My last post didn't include the profile picture but I have been texting this one back and forth. Wants help with the rent. It's a little to much for my blood. Hopefully someone else talks her down LOL.
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My last post didn't include the profile picture but I have been texting this one back and forth. Wants help with the rent. It's a little to much for my blood. Hopefully someone else talks her down LOL.
I was able to see her! It was a little on the high side but it was worth it Profile MIGHT be down as she claim to be only looking for 1 person but that's what I tell them too! 😀.
[QUOTE=Yellow78;5919613]Any info on this one? We exchanged numbers said she was looking for one SD to help on her rent. Look like she is new to the site but did respond. Will report back with info myself as well. If I get past 1st base.[/QUOTE]Details will help.lol Who are you referring to?
Got info on Dree.
[QUOTE=BumbaCloth;5913758]Anyone talked or met any of them.
Silva.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd62f087-b2a8-4b77-9798-5ea28d8ad16e[/URL]
Thissitesucks.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6a05b6c8-b059-4ce9-a2c2-309275413e2b[/URL]
Deebee.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/764918ba-cd97-43b4-a26a-bbcacc4e4c80[/URL]
Piecesbaby.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be162516-b8f2-42ac-89ea-30dbdcb92d95[/URL]
Dree.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eac541a5-8b59-4a7e-9dea-de8cd33ea94f[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Yellow78;5919915]I was able to see her! It was a little on the high side but it was worth it Profile MIGHT be down as she claim to be only looking for 1 person but that's what I tell them too! 😀.[/QUOTE]Gemini is the new Honey. Long time SB mongers will know who I'm talking about. Well, maybe not new, as she's been around for years. Like a door knob, everyone has had a turn with her. Not hating, but she is a true definition of a player, LOL. No doubt a good time, but just know you are getting more a pro than the "girl next door" type. Wrap up boys!
[QUOTE=Unassuming2018;5920276]Gemini is the new Honey. Long time SB mongers will know who I'm talking about. Well, maybe not new, as she's been around for years. Like a door knob, everyone has had a turn with her. Not hating, but she is a true definition of a player, LOL. No doubt a good time, but just know you are getting more a pro than the "girl next door" type. Wrap up boys![/QUOTE]More guys should take this line of thinking to almost every girl that you meet on SA. Unless you're in there very early, there's almost always an additional 3-5 guys taking her down.
Can someone explain how a woman can favorite you or send you a message without having viewed your profile? I am between subscriptions and cannot read the message and do not want to pay another $90 if these are bots. I usually subscribe every 3 months and by then many are no longer active or have deleted their accounts. Just trying to get the best bang for the buck with SA and like many, want a good list to work. I'm older so I'm not as active as many of you.
So checking out SA last night I happened to see a familiar face on there. She's someone I have known for quite a while, first through work and on FB for years. A friend in common had mentioned me positively and the sb candidate had added that even years later she still thought about me all the time.
My account there doesn't have my real name or a picture, I've been there mostly for browsing until now. I signed up for a month using a card only I have access to, so the Sra won't find out. I messaged her saying I noticed she wanted discretion, and that I was, too. I also complemented her and asked her to reply if she was interested. She did, and wanted to know exactly what I wanted. I took a page from the guys on here and said I was looking for a typical arrangement. Discreet meetings, a connection but also intimacy and helping her with expenses from time to time. She replied that she was definitely interested, so we messaged back and forth on SA for a while.
I asked how she would like to move forward, and she said she'd never done anything like this and that I should lead. Sounds good to me! I said we should meet somewhere neutral and see if we click and want to take it more intimate, and she agreed. So two separate mentions of intimacy and she's still on board. I know from FB she can get raunchy, so things are looking good. We moved to texting (burner number on my part!) and have been idly chatting for a while.
So the short of it is, she's less than half my age, but knows my age from my profile. She's gorgeous and hits all the buttons for what I look for. I've been thinking about this girl for a long time! She doesn't know we know each other yet. So here's the thing. What's the best way to bring that up? Before the meet? And how? "by the way." Surprise her there?
I had a similar situation with another longtime FB friend who had been on OF and Snap. I anonymously signed up for both and she is a truly nasty (in a good way!) lady! We had been chatting and she kept wanting to see me, and I finally fessed up. Turned out she had been into me since we met, and has been going overboard on connecting since she found out. She's in a different state, so unless she comes back here it will just be video chats and such. Although she does get back here from time to time.
So I've got one successful connection like that, and I really want this one to work out. Especially since she is actually local and seems willing to head to the FC!
Tips?
[QUOTE=Passport4;5929819]Can someone explain how a woman can favorite you or send you a message without having viewed your profile? I am between subscriptions and cannot read the message and do not want to pay another $90 if these are bots. I usually subscribe every 3 months and by then many are no longer active or have deleted their accounts. Just trying to get the best bang for the buck with SA and like many, want a good list to work. I'm older so I'm not as active as many of you.[/QUOTE]They're likely browsing via their phone and in "thumbnail" view. That particular browsing view acts like a slide deck and allows you to scroll photos and choose to favorite or send a message- without ever viewing the profile.
[QUOTE=SrUnderbridge;5930992]So checking out SA last night I happened to see a familiar face on there. She's someone I have known for quite a while, first through work and on FB for years. A friend in common had mentioned me positively and the sb candidate had added that even years later she still thought about me all the time.
