim. In other words get educated before entering the fray. Trust me guys (Harpo will back me up on this) the women don't love you, they don't like you, they don't even need you. What they want, need and will do anything in their power that you will allow them to do to you is get your money.
One of my most confusing encounters of my years in the hobby was after a very nice one hour 'Date' that included a nice tip; I called my 'DATE' back to tell her once again what a great time I had. During the conversation she informed me she had no other appointments scheduled for the day. Since it was late afternoon I offered to treat her to happy hour and dinner. Now remember this was just after our date and she had no other appointments scheduled. She told me that she would be happy to join me and since we had just had such a good time together she would only charge me .60 an hour for our dinner date. After the initial shock wore off I informed her that I wasn't looking to book a 'DATE' that I was just trying to be a gentleman and offer her some time out of her hotel room on me. Her response was that her time is money so agree to her terms or she wasn't interested. As you can see it is all about your money. She would rather sit in a hotel room alone than have someone buy her dinner and drinks after just being paid.
I know that some of you are thinking well it is probably me and not the money. This same provider has contacted me at least five times since to try and schedule a 'Date' so always remember it is not you (Whether see wants to see you for a 'Date' or doesn't want to have dinner and drinks with you) it is your money. So, keep it in your pocket until you are sure that you are going to get what you pay for. I will say that not all providers are this way, as I have had dinner and drinks "Off the clock" with a few exceptional providers but they are the exception not the rule, hence the term exceptional LOL!
Happy Hunting and be safe everyone.
KG.
P. S. Guys if you are not familiar with Harpo just eliminate the trouble and take his word as gospel because he has forgotten more about the hobby than most of us will ever know. IMHO he is on the extreme short list for the monger Hall of Fame.