My account there doesn't have my real name or a picture, I've been there mostly for browsing until now. I signed up for a month using a card only I have access to, so the Sra won't find out. I messaged her saying I noticed she wanted discretion, and that I was, too. I also complemented her and asked her to reply if she was interested. She did, and wanted to know exactly what I wanted. I took a page from the guys on here and said I was looking for a typical arrangement. Discreet meetings, a connection but also intimacy and helping her with expenses from time to time. She replied that she was definitely interested, so we messaged back and forth on SA for a while.
I asked how she would like to move forward, and she said she'd never done anything like this and that I should lead. Sounds good to me! I said we should meet somewhere neutral and see if we click and want to take it more intimate, and she agreed. So two separate mentions of intimacy and she's still on board. I know from FB she can get raunchy, so things are looking good. We moved to texting (burner number on my part!) and have been idly chatting for a while.
So the short of it is, she's less than half my age, but knows my age from my profile. She's gorgeous and hits all the buttons for what I look for. I've been thinking about this girl for a long time! She doesn't know we know each other yet. So here's the thing. What's the best way to bring that up? Before the meet? And how? "by the way." Surprise her there?[/QUOTE]If you can't trust that she will maintain discretion, or if you think it might come back to cause you problems (and seriously, think about this all the way through with the big head): Ghost her and move on. No matter how tempting it is, it's not worth it.
Otherwise, if you can trust her: Bring it up before meeting, do not surprise her in person. I would be surprised if she didn't ask for a pic before setting plans to meet anyway.
Before sending a picture, if it were me, I would try to play it as if there was a possibility it wasn't her. Perhaps something like, "hey, you remind me of this girl I know from (place she would know) who I always wanted to get with". Give her a way to make the connection without directly saying, "actually this is Bob from accounting who you used to work with five years ago". You want to try to make her comfortable with you and the idea of meeting you, especially if she's as new to this as she says.
[QUOTE=SrUnderbridge;5930992]So checking out SA last night I happened to see a familiar face on there. She's someone I have known for quite a while, first through work and on FB for years.[/QUOTE]If you're not confident enough about her discretion to hit on her via FB or whatever, then you probably shouldn't be hitting on her via SA.
This is really good advice. I think it would be a bad idea to start a SB / SD relationship with someone that knows too much personal information about you. If things go bad, they could use this as leverage against you. Especially if you have an SO. I had a similar situation with a coworker that I penned here. It's on page 120 of this forum if anyone is interested in reading it. It came out later that she was in fact looking for a SB / SD relationship and she even offered to "take care" of me on a regular basis while we were at work if I would, in exchange, cover some bills for her on a regular basis. As bad as I wanted to smash it, I told her no and I was honest with her when I told her why. It was a good decision because she left our place of employment less than a year later and it was not on good terms. She smeared a lot of our coworkers before she left and continues to do so on social media. She's a train wreck.
[QUOTE=Johnny5;5932984]If you can't trust that she will maintain discretion, or if you think it might come back to cause you problems (and seriously, think about this all the way through with the big head): Ghost her and move on. No matter how tempting it is, it's not worth it.
Otherwise, if you can trust her: Bring it up before meeting, do not surprise her in person. I would be surprised if she didn't ask for a pic before setting plans to meet anyway.
Before sending a picture, if it were me, I would try to play it as if there was a possibility it wasn't her. Perhaps something like, "hey, you remind me of this girl I know from (place she would know) who I always wanted to get with". Give her a way to make the connection without directly saying, "actually this is Bob from accounting who you used to work with five years ago". You want to try to make her comfortable with you and the idea of meeting you, especially if she's as new to this as she says.[/QUOTE]
So I was texting her (she'd given me her real number), and she said that she was nervous and shy, but got better after the first meeting. So I asked what if it wasn't a first meeting? Blah, blah, blah. I tell her who I am and she's terribly embarassed that someone she knows saw her on the sb site. We'd had a date and time set up, but obviously that fell through.
She's still hitting Seeking, though, so I guess this didn't put her off the concept completely.
I got a post from "Brenda" that just said "Hi", but she had huge tits so I answered back. Her reply incuded her phone number and she says to text her. I did and she sent along the pics below. She immediately says she's up for outcall or incall, or "content". I asked what her rates were, and she said 2 Benjies for the HH and 4 for the hour. No mention of deposit of prepay. Her content is awfully pricy, and even with her sayong she was flexible on price only dropped it to fifty. Wondering if anyone has seen her yet. I'd post the SA link, but not surprisingly it's gone now.
[QUOTE=SrUnderbridge;5936294]So I was texting her (she'd given me her real number), and she said that she was nervous and shy, but got better after the first meeting. So I asked what if it wasn't a first meeting? Blah, blah, blah. I tell her who I am and she's terribly embarassed that someone she knows saw her on the sb site. We'd had a date and time set up, but obviously that fell through.
She's still hitting Seeking, though, so I guess this didn't put her off the concept completely.[/QUOTE]Not how I would've gone about it but you took the shot, that's all the counts.
Let her cool off and then circle back if you REALLY want to go that route. She may find herself loving the idea but one of the other SA idiots will fuck up and show her that sometimes it's easier to go with the devil you "Know".